Do any of you girls get aroused

[Beth]

In a male way when you dress?

[Sandra H]

Hi Beth.

I do not get aroused when I dress, to me it is just a normal thing. Now I have worn every type of clothing. But over the years as I was wanting to try a new thing say like a bra I would get excited but in a way of increase heartbeat and a thrill, but not in a sexual way.

There has been other threads on this subject and it seems that some girls do get aroused in the way you ask. But to me I like panties over underpants in much the same way as I like say a blue shirt over a green one. If you know what I mean.

[The Girly Caveman]

Yes Elizabeth it's true ... there is an erection when I dress. As a matter of fact sometimes it can become a 'problem' getting everything to fit in place, if you know what I mean. Dressing has always been a sexual thing for me because I love the way the materials hug my penis and scrotum; the way the silk satin and other materials feel against my skin. It is for this reason that I've always felt it unfair that the 'girls' underthings always had the nice materials while the guys were condemned to 100% cotton. 100% boring I say.
I'm sitting here at my desk wearing a pair of dress pants, dress shirt and tie while underneath I'm wearing stay ups, silk panties and a camisole. When I get home off come the work clothes but not the undies - unless it's to freshen up. But just thinking about what I am wearing can bring on a certain stiffeining.
What say you Ladies? Am I alone in this?
Love to all,
Cavey.

[Beth]

Yeah makes sense what your saying........... doesnt feel normal for me... I just like the feeling when i dress...


oh and its just Beth.....

[gender_blender]

Yes definitely. But that might be because I'm attracted to the girl I see in the mirror and she does anything I want her to...or it might be because I'm a transvestite and dressing is one of many things that makes me feel very feminine.

[Tristen Cox]

I dress to dress. If I want arousal I will find someone to get aroused with.

[CharlotteSomers]

Yes definitely. But that might be because I'm attracted to the girl I see in the mirror and she does anything I want her to...or it might be because I'm a transvestite and dressing is one of many things that makes me feel very feminine.

If I saw the same girl in the mirror that you see, I'd get aroused too!. :D

Seriously though, dressing up doesn't arouse me by itself. Sometimes looking at my own pictures, or myself in the mirror, does arouse me because I love to see women dressed in the same things. Looking at the videos I've taken of myself in public arouses me. I love seeing my hair blow in the wind and how my skirt swishes from side to side when I'm walking away from the camera.

Also, usually before I try to get myself aroused, I dress up. I find self pleasure much more satisfying when dressed sexy with long hair.

[The Girly Caveman]

Also, usually before I try to get myself aroused, I dress up. I find self pleasure much more satisfying when dressed sexy with long hair.[/QUOTE]

Thanks Charlotte:

As usual there is always someone who comes along and expresses what I was trying to say in my own clumsy way quite eloquently and in fewer words.

Oh and sorry about the name Beth.

Love to all.

[Beth]

thats it..... i think i fancy myself when im dressed sexy
the figure in the mirror turns me on.... but i do like bein dressed and just lounging about the house also.

[Laura Jane]

Dressing up and Masturbation are two different things in my book. I have of course indulged in Masturbation when dressed in Lingerie, but that is only a small part of the statisfaction of cross dressing.

I love dressing up for its own sake, to see the woman I could be looking back at me from the mirror.

When I get that look right, I do get a wonderful feeling, I feel it my loins, but its not a male arousal as such. I suppose knee trembler is the term I looking for!

[susanmaid]

When I am dressd I am simply me and am happy to be so

[Aloha_Dana]

Beth,

I also have been dressing since early childhood. I also have a heavy lingerie fetish. God, I can't get enough of it. Love to wear it. Love to see it worn. This is just one of the reasons I get sexually excited while dressing. At the same time, I also get that 'oh so comfortable' feeling while dressed. I like the taboo aspect of dressing, I like the sexy, flirty aspect. I like the comfort aspect. I like the new sensations of the materials and clothes. When I'm happy and feel good, I'm excited.

So have I muddied up the waters enough?

