sex

[TSMichelle]

Hello girls, i have a slight problem. See, my bf wants to have sex, im perfectly fine with doing it, but is it safe for him to do it without the need of a condom? He says that i wouldnt get sick the day after, but just to be safe, i want to be sure. Please help me, i want to keep my baby happy.

Many thanks :bighug: :bighug:

[Kieron Andrew]

Hello girls, i have a slight problem. See, my bf wants to have sex, im perfectly fine with doing it, but is it safe for him to do it without the need of a condom? He says that i wouldnt get sick the day after, but just to be safe, i want to be sure. Please help me, i want to keep my baby happy.

Many thanks :bighug: :bighug:
protection a must always! a guy that wont wear protection doesnt respect or even love you in my opinion

[CaptLex]

He says that i wouldnt get sick the day after, but just to be safe, i want to be sure. Please help me, i want to keep my baby happy.
I have no idea what this means . . . you won't "get sick the day after"? If you catch something, you catch something . . . that day, the next day and many days after. Oh honey, please protect yourself. Don't you know a guy will tell you anything to get his. Nobody is going to look out for you except you. Be careful.

[great gg]

Dont be stupid...Stupid.

how old are you? did you go through school without being educated about AIDS/HIV, STD's, and other nasty stuff? I'm afraid I don't get the question. the answer is YES YES YES NO BALLOON, NO PARTY.

[Scotty]

the answer is YES YES YES NO BALLOON, NO PARTY.


I have not heard that one before!!! GOOD ONE!!

I've heard it like this "No glove, no love" :D :D :D

[Kieron Andrew]

how old are you?
i was actually wondering this myself!

[Stephenie S]

Dear Saq,

Whatever do you mean by, "He says I won't get sick the day after"???

STDs, (sexually transmitted diseases) don't happen the day after, they are with you forever (in the case of AIDS) and for a long time with everything else. The only thing you can be sure of here is that you won't get pregnant. Everything else is not only possible, but likely.

There is only one way to go here. Use a condom EVERY time with EVERY one.
Don't be stupid. Don't let ANYONE talk you in to ANY other behavior.

I once had a friend who told me he would never wear a condom. He said he would not get AIDS because he could tell who had it and who didn't. My friend is now dead.

Someone who wants to have sex with you and tries to talk you into having sex without using a condom is not really a friend. And not worthy of having sex with at all IMHO.

Steph

[Calliope]

Back in 1975, when I lived in St. Louis county, there actually were teenage girls who heard - and seemingly believed - if they 'did it twice in the same night, they wouldn't get pregnant.'

I really thought those days were over!

[Siobhan Marie]

how old are you?

I was wondering that myself

:hugs: Anna Marie x

[Iniquity Blonde GG]

iam i reading this thread right :eek: narh surley not :rolleyes: as others have said i wonder how old you are ? secondly ALWAYS wear protection, god knows what dieseases are about now adays, never mind keeping him happy :rolleyes: and sorry hun, but u dont get sick the day after !!!!!! sick maybe with regret ? but not from anything else . please be VERY careful :hugs:

[GypsyKaren]

I would like to thank those of you who treated this as a serious issue and gave serious responses. I am going to close this thread now because I think it's been well answered, and to stop the less than serious answers that have been deleted.

Sex is a serious issue that doesn't go away with being trans, in the future I would appreciate it if we can discuss it like the adults that we are.

Karen