I've met a wonderful woman who accepts my cding

[bredalee25]

Hi all i just wanted to tell the greatest news. I've met a wonderful woman and she accepts my cding and i'm in love with her. She is such a sweetie she even offered to do my make up and then a photo shoot. I'm so in love with her she's got my heart and i've got hers. There's only one problem i'm in a relationship with another woman right now and can't leave just yet. plus the fact that she lives 695 miles away from me so right now all we can do is chat. I've got this forum to thank for meeting her i replied to one of her posts in a private message we became fast friends and now we've spoke on the phone and we're in love. She knows who she is i won't give her name on here as she doesn't know i'm posting this.

I love you sweetie can't wait til we can be together:love:

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[Kate Simmons]

Bren, I am so happy for you to find someone. She'll know soon that you posted though. What do they say about the three fastest means of communication? "Tell a woman" is in there somewhere.:heehee: :hugs: Ericka

[MistyCD]

Marry her !!!!


misty:2c: :2c: :2c: :2c: :2c:

[Cheryl GG]

glad you found somebody...means alot in life....aint love grand.....xoxoxC/

[Miss Terr]

Good to hear.
I did too sounds like the same situation, she asked if it would be ok to go shopping while i am enfemme and try on outfits, etc.; shes only 35 miles away I am having dinner with her on Wed.
Shes a little on the large side, but Im not judgemental like that anymore...

[Rachel Morley]

I'm someone who met their wife on a crossdressing forum (not this one) and we both completely hit it off and fell head over heels in love with one another. I was not 695 miles away though....I was 5,500 miles away on another continent! :eek: :happy:

Joking aside, IMHO relationships that "build" when you can only speak on the phone or email mean that you get more "emotionally intimate" with the other person because you talk more and learn more about one another than (I would argue) perhaps if you saw each other every day. If it's going to last it will ....and of course the other massive thing is, that "the cat is already out of the bag" so to speak, and so you can look forward to never having to "have the talk about being different" :D

[CrissyBlair]

I'm happy for you. I wish I had told my wife before we were married and fortuniately after about 7 years of marriage she accecpted me after the "talk" and it's been 3 years now. I now have a fair collection of femme clothes and accessories and we go out on occasion.
I thought I could never have my cake and eat it too! :D It's great that you met somebody and I wish you the best of luck!

-Crissy

[Robin Leigh]

I've met a wonderful woman and she accepts my cding and i'm in love with her. She is such a sweetie she even offered to do my make up and then a photo shoot. I'm so in love with her she's got my heart and i've got hers.

There's only one problem i'm in a relationship with another woman right now and can't leave just yet.
Good luck with this, Brenda. I hope you can do this in a way such that nobody gets hurt.

FWIW, there aren't a lot of single GGs here, so it's not too hard to narrow down the possibilities. :D

:hugs:

Robin

[Lovely Rita]

I wish you much happiness.

hugs

[Ranee Daze]

For all of those in Eastern Ontario/western Quebec. There is a GG in this area interested in meeting sensitive CD's. PM me if you are interested.

[Emily Ann Brown]

All I can say is HURRAY sis !!!!!!


Emily Ann

[bredalee25]

Marry her !!!!


misty:2c: :2c: :2c: :2c: :2c:

I will marry her one day when the time is right.

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[bredalee25]

I thought i'd move this up to see if anyone else had anything to say about my post.

tttfn

[Tina Dixon]

So how you going to tell the other person in your life?

[Holly]

...There's only one problem i'm in a relationship with another woman right now and can't leave just yet... plus the fact that she lives 695 miles away from me so right now all we can I'd say you've got the cart before the horse. I think it's terribly unfair to all of you for you to be developing a new relationship before concluding your current one. It's unfair to your old relationship because you have removed all incentive to reconcile; to your new relationship because you are not in a position to give total emotional support to your new relationship; and it is unfair of you to use two women, neither of whom you are totally committed to. Well, you asked if anyone had anything else to say about your post.

[Rebecca_Annette]

Great news!!

Be happy! I pray it works out well for both of you

(and I'm soooooooooooooooo . . . . . . . . . envious! )


Love and peace
Rebecca

[Robin Leigh]

I think it's terribly unfair to all of you for you to be developing a new relationship before concluding your current one.

Well, you asked if anyone had anything else to say about your post.
Thanks, Mom! I was beginning to think I was the only one disturbed by that...

:hugs:

Robin

[Amy Hepker]

Well,
I'm glad for you I guess. It's hard being in a relationship when the right one comes along. I just hope it doesn't all fall apart on you, which it could very well. Just be careful and think of everyone in your life.

[Shannon CD]

[QUOTE=Holly;701287] It's unfair to your old relationship because you have removed all incentive to reconcile;QUOTE]


Absolutely, Holly. Recently being on the wrong side of this particular scenario, I can tell you it hurts like hell when you realize that no matter how hard you tried you never really had a chance. The one you love simply creates larger hurdles with the sole intention of making you fail so that you can be the "bad guy" in the relationship and they feel justified in running off to the "greener grass", as it were.

