Advice on going out dressed please

[Andrea_girl]

Hi

I plan to take the long awaited plunge and go out dressed. It will be a night first i hope.

Please could the girls who have been brave and ventured out give me a list of advice of things i should do and not do whilst out.

Thanks

[trannie T]

Relax and enjoy the experience. Be confident and people will treat you well.

[MJ]

Relax and enjoy the experience. Be confident and people will treat you well.

and that is so true, you need to plan a short walk about 10 minutes , wear comfortable shoes . remember shoulders back head up you will look more confident that way and smile , don't walk too fast enjoy your time out. you will find most people just don't care or notice so relax and have fun
you can do it
it's too bad i am not there the family home is not far from you. and i am coming back soon so you better be ready girlfriend , we are going out in the daytime :eek: i am looking forward to it :hugs:
ps i know were you live " grin "

[Lanore]

When you go out, don't look like you've just stolen something. It's how you looked when you bought your first bra or femm attire. Marissa had great advice. 'Most people don't care or notice'. And if they do look twice, look back. Kind of one of those head to toe looks. Trust me, you'll have fun.

Lanore

[Jesse69]

You look passable like a real woman. But if you don't use a femme voice they will definitely read you. So practice the voice well first.

[Bethanygirl]

Everyone gets read occasionally, don't obsess over it. Confidence, an attitude that you belong, and have a place on this earth are all that is required. You will do fine, and it will be a wonderful experience if you let it.
Good luck honey!
:love:

[Sherlyn]

Just be yourself get your attitude on ...personally I dont worry bout the whole ..stand straight chest out thingy .... makes like your acting... walk light footed..head up you will do fine ..and the voice ..well I dont talk often but when I do ..I just speak softer and more from my throat ..its not to deep that way and hey ..lots of woman have a lower register voice ,,,its just softer tone

[steffie39]

Hold your head up, let your breasts stick out and walk using your hips. Be proud oif who you afe. Don't worry if you get read. If you give a reasonable attempt at being a woman, people will treat you as such even if they know you are male.

[susie evans]

IT GET'S EASER every time you go out just lookthe part for wwere you are going and act like you belong and go at a time you are most comfortable and enjoy :heehee: :heehee:

susie

[Rachel Morley]

Try to be relaxed, confident and smile. Don't look down at your feet look up. You'll find women tend to give each other eye contact (unlike men) so try to be open to that. The other thing is, that guys will look at you. It's not that they have read you necessarily, it's just what guys do. Anyone who looks even remotely female, guys automatically check them out. The older you are the better on my last point because guys tend to look at younger women more so.

[noname]

It suggest skipping going out at night. I think the safest way is broad daylight. Say the grocery store or some other quick errand.

[carolinebrookes]

...... and don't wear too much makeup. A lot of girls seem to wear too much on their first time. Better understated than Coco the clown.
Above all, enjoy yourself.Don't worry about others gawking. Most folks neither care or bother or dare I say it........... Don't realise that you are not a real girl!

[Josephine56]

Andrea,
If you look anything like your avatar you need have no worries. Different if you're 6'5 in heels and built like King Kong, which I suspect you aren't.

[Rita Knight]

Hi Andrea,
Since you are in the UK, have you considered joining the Beaumont Society? It can be found here: http://www.beaumontsociety.org.uk/

[Wendi0012]

I use to beat myself up about going out in public. Like the old saying goes it gets easier everytime after the first time. Be warned that some one will look or snicker or what ever others do just take a deep breath and continue on if your let the little mind of society bother you you will get a bad feeling about what it is you are doing and that is just no fun. You go girl have fun and let us know how everything went

[finacarina]

Have fun and just do your thing. Dont worry what others think! 99% will be too busy with their own stuff to worry about you! You go girl and oh yeah Dont Forget Your Camera!!!

[Janelle Marshall]

I agree that eye contact is very important. When you are walking, try to keep your elbows in closer to your sides this will help with moving your hips. And the single most important advice..........SMILE, a lot, at everyone. You will totally disarm many would be naysayers if you give them a great big smile! Have fun!
Janelle Marshall

[julie w]

if you go out at night check the area out first women dont walk around dark
streets alone wearing a skirt . dress to blend in go easy on the make up heavy make up is worse than none , dont walk fast and dont keep looking to see if you are being read most of us get read some people just notice most of the time you wont know you have been read ,and as long as they dont
know you who cares .the hardest thing for me to do when I go out is get
my mind ready and prepared go out and have fun

[EricaCD]

Partial dissenting opinion here: if you try to keep all the advice about how to walk, stand, look, move, smile, stare, etc. in your head, you will wind up not succeeding at any of them. It's like juggling - there are only so many balls you can keep in the air at once.

So to keep it much simpler: 1. Stand up straight. 2. Do everything a bit slower than you would otherwise. 3. Enjoy yourself - without this, the whole thing will NOT come together.

As far as preparation goes: 1. If you are not REALLY used to walking long distances in heels, err on the side of lower ones. 2. To get a decent compromise between the anonymity of nighttime and the safety of daytime, head out right around dusk.

As fas as being "read": 1. It may well happen. 2. That does not matter.

And lastly, remember: This is not a test. You don't go to a higher plane of tranny heaven for having gone out. Many/most of us who elect to leave the confines of our rooms do so because we are tired of limiting the manner in which we conduct our fem lives. If, like me, you find that getting out opens a whole new dimension of your feminine experience, that's wonderful. If, on the other hand, you discover that you prefer keeping your dressing as a private matter, that is also perfectly fine. There is no right or wrong answer to any of this!

Good luck!
Erica