judgements made on your hands?

[jill c]

Six weeks ago, i opened the closet door. I asked to wear her panties as we made love. she had no problem. a few days later she bought a my own panties while we were at Walmart. Since she allowed me to wear a bra as we did the deed on 3 seperate occassions. We talked about a soft night gown for myself. She looked aout and finally orderd 2 from Lane Bryant. This was this week.

We never had "the talk". i have just asked if i can or tell het that i would like to ....

i have worn panties 7*24 for 6 weeks, worn clear nail polish for the same (she applied it after i bought it), worn black tights to work under the levis.

this is all good!

here is my question / issue. She commented that she was going to soften those hands, elbows, and feet. The rough skin has been filed and covered with creams. The skin is much softer. My hands have have became very smooth rather than rough. i am afraid that this will bring questions as i shake hands ... i know that i used to question if the guy ever did a days work as his hands were so soft. i am now there.

anyone have negative reactions from sporting soft hands?

or am i just being paranoid?


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Jill C.

[Joy Carter]

Paranoid :eek: . Hun I have pierced both my ears and plan on going further with some subtle body mods. Not a word from a soul. I wouldn't be a afraid of soft hands.:D

[Chiana]

I would think a good frim handshake would go along way in preventing anyone from noticing softer hands.

So, exactly what is she doing to get those results?

[michele_t39]

Hi Jill,

I have a SO that doesn't let on that she knows.

Have pushed the envelope at work for 6 months or so. I am TRYING to feminize my life. So actually it would be a compliment for someone to notice soft hands on me. I was on a business trip recently and got the opportunity to go enfemme both nights away. The sweet thing was this. I had left clear "nail hardener" on my nails. At breakfast the next morning the waitress called me Miss. I am not sure it was because of the polish or not but I am suspecting so. She was embarrassed but I asked her to sit down for a sec and was able to make her feel at ease. The point is that I was so pleased she called me Miss. It was a very positive thing for me.

My question for you is this. Tell us what you use to soften your skin? I can really only do what I need to in secret at this point but am willing to give anything a try.

[MJ]

hi there well just before i went full time dressing. i had pierced both my ears twice, eyebrows shaped feminine, and soft hands. and the funny thing was while in drab " male mode " no one said anything to me.. not even my gg friends . just after that i came out full time. then thats when i got the questions. i think you should just relax..
hugs Marissa

[jill c]

For the feet, coat the foot with vasoline and wear a pair of white socks to bed. i did this for a few nights. the heels were still rough, so a foot file was used to remove the rough/dead skin. looking back, i should have used the belt sander? i did not like wearing the socks. she got avon brand "foot works" pads. you take a pad and wipe it over the heels. there were 22 pads in the jar. so this was done for 22 days.

the elbows were covered with dry skin. an emery board "sanded" down to a layer of skin. this was done a little at a time over a week - i stopped when the dry skin stopped coating the emery board and falling onto the table. i never removed skin until the elbows were "raw".

on the hands, i used the foot file and emery boards to sand the callouses (spelling?). over about 4 weeks of filing every few days, they are abraded away. they were coverd with callouses as i work in a plant, weld at home, and own small farm. the sell gloves to be worn for a night treatment, but i use cotton work gloves. cover the hands with vasoline and wear the gloves to bed. i really hated wearing the gloves!

the next morning, remove the gloves and wash off what has not been absorbed. a lot will go into the gloves as well as the skin.

then each day - a hand cream a few times each day.


i have to wear leather gloves to protect the hands now or i will goet blisters. i got 3 one day. i learend my lesson. i used to be able to handle a hot plate - not so now.

not AMA recommended - but it worked for me and the wife.

let me know if it works for you

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jill c