Am finally out to my Mum

[Siobhan Marie]

Just had to tell you all that I'm finally out to my Mum. Dad told her for me today. Before you all accuse me of getting Dad to do my dirty work for me, it was after a long chat over the Christmas period that we both decided that it would sound better coming from him (if thats possible) so thats what was done. I first knew that Mum had been told when I woke up to a message on my mobile phone from Dad asking me to phone him which I did and he told me that he'd told Mum (my heart was in my mouth by then). Mum and I had a brief chat, during that chat I told her about the letter that I'm going to send to the family and she has asked me not to send it just yet. I said that I'd go over after I'd run the couple of errands that I had. I did those and went over. When I walked in and saw Mum, she looked at me and said "you are silly" and that I was her son and she would never push me away. She also said that I had a long journey ahead of me. I replied that I'd started the journey with my diet. I told her about my objectives for the year. I think that she was pleased that I'm not doing too much too quickly. We talked about what happened in November between her and me and she said the reason she what she said was that it was a shock to her. I told her that it left me feeling scared as to how she'd react when I told her properly. She also that we don't keep talking about it which is fine by me. Dad came back in at that point, he'd been down the shop for a newspaper and gave me a hug and asked if I was ok as I hadn't been sleeping that well, I said that I was fine and was feeling much better. I've written them a letter which I've left for them to read in their own time, it puts the flesh onto what they know and there's a couple of internet links on there if they want more information. I'm just so glad that I'm out to both my parents and that they are going to be there for me and I love them so very much. I'm really lucky to have parents like mine and I know that. Its a huge weight off of my mind, it really is. really :happy:

Apologies for a long post but there it is, all done.

:hugs: Anna Marie x

[Shelly Preston]

It must feel like a massive weight has been lifted from your shoulders

I happy for you that you parents are so understanding

[Siobhan Marie]

Oh Shelly it does and I'm so happy and so relieved I can't tell you.

:hugs: Anna Marie x

[Amy Hepker]

That's Great Anna, I still think it would have been harder to tell dad than mom. Dads always want boys to be men not girls.

[Siobhan Marie]

Amy, thank you so much for your kind words. I'm just so lucky to have such wonderful parents and I know that.

:hugs: Anna Marie x

[Holly]

That's wonderful news Anna Marie. Your parents sound like great people. :hugs: for everyone!

[Siobhan Marie]

Holly, thank you so much for your kind words. My parents are the most wonderful people and I'm so lucky to have them. I had the best nights sleep last night that I've had for such a long time. It was so nice to go to bed without too much on my mind and get up like that earlier on.

:hugs: Anna Marie x

[ToyGirl]

thats wonderfull news Anna ! :hugs:

I think i have made alittle progress with my family too, so cheers at what seems to be a good year :D

[Siobhan Marie]

Nicole, thank you for your kind words, I think its going to be a good new year too.

:hugs: Anna Marie x

[CaptLex]

I'm very happy for you, Anna Marie. I know what a relief that is. May all your future nights be restful and I wish you sweet dreams. This calls for a celebration! :Party:

[suzy]

That is GREAT Anna Marie.... WOW..I'm impressed.. you have intestinal fortitude girl!!!

I know that things will be much better for you now and you know Mum will always love you and accept you no matter what, but now she knows how much it means to you!

Congratulations on a tough job well done!:love:

[Siobhan Marie]

Lex and Suzy, thank you both so much for your kind words. It was so nice to have a good nights sleep last night and Lex, if we're having a celebration then mine's a Diet Coke as I don't drink. :Party:

:hugs: Anna Marie x