Aloha, Dana

[ChristineRenee]

I with my lil' sis Tristen on this one. I dress to dress. When I want arousal...I'll wake up the wife!:D


Love,
Chrissie:)

[Rachel Ann]

If I want arousal I will find someone to get aroused with.

When I want arousal...I'll wake up the wife! :D
That's more easily managed for some than for others, girls.

[StephanieCD]

I definitely do - almost always have. Sometimes now that I'm a BIT older it's not so much the focus but all roads lead to Rome.

[LauraLeigh]

That's more easily managed for some than for others, girls.

Aint THAT the truth....Cheese and rice

[Jenibelle]

During my young years did get aroused when I dressed but it was usually just panties and a bra that I wore then.. actually back then just about anything would get me aroused.. lol. recently since I started to dress to actually look as fem as possible and pass as a female It has no arousal with it.

[Wendy me]

when i dress it's for wendy......no male aeouse here :eek: .....we lock "him" in the closet........were "he" belongs.................... :p

[crispy]

I used to get dressed to get aroused.

Now I dress to relax, but I can only get aroused when I'm dressed.

[Akyra]

I used to get dressed to get aroused.

Now I dress to relax, but I can only get aroused when I'm dressed.

huh how does that work :confused:

[CindyT]

It DOES get me aroused! Thats half the fun for me, see how long I can stay dressed and hold out! Sometimes it takes a uh er release to be able to fit comfortably in shorts or something like that. :rolleyes:

CindyT

[crispy]

huh how does that work :confused:
too difficult for your tiny brain, Akyra dear? :rolleyes:

................. ask Tristen, she is the ultimate source of all wisdom ;)

[Akyra]

Now I dress to relax .
okeiz....

but I can only get aroused when I'm dressed.
stop comfusin me :mad:

im blonde remember....

[crispy]

okeiz....

stop comfusin me :mad:

im blonde remember....
You're too modest, Akyra dear. I think you're actually a bit of a devil witch in disguise. All I know about Akyra is written here:

Upon the year 1396, a rare opportunity arose for Darkmagic to take exotic photographs of the toes of Akyra. The images were taken and imposed upon a spellbook as to permit the spell caster to relax while casting. Little was their knowledge to know that the watermarking of the pages would cause them to become magically unstable, losing their resist-fire attribute. Upon a fierce battle with Murmur, the Temple Wizard, the spellbook burst into flames from the fires of his Flame Wind spell. The spellbook was beyond repair, and its few remaining ashes were ceremoniously poured in the waters of the ocean. As for when we are children, we wrinkle our toes in the sands of the tide; for the death of this relic, it was returned to wrinkle it self upon the sands of time.

watch out for your magical toes, Akyra, Crispy's about.


........................ the sign of the shark: <:D>

[Rikki]

I started crossdressing too young to get aroused, but later years I did get aroused everytime I dressed for several years. Now though I dress for Rikki and just feel good and relaxed. To get aroused though I have to be dressed in something soft and silky and have the wife with me. I dress every night in a silky night gown and have for years, so the arousel has wasted away years a go.


Rikki

[Tristen Cox]

There's more to that story folks:

In olden times a feared sea monster was battled by all known nations before the begining of current history. A pact was made to banish her by magic and incase her in the body of a mortal shark, but alas she wasn't mortal at all. For centuries she had disappeared into the black depths of the sea to be seen not by a soul. She feed on those who would subdue her and waited for her time to once again arrive when she could return to those long forgotten shores of her enemies and feast upon their toes. Her strength and power grew over the course of aeons. And again she threatens all of the world with her deadly teeth. In search of the only one descendant who still lives to this day. The seventh child born to the seventh generation of the seventh family of the lost continent that fell beneath the sea so long ago. Her name is Akyra :D



Ps Bite Me Crispy :p

[petticoatlisa]

