What's your optimal balance?

[Byllie]

Okay, here's an interesting question that's been tossed around every so often on this forum.

If wishes were horses, as they say, how much of your time would you like to spend en femme?

(That's on a regular basis, ladies, an average amount of time and not a maximum.)

[Marla S]

100 % my style.

[Katiegirl]

That is my aim 100% but will I ever get there?

[bobbielynn]

would love to do 100% but at this time it's not possible for me

[AprilMae]

Around 25% would be fine.

[Kristi1948]

I would say about half as still like my male side also. :D

[Tracy_Victoria]

my desire to do this is not that great, when i do it I love to do it, but it's not my live, as much as I enjoy being a girl (occationally) I love being a guy, I love being a father and i love my life as a Man! So i'm just a 1% to 20% Percenter, and no more.

[ellieparsons]

I think 25% would also be fine for me, i enjoy my male side but i enjoy dressing up as well

[Paula G]

Ideally I would like to spend the nights that I'm home dressed, so about 20-25% of the time. At the moment it's about 1-5%.

[Kelly Greene]

100% of the time would be awsome, but more real number would be 65 + or when ever posible.

[Karren H]

half the time would be perfect for me.....

Karren

[rickie121x]

If I were able to make a full sex change - 100% would be perfect. For now, 40% of my "alone" time is crossdressed, and I like that. When "Out and about", crossdressed is for parties only - can't even estimate a percentage for that....

When having sex with a female, crossdressed is perfect for 50% of the happenings! Masturbation: 75% is fine.

I don't seem to be able to eliminate a guilt portion of my feelings (This guilt feeling, I comfortably project onto others as a disapproval/derision of my appearance.) when I crossdress, and that seems to be a controlling influence on my willingness to dress up for my "out and about" activities. ..just a thought.

Rickie

[Trinni]

This is gonna sound like a cop-out, but I can't give a concrete answer. I go in waves where I want to dress a lot. I have a fantasy to spend a full week en femme, but there are other times where I don't feel like dressing at all.

[Stephanie Scott]

10-15% for me.

[Alyla]

I would be more than comfortable at a 50% level; I enjoy both aspects of myself. I know it sounds flippant, but that is just me.

Alyla

[Ms. Sarah G]

I think in my perfect world . . . I would go to work in drab and do anything connected with as regular me.

But I would go come home unzip the male suit and not have to go through the extra steps to become "me". Maybe I am just lazy.

[Joy Carter]

I'd love to spend my off hours from work as Joy. But the SO would have somthing to say about that.:o

[Casey Morgan]

Oh, I'd say about 15%. That's about 1 full day in 7. It's also the same amount of time I'd like to spend en homme. That leaves 5 days a week for me to be me.

[Raychel]

I would probably satrt somewhere around 100%, then afetr the novelty wore off I would expect that it would be around 60%

[Bev06 GG]

I didnt vote because of the obvious. But I just wanted to say I dont blame you girls for wanting to look like we do. We're just gorgeous and God knew what he was doing when he created us didn't he. tee hee And of course our clothes are soooo much more comfortable and stunning to wear. Myself I think regular guys are missing out on so much fun.
take care
BEV

[BeckyZ]

I didnt vote because of the obvious. But I just wanted to say I dont blame you girls for wanting to look like we do. We're just gorgeous and God knew what he was doing when he created us didn't he. tee hee And of course our clothes are soooo much more comfortable and stunning to wear. Myself I think regular guys are missing out on so much fun.
take care
BEV

Amen.

[Diannna]

Some where around the 80% mark. I still like who I am and a lot of the things I do as a guy. Of course, there are a lot of things I do as a guy that I wouldn't mind doing in femme mode.

[Byllie]

So very interesting and revealing. The votes actually show two peaks, one around 50% and the other around 100%. But, that said, the curve is rather flat, meaning that we as group represent a true continuum. This is so fantastic! As a group, we represent all possible aspects of crossdressing; a survey takers dream. No wonder this forum has been such a help to me.

[BOOTLOVINGGIRL]

With someone to share it with, I'd probably opt for about 40-50% as I enjoy being a male too but without a partner 20% would probably do.

[LindaTS]

It has to be 100% for me. I'm at about 95% now and am hoping to make it all the way one of these days, although I have a couple of major obstacles in the way. Keeping my fingers crossed.

[Butterfly Bill]

Now it is 100%, because even the "drab" jeans, sweatshirts, and jackets that I wear when doing manual labor all come from the women's side. Even the normally unisex T shirts are in colors like teal and pink. But perhaps to say 100% wouldn't be entirely accurate, because there are a lot of times in the summer when I am nude. And I do wear old button-down shirts that are normally worn with a suit and tie when I am working.

[Laurie Ann]

I voted 20-40%. I would like it to be closer to the 40 but for now it's 0. I like both sides of my gender spectrum.

[Chloe Jean]

I would want to be femmy 100%. I'd go all the way with hormones, surgery etc. I'm a long way fromthat right now.
Hugs
Amelia:2c:

[wabnaok]

I would say 20% of the time now. I usually wear a bra for part of everyday now.

[Kimberley]

For me 24/7 not enfemme but as femme.

What can I say?

:hugs:
Kimberley

[RobertaFermina]

I am enfemme about 5% of the time. I am yearning for more, though more than 20% is to much, too soon, and more than I presently desire.

Roberta

[Glenda58]

50% As much as I like dressing up I do like my male side and some of the things that come with it. And since I live alone I can dress or not dress when I want so with that freedom there is no rush to dress when no one is around.