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lady lycra
12-16-2006, 06:48 PM
I have posted on here about how my wifes hates my CDing....Well things are getting better.
I have spent all day wearing, under my jeans, black frilly panties and black opaque tights (or pantyhose as you people over the pond call them), all with my wife knowing and happy about it. Earlier this evening, my wife plaited my hair for me too :) To be fair, she often does this. There is something very nice about having your hair plaited. It's very relaxing.

The other night, after a looong chat, my wife asked me to dress in front of her. She was OK with tights and panties, but didn't like me in the dress I chose. She didn't mind so much, when I changed into a short skirt and a plain T-shirt.
We're at the stage now where most weekends are spent with me in ladies undies. My wife even sometimes OKs it for me to wear my skirt T-shirt comb downstairs watching TV etc. The only stipulation is that I have a fall back just in case our son comes downstairs. I think this is why she's OK with skirt and T-shirt. I can quickly throw on a pair of jeans and my tranining shoes should junior venture downstairs.
I'm finding that some things she's "got used to". Others she's OK with, but she is never really happy with. This blows hot and cold. I have to be very careful to gauge her mood. I must also be sure to inform her of my intention to dress up. She really doesn't like being suprised!!!! If she is pre-warned then it's usually OK.
I know that some say that I shouldn't ask permission, but it saves a lot of rowing and tension if I do. I'm very greatful of my wife's change of direction, I'm also very aware of her not being really happy about my being a CD, so whatever I do, I do with tact, and respect. I try not to rock the boat. It wouldn't take much for all this improvement to come crashing down around me.

Recently we made love with me in tights and panties... Well that's how I started out :) How I had longed for such a thing to happen. She even started calling me "panty boy" during it ... :redface:

Part of the sucess has been down to my wife seeing me in various items. Initially she hated the thought of me being dressed as a girl, but after seeing me in certain items she discovered that it wasn't as bad as it could have been. This is not the case with ALL my outfits though :(

So things are far better than I could have ever dreamed. I'd like to take it further, but I'm in no rush. very small steps. I get regular time to myself now, where I can do as I please, albeit in an empty house. My female clothes are regularly in the washing machine with our daily washing. They even get hung outside to dry... Now that's a thrill, seeing my panties blowing in the wind on the line.... if only the neighbours knew that they were mine :)

I'm hoping that our journey advances as far in 2007 as it has the latter part of this year.

LL

Amy Hepker
12-16-2006, 07:19 PM
Sounds to me that you are making great headway. DON'T PUSH IT!! You don't want to lose what you have gained and you definatly don't want to lose your wife. Just go with the flow, foolow her rules and you should do just fine.

Talon DeRojo
12-16-2006, 07:24 PM
Lady Lycra: Thanks for sharing your story. Slow and steady wins the race!
Talon:happy:

sara_also
12-16-2006, 09:34 PM
Treating your wife with love and respect will go a long way to her understanding of your feelings and desires. Do include her in the things you desire, but also take into consideration her limits. I hope you have great fortune with your journey.
Sara

Bethanygirl
12-16-2006, 09:42 PM
Treating your wife with love and respect will go a long way to her understanding of your feelings and desires. Do include her in the things you desire, but also take into consideration her limits. I hope you have great fortune with your journey.
Sara

Well said, ditto from me! Good luck to you and your wife!:hugs:

Sheila
12-17-2006, 04:22 AM
Treating your wife with love and respect will go a long way to her understanding of your feelings and desires. Do include her in the things you desire, but also take into consideration her limits. I hope you have great fortune with your journey.
Sara

:iagree: well done and as you say slow steady steps


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