100% for arousing for me and it has been for 17+ years. As someone else said before, that's part of the fun, the anticipation, choosing the outfit, hair, makeup, shoes. I get totally excited during every phase. So after I'm all dolled up and get in front of the mirror i have to "relieve" myself :p last night was a perfect example. I was aroused all day at work just thinking about it while browsing for shoes on eBay. Once i got home it was off with the work clothes and on with Lisa :)

[eleventhdr]

Yes but of course I can get aroused when I am dress enfemm. Despite all of my wanting to escape and be completly female. The male part of me does and problay always will do this until and unless i would become female then it would not matter anymore. But so far right now yes that does happen. And as far as masturbation yes this does happen to when dressed still I can want to do that when dressed as well I think most of us cd's can get aroused and want to masturbate when dressed we are still male hard as we try to escape it. Maybe a very few who have dressed for a very long time can get used to it and not be so. But I know for me I have not reached that point as of yet. I think what causes it for me is the fact that when i am dresssd and get aroused is that I am saying to myself that I'm a girl and this causes me to want to fantisize of being female and wanting to fuction as female this is a great fantasy for me. Oh well!. I wish i could just finally change into female then it would all be over and I really could be who and what I really want to be. Suzy! The Doctor Eleventh!.

[crispy]

There's more to that story folks:

In olden times a feared sea monster was battled by all known nations before the begining of current history. A pact was made to banish her by magic and incase her in the body of a mortal shark, but alas she wasn't mortal at all. For centuries she had disappeared into the black depths of the sea to be seen not by a soul. She feed on those who would subdue her and waited for her time to once again arrive when she could return to those long forgotten shores of her enemies and feast upon their toes. Her strength and power grew over the course of aeons. And again she threatens all of the world with her deadly teeth. In search of the only one descendant who still lives to this day. The seventh child born to the seventh generation of the seventh family of the lost continent that fell beneath the sea so long ago. Her name is Akyra



Ps Bite Me Crispy :p

can't she speak for herself............. ? :confused: ;) :p

[sissy stacy]

(curtsey)

i do. i always have. One of the advantages of liking petticoats is that my excitement is not obvious when i go out. It does tend to stain my panties, though.

(curtsey)

--sissy stacy

[Tristen Cox]

can't she speak for herself............. ? :confused: ;) :p
Do you really want her too? ;)

[crispy]

(curtsey)

i do. i always have. One of the advantages of liking petticoats is that my excitement is not obvious when i go out. It does tend to stain my panties, though.

(curtsey)

--sissy stacy
:eek: lack of hygeine : that's what sanitary pads are for :rolleyes: .

[Kassandra]

When I first started dressing, there was that type of excitement. I think it was the idea of doing forbiden things. But soon it felt normal. I no longer get aroused. I get a feeling of excitement and anticipation, but not aroused not in the male way. More a feeling of returning home after along absence. Then after a time, the excitement fades and I am overcome with a feeling of comfort and peace.

[Sweet Susan]

Absolutely. Don't you?

[Sharon]

Not so much as I just feel more vital and comfortable.

[derminator]

Dressing up has always been arousing for me, it's probably why I've kept doing it..... sometimes just thinking about it makes me aroused... but then I have a very active minded thingy (sorry if that's way TMI, but it's just the truth).

[Sweet Jeanette]

Dressing up has always been arousing for me, it's probably why I've kept doing it..... sometimes just thinking about it makes me aroused... but then I have a very active minded thingy (sorry if that's way TMI, but it's just the truth).

I am very similar to you in this way.---I too, get aroused, if I even think about it.---When I actually do dress, I sometimes get so aroused, that I have an unintentional accident! :o -------My imagination is very active too!!! :D

[ToniB]

I'm firmly in the aroused camp. But then I prefer to wear the sort of sexy lingerie, footwear or clothes that would arouse me if I saw them on a real woman, so perhaps it's self fulfilling. Even fantacising about either my wife or myself wearing clothes like that can have the same effect, so perhaps with me it's arousal that is my primary objective, and CDing is my means to that end. Am I getting deep into self-analysis, or do you others feel the same motivation?

