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Felix
02-28-2007, 02:44 PM
Omg :eek: how close to the edge of bein outed do ya think this is? Some one who I really trusted with my secret has discussed my name thing with her best mate and she said I would suit Alix is that right for a boy? I was like omg I didn't want her to know or anybody cos I'm not ready for that :mad: I was like she might guess now so make sure she don't tell anyone about it and don't tell anyone else :( I said well lots of dykes dress like men so she might not guess! I will feel real strange next time I see her. Omg what if she says hi Alix or Toby :eek: I'll die of :o but knowing me I'll just say hi back :heehee:

Shelly Preston
02-28-2007, 02:46 PM
I think its all going to be down to her mates attitude


You may find her mate is more sensitive (i hope)

John
02-28-2007, 02:55 PM
Ohh, that'll be tence. Prehaps you need to remind her the extent of you're closetness?

Hope it workes out, anyway.

Abraxas
02-28-2007, 03:03 PM
Well... IMO, Alix, Alex, Al, Ali, Allie, or basically any shortening of Alexander could also be a shortening of Alexandra/ Alexa/ Alexis and is therefore a unisex name. If it's that you're worried about, I couldn't be. Toby... That's a bit harder to explain, but then I've known a lot of girls with male nicknames, too. I call my friend Jamie, James or Jameson and nobody bats an eye at that.
As for her guessing... Well, it seems to me she doesn't really have a problem with it but, what's done is done. Sorry you were possibly outed, though. But, who knows, it might end up being a good thing.

Felix
02-28-2007, 03:05 PM
Lol :o Thanx Josh 99% of my closet is male except for one outfit I keep for my parents but even that is black and only a little fem.

Yeah I know what ya mean Shelly thanx :hugs: xx Felix

Kimberley
02-28-2007, 03:20 PM
I dont know Felix, I think that she already knows obviously and likely doesnt care. To know you is to love you hon and nothing better can be said by anyone so worry? Nahhhhh.

Now the one who blew the whistle.... gotta stick handy? :D

:hugs:
Kimberley

Felix
02-28-2007, 03:32 PM
Hi Abs ya prob right on all counts she may have guessed already and like Kimberley said she probably knows and doesn't care...Hope so :straightface:
Awwww! I like the last bit Kim about knowing me is to love me, that's sweet :happy: Lol I did get the stick out already to the whistle blower I don't think she will tell anybody else without askin me first xx Felix :hugs:

Tristan
02-28-2007, 07:17 PM
I'd say to try to remain calm about it. If you don't make a big deal about it, this person probably won't think too much about the name thing either. If Prince can change his name to a symbol, I think you're ok looking to masculine names. Even if they do put it together, I guess sooner or later the truth does come out, but I can understand why you'd be freaking out. *peaks out of his own closet that he hides out in* I've tended to come out only to friends that live far enough away that they won't slip something to my family who I haven't come out yet too. Anyway, really hope it works out for you and things aren't tense.