what was your first time out enfemme like?

[samantha78]

for me it was scary!! I was shaking like a leave on a tree and my so was also!!

[Karren H]

Complete terror and extreeme joy all wrapped into one....almost passed out.. lol

Love Karren

[melissaabom]

I was shaking !! Really It was wondeful and the toughest part was being at a red light !

I thought every one was staring at me ! ...at 10 pm


Melissa

[Amy Hepker]

My first time out by myself was the time I was driving to a Crossdress meeting. I was wearing a peach colored dress and was driving a little Ford Courrier pick up. It was day light when I left and I was getting some strange looks going down the Interstate. A lady in a dress in an old little pickup. It was a blast.

[trannie T]

My first time out was on Haloween several years ago. I checked into a hotel, did my makeup, got dressed and went to the elevator. I got in the empty car, nobody else was riding, cool. Went down one floor and the door opened, I terrified as two couples entered. They looked me over, laughed a bit then went back to their own business. I got off the elevator at the ground floor and teetered across the parking lot to a bar and had a great time for the rest of the night.
I'm still terrified for a few minutes when I go out but I always have a great time. For those of you that are still afraid to leave the closet.pull up your panties and get out of the house!

[Adrienne Heels]

My first time out was while away on a business trip in Florida. I didn't know anyone in the hotel, so I didn't care, even though I was IMMEDIATELY clocked in the elevator by a GG. My first stop was Bloomingdale's to get a makeover and buy my makeup. Once my face was done, I was confident enough to walk around the mall and shop in Macy's. I guess it is a lot easier 1500 miles from home!

[Janailene]

First time out was in 1953 when I took my dog for a walk around the bolck we lived on. I was terrified that one of our neighblors would recognise me. There was no question as I now look at it that they knew our dog. Well, who is walking the "X"'s dog? Oh, it is there son in drag!!! It never dawned on me!!!

[MJ]

scared to death. i went grocery shopping Sunday morning the place was packed and my first time in heels "boots". what was i thinking. anyway i got through it OK. missed a lot of supply's i needed but hey i had to do it. i had no choice :eek: i had no guy cloths anymore thanks to my gg friend she took them all :mad: said i did not need them anymore..

[Alice Torn]

I went to a town, a few hours away, to a motel.. At night, I dressed up, put male pants, shoes, and coat over my lady stuff, drove, to a lot, stripped off guy stuff, drove down into downtown area, almost went into a store, but could not go in. Looked at newspaper stands, went back to car, went to gas station, and pumped gas. A few people saw me. Them I drove and tried to go in the store, but did not, then, went to another gas station, and got a little gas. One lady gave me an odd look. Drove back to motel, and two guys stopped me on my way in, and asked me something. My lipstick may have shown. Went back into motel. I was wearing ashort dress, dark hose, and black high heels.At six foot ten, in heels, I stick out like a sore thumb, and don't go out much. Lucille

[Janelle d'Amour]

Terrifying, exhilarating, liberating...in that order. :)

[Delila]

Since I am aparently the only one that said I was confident I should say why. My first time out was on halloween I was with friends and inside a house I was totally secure sometime during the evening we had to go out to pick up supplies and everything went amazingly well. All in all I am very comfortable going out at halloween time I am just a coward the rest of the year.

[RaeCD]

I was scared to death to go out the first time, after i got out it wasnt bad and had some fun.

[Joy Carter]

[QUOTE=RaeCD;660675]I was scared to death to go out the first time,

NOPE ! I walked out the door with my friend Teresa and had a super good time. My only regret was I was late getting there.

[Teddie]

I also just walked out the door with my wife, across the condo parking lot with peopel at the nearby pool, got in the car, drove around the island for a little while, stopped at an ice cream parlor, sat at a table, and had an ice cream cone.

[Teresa Amina]

The only nervous part was talking to a salesgirl at Coldwater Creek where I returned a couple oversize things (gotta read those size charts carefully:D ). That seemed to take forever, but she was real nice and treated me like any other lady in the place.
It helped that it was a long drive first and I was meeting up with Joy at a TG picnic. Nice to start with a welcoming group of people then go interact with the "real" world.:happy:

[slamddoger]

it was scary for me i was shaking like a life

[Angie G]

It had to be great I'm still doing it almost 50 years now and still loving it :hugs:
Angie

[Diana West]

The fear I felt was the same fear one feels on a roller coaster.
Exhilarating fear.
I was so nervous when I ventured out into the cold night air. All that nervousness caused me to breathe heavy. With the frigid temperatures, I must've look like a train walking down the street.

