Marissa Mae
01-08-2007, 11:26 PM
Greetings ladies!!! :hugs:
Things have been great for me in regards to dressing and my girlfriend. Halloween was a dream come true, and I surely thought that she would be completely open after that. But thinking in to it more, I think Halloween may have sort of hindered my total "coming out" because she saw me dressed as a French Maid, and not as an actual woman. So, since Halloween, the only dressing has been done in the privacy of my room :(
Now, my girl is great. She is so open minded, and has even admitted of being partially bi-sexual. This in itself tells me that she is quite open minded. We have both talked openly about our "fantasies", and she knows that i yearn to travel out en femme once again, this time in normal, feminine clothing, and not a gaudy Halloween costume. But I think that she is timid due to the first impression.
But last night she told me that if we were to ever go out with me dressed up, she knew of a place to go :happy: I was shocked that she was the one proclaiming this!!! So maybe I just have to take it slow, have more heart to hearts with her, and help her more understand what this is all about. I have even suggested she come here and read up :heehee:
I think the first thing I want to do is show her how I would dress, but she is still afraid to even look at the clothing. How should we go about getting her warmed to the idea? I am not forcing the issue at all as I don't want to suffocate her in this matter. What do you all think I should do? I think it is time for both of us to take the next steps. Or maybe not, I don't know. Help! :eek:
Callie
Things have been great for me in regards to dressing and my girlfriend. Halloween was a dream come true, and I surely thought that she would be completely open after that. But thinking in to it more, I think Halloween may have sort of hindered my total "coming out" because she saw me dressed as a French Maid, and not as an actual woman. So, since Halloween, the only dressing has been done in the privacy of my room :(
Now, my girl is great. She is so open minded, and has even admitted of being partially bi-sexual. This in itself tells me that she is quite open minded. We have both talked openly about our "fantasies", and she knows that i yearn to travel out en femme once again, this time in normal, feminine clothing, and not a gaudy Halloween costume. But I think that she is timid due to the first impression.
But last night she told me that if we were to ever go out with me dressed up, she knew of a place to go :happy: I was shocked that she was the one proclaiming this!!! So maybe I just have to take it slow, have more heart to hearts with her, and help her more understand what this is all about. I have even suggested she come here and read up :heehee:
I think the first thing I want to do is show her how I would dress, but she is still afraid to even look at the clothing. How should we go about getting her warmed to the idea? I am not forcing the issue at all as I don't want to suffocate her in this matter. What do you all think I should do? I think it is time for both of us to take the next steps. Or maybe not, I don't know. Help! :eek:
Callie