just reflecting

[kellylv]

After reading a post today it brought back a pleasant memory. I had come home one day to find my girlfriend sitting at my dining room table with a pair of 4" soft leather red ankle strap heels and an afternoon refreshment, she wanted to know if I was seeing another woman, or if they were my ex's. I broke open a refreshment sat down, and told her they were mine. There was silence, a little smile followed by a short ( really ?!!?). She was unconvinced that they were mine, so a little more discussion a little more disbelief a touch more refreshment; and finally she was relieved that they were mine, which quite supprised me: A big whew went up from within. WE let the discussion sit for several weeks, at which time she convinced me to dress up for her. Its been wonderful ever since, more humor than hard times. She told me later how relieved she was when she found out they were not another woman's, and she still gets a smile from that moment of discovery, nevertheless shes now my very supprtive so. Hope you all have a wonderful day, I wish all ggs to be as supportive and humorous as mine has mostly been.

[uknowhoo]

Hiya Kelly, and thanks for posting. It's always nice to hear little stories like these... they provide hope and encouragement to many. So you and your SO wear the same size shoes! You're doubly lucky!!:p xoxo Tammi

[Kelsy]

Hi Kelly

Your story brought me back to when my SO discovered I was ordering panties online! Her first and quite typical reaction was, who was the woman was I buying them for? Was I seeing someone? Well being completely cornered and for the first time in 40 years the moment of truth had arrived. I told her that they were for me but she didn't believe it.:eek: I had to convince her they were mine by showing them to her and the rest of my stash. I believe my SO was actually relieved. Something told me she could be trusted with the info and has been completely accepting. We now have alot of fun with it!!:D

Jennifer:happy:

[Angie G]

Kelly my wife found A few things I feft out befor she knew I dresses one thing led to another now she knows I was not seeing someone and it accepting of Angie :hugs:
Angie

[Wenda]

Great Stories. thanks for sharing them. w.

[Holly]

Kelly, thank-you for posting this. I gives hope to so many here who desperately want to have an accepting wife/SO. Our wonderful GG's, just as we ourselves, are placed throughout the acceptance spectrum. The use of a little humor and a dash of "adult libation" worked well for you. Congratulations to the two of you.

[linnea]

These stories do give me hope that I may be able to disclose my CD life fully to my SO.

[Country girl]

I am happy for y'all. I hope more CDer's can find this level of acceptance. For some of us it is easier. I can't explain it, it just is. I was raised in a very conservative family who I know would not be accepting of my CD SO. But for some unknown reason, I like to think it is as close to unconditional love[other than the love of God] as we can get, I am accepting, never had a problem with it. Also, I have 3 children, 2 of which are adults, and, a 3rd who will be in a couple of years, that are all very tolerant and accepting of different lifestyles and I'm sure it is because of the way I raised them. As my 21 year old daughter said to me recently, just because people are different, doesn't make them bad. Pretty smart, that one! I'm glad you shared with us. :hugs: CG gg

[marie354]

That's such good news that I feel like crying. It's not easy for a woman to understand what CDing is all about. We have a hard time just understanding ourselves sometimes.
I have a supporting SO too and it's great to hear about someone elses. Maybe there is light at the end of the tunnel for all.

[Suzie S.]

Hey Kelly! That is wonderful that your girlfriend accepted it so well! It's nice to look back and be able to smile over that discovery. I'm glad it worked out so well for you! She's a keeper, and don't let her forget it! :D

[RachelDenise]

Kelly, you are so very lucky. Treat your SO well, she's worth her weight in gold! :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

[GinaVegas]

Kelly, it's good to hear that everything turned out OK for you!

[Lovely Rita]

Kelly it happened almost exactly the same for me. My SO saw a credit card statement for lingerie and Hi heel shoes, which she knew I did not buy for her.

I am happy things turned out well for you as they did for me too.

surrendipity may be a malapropism in this case but what the heck

[Svetlana]

Hmm, so the secret is to leave a few clues around to make your SO think you're cheating on her, and then when she confronts you you can reveal that you're just a crossdresser. She'll be too relieved to think it's weird, which will leave her with a lingering psychological feeling that CDing is a good thing! Brilliant!

I wonder how things would have gone if I had told my ex I was interested in CDing. When I told her I thought I might be a little bit bisexual, she screamed into her pillow no less than three times, which makes me think she might not have taken it very well. :P

[kellylv]

Thank you all so much for your kind and enjoyable responses really do appreciate the thoughts, and stories; and no Tammi my so's shoes don't fit; but my ex's did. I am now lucky to have shoes I only dreamed about, and enjoy the choices I never had. To all of you have a wonderful day full of mystery and joy. Kelly