[JoAnnDallas]

The first time I went out in the daylight, I bet if my doctor had taken my blood pressure and heart rate, she would have put me in the hospital. I could feel my heart racing the whole time. LOL

[marie354]

Thinking back... Way back. My first wife and her girlfriend dressed me up for a halloween party we had. I was very nervous. Stood in a corner as the guests arrived and the girls came over and started to talk girl talk. Kinda of silly talk about the other guys there. They didn't know until I said HI! I've always had a deep voice. All it all, it was a fun night.

[Jennaie]

I was terrified and embarrassed. It took 4 years for me get up the courage to try it again.

[Veronica P]

Twenty feet from the car to the door becomes a mile. That was a long time ago. Now I go through line at Wal Mart and my only concerns are the same guys who creep out the GGs

[Jodi Lynn]

I was terrifed all the way to the club I went to. but when I got there it was so comfortable and all the other girls made me feel good.

[Debra Lynn]

My first time out was in my car, as a teenager, wearing my mom's dress, undergarments and heels. I got backed up at a construction site and was terrified that the guy directing traffic would see me and call attention to me!

[MarinaTwelve200]

My first (and only) time out was for my adult sunday school Halloween party in 2004. The year before, I noticed that the costuming had waned off a bit, do I decided to try something "shocking" to encurage more costuming----I first thought of a WOMAN----but I couldnt make myself do that, at least not JUST a woman---but something female--with a Halloween connection---Then I thought of it!
I came as a Gypsy fortune teller. It was perfect! I got to wear a dress and exotic makeup and jewelry, at the same time it WAS a disguise, it took the TG "edge" off of coming as a female.

I normally would NEVER show myself in public in drag, BUT I thought i looked SOOO Good I just HAD to go to the party and show it off. my pride in my costume actually overcame my reluctance to appear in public.

I was a great hit---especially with the ladies (a good way to meet chicks if not a bit drastic, I discovered) All the ladies wanted me to "tell their fortunes", I had a crystal ball as a prop and also a deck of tarrot cards, so I obliged.--It was a lot of fun, and it worked, I won first prize for the costume---The costumes were a lot better the next year, so much so that my MARK TWAIN came in only second prize.

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[Calliope]

Totally plastered!! You forgot that category!

[TeriAnn]

The first time I went out dressed was when my wife and I went to pick up a pizza .I had on ladies slacks panties pantyhose and pretty snow white blouse and 4 inch heel pumps. I had dressed when I got home from work and didn't want to cook, so she suggested pizza. I wasn't about to get undressed back to drab so I went as I was .I drove and she got the pizza. Over all it was a lot of fun and very exciting to be out and about dressed as a female. I love every minute of it.:devil: :D

[Sharon_Rose]

Terrific.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

My first time out was a work halloween party when I was just 23 years old and single at the time. I can tell you that I was totally comfortable with it because I was dressed to the nines as a woman with all the extra's including breast forms, nails, eyelashes et all. I would not have been as comfortable and at ease had it not been for the halloween theme. I have since gone out on many occassions en femme and I believe that it does get easier each time. My wife of 22 years knows of my crossdressing and is as accepting of it as I can expect since I just told her two and a half years ago. We attend our Chi Triess meetings and go to couples meetings together. I absolutely love the ability to dress en femme and wish to someday come out completely to everyone and live full time en femme. One can only hope and maybe someday my dream will be a reality.

[Kahlan51]

First time out I was the owner of a singing telegram business so I dressed up in a lot of costumes. I got a call from a couple of girls and they wanted a singing delivery made to a guy in an auto parts store. I tried to track down one of my female performers and couldn't so they said Why don't you do it. I joked and finally they talked me into it I looked through the costumes and picked out a dress and heels wig and put on lipstick. ( I have pics and I looked awful) The call was in red neck village at an auto parts dealer. THe guy was mortified and I loved it. I drove away on such a high. My introduction to this wonderful world. My first time out after that was different I was in SF and I decided to go out en femme ( not a costume)
I must have taken 20 trips to the front door of my hotel room terrified to open the door. When I finally did fear vanished and I have been fear free ever since Here's to overcoming fear for all of us :tongueout Kahlan

[Christina Nicole]

My very first time out was a very long time ago. I went out dressed as a girl. Not a woman. I was only in grammar school and went out for Halloween as a girl for trick or treat. I passed as a girl since everyone asked why I wasn't in costume.

