The ol' man is leaving!

[Sejd]

It's clear to me now. The ol' man is leaving. I look into my closset and I see how Sejd is taking over the space, hanger by hanger. In my drawers, it's the same problem. Slowly but surely, the ol' man is being kicked out and soft fabrics and femme things taking over. I get grumpy and controlling whenever I don't get to be Sejd, and feel relaxed, at ease, in the flow of things whenever I can be in my femme wonderfull self. sometimes I ask myself, What the H.... is going on? And I have no answers. I just know what makes me really me and what transcend my reality and everyone around.
What else can I do? I have no choice, I have to be Sejd.
hugs
Me

[kerrianna]

That's great that you are evolving so nicely - like a butterfly emerging from a cocoon. Shedding your old skin (sorry, now I'm mixing metaphors :heehee: ).

But your realization and acceptance seems very comforting. Everyone knows women live longer generally anyway. Probably a good move :heehee: .

[AmberTG]

Once the woman in you becomes the dominant personality, it becomes very hard to turn back. I'm getting the same way, slowly.

[ToyGirl]

This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes.

sorry couldnt help myself , im a geek :rolleyes:

[Siobhan Marie]

Once the woman in you becomes the dominant personality, it becomes very hard to turn back. I'm getting the same way, slowly.

Me too and it feels great.

:hugs: Anna Marie x

[Maggie Kay]

Sejd,
I am in a similar position too. I refuse to buy male clothing and have just started sewing my own femme clothes. It is another step. I think the only reason I am holding back is because of the past blowups with my wife when I took them too fast. She needs this to go very slow so I do what I can and little by little, the old guy stuff disappears. I may be 15 years and I'll be 70 when I reach my goal, but at least I have preserved our relationship. I'd rather have a frustration with a partner than full satisfaction alone. I envy your freedom.

[Scotty]

I can relate. My entire right side of my closet is now skirts, womens jeans, pink shirts, very pleasant to look at.

The left side is T-shirts and mens jeans. Everything there is gathering dust.
my male dress shirts have dust STAINS on them. I need to get them to the cleaner and maybe get some plastic wraps for them for long term storage :D

Today I'm lounging around in pink sweats, they are SOOOOOO comfy.....

I've been on holiday all week and have been en-femme all week, although in womens jeans etc when I go out, carry a purse, the works......it's been nice.


A song comes to mind...from Shania Twain - The woman in me....

[Calliope]

Yup. I think I have one pair of black socks left. Nothing wrong there - it's liberating.

[joanlynn28]

I have two closets the one I left at my house where the male clothes remain soon to be donated to a worthy cause. And my closet at my apartment only has my dresses, tops, skirts, etc. The only male clothes that remain are my work clothes but you could just consider them unisex. I have not bought guy clothes in over a year. Hate to say it but I am becoming a closet queen and a shoppaholic to boot and I love it.:heehee:

[Sejd]

this is what's great about this forum. I learn over and over again, that I am not alone with these issues. However - it sometimes feels overwhelming. I don't think I have spent more than two or three evenings as a male in this past two month. Makes me want to go back to my sexologist and get some tune up. Some reassurance that it is all OK, and that I will live through this time also. I have to go on a business trip to Holland in two weeks. I'm already planning and wondering about how much femme clothes I can cramp into the suitcase for a week abroad. thanks for all your comments, Kay renee, sewing your own clothes, Wow, that's awesome. I'm so impressed. I know that I can only do this because of the massive support my wife is giving me, and I do appreciate it and understand that it's essential for such shift to happen at all.
hugs to all of you
Sejd