Girly Sara
02-24-2007, 01:17 PM
Hey girls n boys!
Hope you're all OK. I haven't contributed to the forum in a while as i've been busy so here i am to tell you how things are progressing at work as far as expressing my feminine side is concerned. You may have read my previous thread at the following link which will give you some background to what i'm about to update you on:
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=47052
Since coming out to some girls at work before Xmas, my confidence to express my girly side has escalated. Here's a few things i wanted to update you with. The other week, a girl at work was spraying herself with some perfume i loved the smell of. So, without even thinking about it, i went up to her and said i loved her perfume and asked her which one it was? She told me and i thought that i must buy some. Anyways, last weekend i bought some (Paradise perfume - you can buy it from a retailer called 'Next' here in the UK) Got to work on Monday and sent an e-mail to the girl to say i bought some. This girl must have known about my femme side because when she replied she said that she was glad i liked it and that she would be buying more on pay day....wicked! When i said i wished i could wear it for work (bearing in mind i would be in male mode) she said "You should. Why not? Bless her!
The same girl did something which i thought was pretty cool a few weeks ago. She asked me to take a look at something she had bought for a special weekend away with her boyfriend. I went over to her and she opened up a pink bag for me to take a look. Inside was a pair of white lacy panties and a camisole. She asked me what i thought of 'em? I said they were fab and that her boyfriend was going to have a great weekend! lol She said "I didn't show 'Rob' (our manager) as he wouldn't be interested" and bearing in mind that girls out number the guys 10 - 1. I thought it was great that she could share something so intimate. i just felt like one of her girlfriends.
I'm finding that other girls seem to be more warming towards me in the office now. It's as if i'm not a male threat to them. I think my success has been that i don't look/act embarrassed when i mention that i like what they're wearing, their new hand bag, make up etc etc I act naturally. However, until the recent mention to one of the girls that i'd bought some perfume, i'd never mentioned that i'd got the item. Just offered my compliments. The real girls in the office have just put 2 and 2 together and worked me out for themselves. They know i have a long-term girlfriend so no longer think i am gay.
To add the icing on the cake, i'm now going into work with french manicured nails with bright white tips and don't feel uncomfortable. Although i get a bit shy if men are around, around the girls i'm showing my nails off. Some of the girls have openly said how nice they look where others have definitely noticed them and haven't said anything. However, i've had NO adverse comments so i guess all is fine.
One last thing. A girl who i came out to at work late last year, offered me a make up catalogue, i.e. www.avon.com the other day. Asked me if i wanted to buy anything out of it. How sweet, huh? Of course, i'm gonna have to buy some items from it hehe
Anyways, that's enough from me for now. Just wanted to share these special moments that are making my life complete right now. Would love to hear other girls' experiences at work.
Take care for now.
Sara xxxx
Hope you're all OK. I haven't contributed to the forum in a while as i've been busy so here i am to tell you how things are progressing at work as far as expressing my feminine side is concerned. You may have read my previous thread at the following link which will give you some background to what i'm about to update you on:
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=47052
Since coming out to some girls at work before Xmas, my confidence to express my girly side has escalated. Here's a few things i wanted to update you with. The other week, a girl at work was spraying herself with some perfume i loved the smell of. So, without even thinking about it, i went up to her and said i loved her perfume and asked her which one it was? She told me and i thought that i must buy some. Anyways, last weekend i bought some (Paradise perfume - you can buy it from a retailer called 'Next' here in the UK) Got to work on Monday and sent an e-mail to the girl to say i bought some. This girl must have known about my femme side because when she replied she said that she was glad i liked it and that she would be buying more on pay day....wicked! When i said i wished i could wear it for work (bearing in mind i would be in male mode) she said "You should. Why not? Bless her!
The same girl did something which i thought was pretty cool a few weeks ago. She asked me to take a look at something she had bought for a special weekend away with her boyfriend. I went over to her and she opened up a pink bag for me to take a look. Inside was a pair of white lacy panties and a camisole. She asked me what i thought of 'em? I said they were fab and that her boyfriend was going to have a great weekend! lol She said "I didn't show 'Rob' (our manager) as he wouldn't be interested" and bearing in mind that girls out number the guys 10 - 1. I thought it was great that she could share something so intimate. i just felt like one of her girlfriends.
I'm finding that other girls seem to be more warming towards me in the office now. It's as if i'm not a male threat to them. I think my success has been that i don't look/act embarrassed when i mention that i like what they're wearing, their new hand bag, make up etc etc I act naturally. However, until the recent mention to one of the girls that i'd bought some perfume, i'd never mentioned that i'd got the item. Just offered my compliments. The real girls in the office have just put 2 and 2 together and worked me out for themselves. They know i have a long-term girlfriend so no longer think i am gay.
To add the icing on the cake, i'm now going into work with french manicured nails with bright white tips and don't feel uncomfortable. Although i get a bit shy if men are around, around the girls i'm showing my nails off. Some of the girls have openly said how nice they look where others have definitely noticed them and haven't said anything. However, i've had NO adverse comments so i guess all is fine.
One last thing. A girl who i came out to at work late last year, offered me a make up catalogue, i.e. www.avon.com the other day. Asked me if i wanted to buy anything out of it. How sweet, huh? Of course, i'm gonna have to buy some items from it hehe
Anyways, that's enough from me for now. Just wanted to share these special moments that are making my life complete right now. Would love to hear other girls' experiences at work.
Take care for now.
Sara xxxx