My first time as an adult was exactly the opposite. Not having much in the way of makeup and such, I had a makeover at CD-Tips in Philly. I must have looked awful. I was waiting for the elevator after leaving Lynda's studio. Immediately upon the doors opening, the woman in the elevator laughed at me. It got better after that.

Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

[Lovely Rita]

for me it was scary!! I was shaking like a leave on a tree and my so was also!!

The full story

Memory Lane, The first time out in public, share your story

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I was fifteen at the time. I was living with an older girl who was eighteen, it was the early seventies so I had a shag hair cut and having hair down to my waiste was not unusual for boys at that time. I remember grappling for months with myself about doing it and finally I drummed up enough courage. My girl friend was working and it was around noon.

I clearly remember what I wore. I had a blouse and mini skirt set with a blue and purple floral design, and I mean mini, quite nice and very sexy. I put on white tights and platform shoes that were very in at the time. I put on my make up. It was autumn so I had to wear a coat it was grey with hood. I kept it unzippered. The excitement was overwhelming. I was very confident I could pass. I went out the apartment door and down three flights of stairs. No neighbors in sight. Whoo that was good fortune. Through the vestibule and out on the street. I was living on Manhattan's upper west side.

I started crossing the street while an older gentlemen was just eying my legs and did not take his eyes away and right at that moment my ankle gave way to a mistep on my part. I stumbled but regained my composure immediately. I made my way down Columbus avenue and turned the corner of the Museum of Natural History up towards Central Park. Oh oh on the corner there were these construction men and I planned to walk right by them. The whistling started and one of them walked right beside me accusing me of acting like I did not remember him. "Come on don't act like you don't remember me", I just looked straight ahead and ignored him and finally he left me alone. I guess I passed on that one.
At the corner an older guy gave me the once over and said good afternoon. He smiled at me and offered to give me a lift. I politely smiled and shook my head no. I dare not speak.
I crossed the street and went into the park, not too bright as I think back in retrospect but youth does some pretty dumb things. I was thrilled to feel the cool autumn breeze caresse my legs through the white hosiery and up my skirt. Exhiliration, excitement, fear, extasy, all these feelings happening at the same time. I picked a spot and sat on a park bench. Pulled out a dime store novel that I pretended to read while all the while taking in this amazing experience. Time to move on. I started walking back towards my apartment which was about three or four blocks aways. I pass this guy who looks like a line backer for the Giants. He has his eyes all over me as we pass each other by. I keep walking and some thing tells me to turn around and sure enough he is following me. Now I am scarred silly. I pick up the pace and head for the building. Look back again and there he is. I know something is up why would he change course. We were walking in opposite directions and now he is right behind me. I better move faster. I get to my street head towards the front door, look back and he is gone.
Whoa that was scarry. I get in the building into my apartment and mission accomplished.
That was my first time out and I will never forget it and sorry for the length of it.

Thanks for letting me share it with you my dear friends.
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[kaitlincd]

Scary and really exciting at the same time.

[susie evans]

i did not have time to get teriffied it was the second time my wife helped me with makeup i thought we were in for a relaxin g evening and boy was i wrong we gotall dressed she handed me a black purse said put stuff in and lets go we whent to the movies and the rest is history:happy: :o :o
susie

[CheriTV2006]

My first time out was with my CD partner back in the 1980's in uptown New Orleans after a few hours of wild partying in my house. We got all sassy and besides ourselves, beligerent, cussing, basically saying, "scr-w this! we're going out!" We walked around the neighborhood 2:00 in the morning camping it up to the max! Cheri.

[barbara f.]

I went out on a saturday night. dressed up and made myself up in the car. was always worried that someone would see me. drove around for awhile. park the car and walk around a bit. love to hear the click clack of the heels and feel of the chill against my stocking covered legs, but had to make sure no one was around which was kind of scary. look forward to doing it again very soon.

[sami1952]

i was terrified that first i wore a bra out in public,after wearing it the winter under my jacket,i started wearing one just about all the time and no one notice.