[cocopuff's girl GG]

I also think you should totally end one before starting another. In my book that would be cheating on the one who doesn't know about the new relationship. Also remember that it's always exciting and fresh in the beginning, that is because it's new and in a honeymoon mode.. An old saying (The grass always looks greener on the other side, until you get over there and then notice it's growing over the septic tank) My ex discovered that about a year or two after leaving me and his two son's for another woman. He thought she was so much better and then after the damage was done discovered that she was far worse than I could have ever dreamed of being. He know's he messed up but what's done is done. This new GG may be just what you need and may be a great person but I'd say end one before starting another. :2c: :love:

[Kristen Kelly]

First congratulation for finding someone who accepts you for you, my rule of thumb give it 6 months when they are comfortable with you the true their self will come out. Till then either see where the old flame stands of end it before you put too many irons in the fire.

[RachelDenise]

I've got to agree with Holly. Finish before you start. Move along and do what you must. It will hurt no matter when you do it. The sooner the better. Don't let it linger.

[Sandra]

Cake and eat it comes to mind.

[bredalee25]

This is all great advice and you've given me alpt to thonk about. Don't worry i'm not gonna burn my bridges so to speak. Nor am i gonna make this move before i end my current relationship.


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[kellyann2012]

Your very fortunate to find someone who understands and loves you for who you are. I wish you the best of luck.

[Sophia Rearen]

I've met a wonderful woman and she accepts my cding and i'm in love with her. I've got this forum to thank for meeting her i replied to one of her posts in a private message we became fast friends and now we've spoke on the phone and we're in love.

I'm confused. Did you actually meet in person? Or, is this just an email, pm, phone relationship? If you haven't met in person I wouldn't kill the other relationship, just yet. Sounds like infatuation, not love. I'm happy you have found someone who accepts this side of you. However, like everything else, I suggest you take it slowly.

[Linda Daniels]

There seems to be a multitued of hidden items here! First of all, does your wife know about your female feelings?, how long have you been together/married?, Do you have children?, etc?, etc? I acknowledge that the immediate rush of "Being Known" can feel like a very wonderful and powerful thing, ...BUT! ...Marriage is a responsiability that should require respect! Having said all of that, another undisclosed factor here is any knowledge about your current situation...if you want to be considered one of us "Good Girls"...before asking for our permission...do the proper thing for everyone conserned, please! I think that everyone here would agree if they really thought about it. The relationship U seek is a difficult one to find. Starting out on a new adventure is "Always" exciting. My recomendatiin is to honor your commitments, whatever they are and move slowely...I am quite fond of the two year rule myself...people naturally have a way of hiding themselves for quite a bit of time to achieve their personal agenda...And YOU of all people should be aware of this fact. ...And just a thought do you intend to be a 24/7 CD??? If not, what of the rest of your life? I'm going to get off my soap box now...bye.

Huggs to all the "Good Girls Here!"

Linda

[tallyman]

if you have found some one who knows all about you great take her make her happy and have a good life together. If only it had happened to me
love always

Michaela:love:

[bredalee25]

There seems to be a multitued of hidden items here! First of all, does your wife know about your female feelings?, how long have you been together/married?, Do you have children?, etc?, etc? I acknowledge that the immediate rush of "Being Known" can feel like a very wonderful and powerful thing, ...BUT! ...Marriage is a responsiability that should require respect! Having said all of that, another undisclosed factor here is any knowledge about your current situation...if you want to be considered one of us "Good Girls"...before asking for our permission...do the proper thing for everyone conserned, please! I think that everyone here would agree if they really thought about it. The relationship U seek is a difficult one to find. Starting out on a new adventure is "Always" exciting. My recomendatiin is to honor your commitments, whatever they are and move slowely...I am quite fond of the two year rule myself...people naturally have a way of hiding themselves for quite a bit of time to achieve their personal agenda...And YOU of all people should be aware of this fact. ...And just a thought do you intend to be a 24/7 CD??? If not, what of the rest of your life? I'm going to get off my soap box now...bye.

Huggs to all the "Good Girls Here!"

Linda

Linda, First off we're not married we just live together. We have no kids either none nada zilch i wouldn't have a kid with her if she were the last woman on earth. Yes she knows about my fem side and hates it told me to stop dressing and that was final. Look when i started this thread i didn't ask for advice but i got it anyhow. I just wanted to let all my friends on the forum know that i've found someone who accepts me for me and thats a rare trait these days in a woman. However i'm not stupid i'm not gonna go into this with my eyes closed i know my current gf needs to be told and it will happen just not right now she's having a health crisis and i'm not about to lay this on her on top of that. In my eyes i'm not bad i still care for her just not the same way as before.

Thanks to all who are happy for me and didn't badger me for trying to be happy.

ttfn

[Linda Daniels]

hmmmmmmm??? ...I guess I have been told off buy a "GUY"...Yikes!

In response to your private messages, I apologize for offending you Brenda. I was most likely counceling myself as as much as you since I recognize in your thread several mistakes that I have made already in my long and varied lifetime. Oh and so you don't have to ask...I think that it would be just lovely to be 24/7...even if this "is" only my 13th post!

Sorry for upsetting U so...

Linda