i found something you might want to look at expecialy the new gg's it might help

[cdjenny]

http://www.transgender.org/tpitt/what_are_youx.html

and this one as well

http://www.mindspring.com/~karen.anne.taylor/hebeshe.html

enjoy:hugs:

[Michelle 51]

Thank's Jenny Good reading and should be helpfull to SO and wive's.I wish i could have read this stuff year's ago instead of thinking i was the only guy out there wanting to wear women's underwear.This forum has been a biggest asset to understanding this side of me

[marie354]

Thank-you muchly Jenny. I've put shortcuts for both on my desktop so my SO and I can referance them. I was reading some of the second to my SO and she wants to read it as well.

Cool!

[Peggy55]

Agreed. More informative stuff. Thanks

[Cristi]

It is strange to think you are unique, then read something like that. It shows me that I may be 'different', but certainly not unique (or alone).

[Alice B]

That was great. Well researched and presented. Printed and will give to my wife.

[Barb Valentine]

Thank for sharing this Jenny
The only thing I didn't like is the comment

"the true Crossdresser like to project the most realistic image that they can"

Now I consider myself a true Crossdresser
But don't want to project the most realistic image
Well at least that's my:2c:

[cdjenny]

Thank for sharing this Jenny
The only thing I didn't like is the comment

"the true Crossdresser like to project the most realistic image that they can"

Now I consider myself a true Crossdresser
But don't want to project the most realistic image
Well at least that's my:2c:


i can agree there..but i didn't write it i just came across it..and i thought that some of our so's and newbee's here might find it helpfull

[Sheila]

http://www.beaumontsociety.org.uk/wobs/howtellpartner.html

an extract from the article above


Be patient in dealing with her concerns. Allow her time to think, and do not press her for immediate acceptance. If she does tell you that she understands and still loves you, tell her how much that means to you. But do not overestimate her degree of acceptance based on her initial response. There are many reasons why she may give you the impression that she is comfortable with your crossdressing when in fact she is not. Perhaps she is concerned about you and does not want you to feel rejected. Perhaps she is afraid of being rejected herself. Perhaps she simply feels stunned and emotionally drained, and is looking for the easiest way to end the conversation without getting into an argument. Delayed reactions are very common.