confusion from wife ????????

[Jodi Lynn]

Hello all, a few weeks ago I posted about my wife needing some panties, so I gave her some of mine, that she took them and wore without any problem. Well this morning she was looking for a clean bra, (seems that she just can't get the wash done anymore). So I, being the every helpful one that I am, offered her one of mine to wear. Now today that was a mistake. She said no and that she should burn all my things. So she keeps me guessing as to how far I should go with this. Guess she didn't need one that bad. She ended up putting on a tank top with a built in bra and a sweater over it. Can't say I am not trying to get her to open up and talk to me about my dressing. I have to say things have opened up more now then when she first found out about Jodi. Two years ago I would have never even though about letting her use my cloths.

[Calliope]

She said no and that she should burn all my things. So she keeps me guessing as to how far I should go with this.

Don't kid yourself. She hates your dressing and would appreciate it if you wouldn't puncture her bubble of denial. As far as how 'far to go' with your dressing, it's up to you.

[Tiffy]

You know when I met my wife she had recently had a boyfriend who was a CD. She told me it was wrong, nasty, and she never wanted to see a man that way again. She found out about 4 or 5 years ago now. And today she is my best supporter and we trade stuff daily and she reminds me to dress when I am home. So maybe it will just take time.

However, some are never lucky enough to have the spport of their loved ones at all. So since it is better now than 2 years ago. I would say that slow is good as long as there is progress.

Tiffy

[donna h]

You are lucky to have what you have,go slowly.As for me we had "the talk" a year ago October and seemed to be moving ahead, we set up boudaries etc, and I abided by them.She then changed and all communication was ended.At the time for the first time in my life I felt good about myself ,saw progress made. That is over and Im back to insecure and unhappy feelings Im sure many here know about.I guess the saying about women changing there mind rings true again for you and me. Good luck.

[TeriAnn]

I know that when some folks read this they are going to say I am repeating myself. In this case I don't mind because my wife is very accepting of my crossdressing and has never had a problem with me doing it. We had been married for 6 years when I figured it best to tell her. I knew that there could be bad results but just the opposit happened , I am very fortunate indeed to have a loving and caring wife in my BluBird. She even borrows my skirts or stockings when she needs to I think it is great. Honest to me is the best policy