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Girly Sara
12-14-2006, 02:32 PM
Hey girls and boys!

You may remember a past post of mine about me coming out to a girl at work. Well, i'm now out to at least three more and i'm really feeling great!

The second girl i came out to at work is someone i've been wanting to express my girly side to for ages now but have always felt a lil unsure about doing. Well, last week the girl in question was asking me if i liked her newly-groomed nails and i said they were fab and a gorgeous pink! How many guys would show so much attention to a girl's nails? lol Anyways, i had an air of confidence come over me and i decided to come clean and tell her about Sara. Well, she wasn't overly surprised and didn't pass judgement and has been really nice and been asking quite a few probing questions since.

The other two girls to find out was last weekend when me and my work colleagues (mostly girls) had an all-expenses paid trip to Marbella in Spain. One of the girls comes over to me when we were boozing in a bar. She says "Hey Alan (my male name) been wanting to ask you this since i started with the company and only feel brave enough to ask you now as i'm drunk! Have you ever bought a pink purse from River Island before (this is a popular fashion store here in the UK)?" I replied, "Erm, yeah. Why?" She said "i knew it was you!" with an excited tone. Found out she used to work in the shop before joining our present company! Then she says out of the blue "Do you cross-dress?" I hesitated for a mo and then replied "Yeah i do actually" At this point i'm waiting for her response. She then says "Cool! I've got gay friends and they're really nice!" (I'm not gay but i'm digressing) When i asked her how she knew, she replies "Oh come on Alan, you've got thin, defined tinted eyebrows and eye lashes and long nails!" (a deliberate, silly question on my part! lol) As i'm sure people can imagine, i'm feeling like an even larger weight is being lifted from my shoulders!

The fourth girl to find out was a lovely young girl i work with. We were sitting in a cafe beside the harbour in gorgeous Puerto Banus in Marbella on Sunday Afternoon watching the world go by and i really had the urge and self-confidence to open up to her, too. Well, she was the most understanding and accepting of all the girls i've told. An absolute star in fact! She said that she had a good hunch that i was transgendered and was very lovely towards me. Showed her some Sara pix on my mobile phone and she was amazed at the transformation. She told me to be who i wanted to be and to be happy! How nice huh?! This same girl lent me some pink nail varnish on our return to the office this week which made my day. How cool and sweet is that?

I'm pretty sure that a lot more people know about me in the office now but no one is acting any differently towards me. Sooo glad i have the confidence to express myself more now as it feel so rewarding!

Anyways, girls and boys, that's enough of my rambling on but i really wanted to share these magic moments with you.

Take care.

Sara xxx

Di
12-14-2006, 02:35 PM
Sara, indeed these are magic moments .....:thumbsup:

Holly
12-14-2006, 02:51 PM
Very cool, Sara. I'm very happy for you.

tekla west
12-14-2006, 03:04 PM
The truth makes you free, living lies is bondage.

Marcie Sexton
12-14-2006, 03:11 PM
What a girl, nerves of steel...one day we all will...I guess my first step was with my wife...:2c:

CaptLex
12-14-2006, 03:16 PM
Excellent, Sara, you must be walking on air. Congrats, and may all your experiences be as positive. :thumbsup:

Bethanygirl
12-14-2006, 03:56 PM
It is funny, but I've known many cd's, and been around with them socially over the years, and my impression is that almost all gg's have no problem with cd's if they are not in a relationship with them. If they are in a relationship with someone who is a cd, the same gg's almost always have a problem with it...

Girly Sara
12-14-2006, 04:56 PM
Thanks for your responses, girls!

Sara xxx

Sweet Cindy
12-14-2006, 05:02 PM
Holy Hell!
Coming out and finding support from 3 girls while living it up in Spain - how incredible! I'll be fantasizing about this story tonight (with me in your place, of course)!
You're a lucky (and beautiful) girl, Sara!

krisinpink
12-14-2006, 05:36 PM
Great for you Sara!! YAY!! I'm very glad for you.
And, Bethany, you hit it right on the head I think...very shrewd obervation!

sonalnarula
12-14-2006, 09:05 PM
Wow Sara, that's absolutely great !

Calliope
12-14-2006, 10:20 PM
We were sitting in a cafe beside the harbour in gorgeous Puerto Banus in Marbella on Sunday Afternoon watching the world go by and i really had the urge and self-confidence to open up to her, too. Well, she was the most understanding and accepting of all the girls i've told. An absolute star in fact! She said that she had a good hunch that i was transgendered and was very lovely towards me. Showed her some Sara pix on my mobile phone and she was amazed at the transformation. She told me to be who i wanted to be and to be happy!

Dang - you're sure enough living right.

Can't wait to see the movie.

Wenda
12-14-2006, 10:40 PM
Go Girl! Just don't get reckless. You have been doing it very, very well. Picking your time and place, privately, one confidant at a time.
If you have come out to 4 girls, probably the whole place knows by now. If no one has made negative remaks, you are probably home free. Continue to be careful, but ENJOY! Congratulations!:love: :love: :love:

ColleenCD
12-14-2006, 11:09 PM
Sara,

Great read. I'm impressed with your resolve. How funny that a girl you work with has known about your pink purse for all this time.

Colleen

Joy Carter
12-15-2006, 05:30 AM
So glad for you Sarah ! Continued success in your gurl self.:hugs:

RachelDenise
12-15-2006, 05:36 AM
It sounds like bliss to me to have someone to share this like you have. Such courage and confidence!

paulaN
12-15-2006, 07:31 AM
So happy for you. your thread helps us all. girl power to ya.

SherriePall
12-15-2006, 08:28 AM
Congratulations, Sara. Good for you.

Girly Sara
12-15-2006, 02:20 PM
Thanks so much for the additional responses, girl! Always appreciate your feedback.

Confidence is the key to my success and it hasn't come easy...we all know that anyway! The secret of my success has been to show an active interest in what the GG's wear and talk about. Over a period of time (last 9mths) the girls at my work place have become used to my interest in girly stuff and actively involve me in quite a few of their conversations.

Thanks again girls and have a lovely weekend!

Sara xxx

Eugenie
12-15-2006, 03:56 PM
It is funny, but I've known many cd's, and been around with them socially over the years, and my impression is that almost all gg's have no problem with cd's if they are not in a relationship with them. If they are in a relationship with someone who is a cd, the same gg's almost always have a problem with it...

Indeed Bethany,

I've come out to several GGs and none of them reacted negatively, on the contrary. All have found that it was cool. Most have asked me many sensible questions about my X-dressing and have sympathised with my difficulties to be as much "en femme" as I would want to be.

The main point seems to be that they were not sentimentaly involved with me before I told them. Actually this wasn't the case for one of them whom I had had a long term affair before I told her about my X-dressing... She didn't run away after that... But for all the other I came out to, it was only a friendly relation that preexisted my coming out. Many told me that they understood better my general attitude in the past now that I had told them about my "femme side".

Perhaps some GGs react positively towards a man who admits to being a X-Dresser also because he becomes less of a "threat" to them with regard to courtship...

I personally feel so much more free now that I've told all these friends. It is like taking a big weight away from my chest...

:hugs:
Eugenie