ToniB

[trudy lorrette]

In a male way when you dress?
er.. YES!
thats why i do it...

[Kate_Uhler]

Yes definitely. But that might be because I'm attracted to the girl I see in the mirror and she does anything I want her to...or it might be because I'm a transvestite and dressing is one of many things that makes me feel very feminine.

Yes... it really is the ultimate narcissus tale... like having my own personal peep show... and I don't need a pocket full of quarters...

For me I find there is this grey area that mixes between the erotic 'woman' love visuals that stem directly from my hetro fellings towards women and the more quiet feelings of submissive delicateness of en femme behavior and mannerisms. Typically the hetro in me will take the 'props' off after 'self soothing' and go to sleep while the femme in me will curl up and entwine my silky hosed legs together and cradle my breasts in quiet reverie. I let the two play together on a good night.


good thread thanks..

kisses,
kate.

[Wendy me]

we keep "him" locked in the closet when wendy's playing and cought "him" peeking

[cdgirl]

thats the first thing that happens when dressed
iam sexually aroused i think thats in the whole process
of dressing feeling like awoman in every sense of the
word and getting aroused is one of them right girls :D
huggs dcgirl.

[crispy]

Yes... it really is the ultimate narcissus tale... like having my own personal peep show... and I don't need a pocket full of quarters...

For me I find there is this grey area that mixes between the erotic 'woman' love visuals that stem directly from my hetro fellings towards women and the more quiet feelings of submissive delicateness of en femme behavior and mannerisms. Typically the hetro in me will take the 'props' off after 'self soothing' and go to sleep while the femme in me will curl up and entwine my silky hosed legs together and cradle my breasts in quiet reverie. I let the two play together on a good night.


good thread thanks..

kisses,
kate.

kate, I couldn't have put it better myself.

[tricot gal]

I agree wholeheartedly with Derminator and Toni B that arousal is the major reason for crossdressing. In my forty year history of crossdressing, I have always derived the most pleasure from the transformation experience by reaching an erotic climax. You momentarily change your personality and outward appearance and this process mentally makes you feel like you've become a she-male. This sensation is intensified if you are wearing sexy lingerie, breastforms, a wig, lipstick and shoes. The arousal of course commences as you discard your male clothing and start putting on your female attire and continues to build up until the arousal finally gives you what you've been anticipating and longing for.

[Kate_Uhler]

kate, I couldn't have put it better myself.

crispy,

now will you eat my toes.... ????? huh? will ya? huh? please please!


lil'sharkbites,
kate

[Melissa A.]

What you all said.

Hugs,

Melissa :)

[Lesha]

I havent had the chance (or taken the chance) to go all the way with makeup, wigs, etc, so i would have to say that i dress to get aroused. Though sometimes when i get up in the morning I like to slip into some panties and wear them all day. Especially if i have somthing stressful or nervous to do, like a job interview. I get a strange confidence, maybe because i have a sexy secret!

Lesha

[confusionatitsbest]

Hi to all out there,

I must admit dressing use to turn me on terribly, the first chance, new item or just simply new experiance use to send me frantis, Now this was ok until all the blouses skirts and lingerie had been tried many a fantasie had been fulfilled. Then came along silk, satin and gloss tights/stockings wow that was the next level. After that condoms filled with water my god did they feel natural which led to the feeling what would this be like outside. So the one night I went to a secluded area, dressed fully make up the lot, got out the car, walked 10 paces and liturally ejaculated in my pants!!!!!!!!!!! :eek:what a nightmare!!!!!! so to me now every new experience is stimulating, roll on my breastforms arriving within the next couple of weeks, definatly will need panty liners!!!!!!!! so to me the more the new experience the more the turn on. Now I find I don't get an erection just dressing, (well now and again when Iam really horny) to me therefore the more the new experiance the more the turn on.

Love the website, love the people, god what a fantastic place to feel at ease. xxxxx :) :) :)

[confusionatitsbest]

Hi All again,

I supose then this poses the question "is crossdressing purely a sexual desire or is it something else" I dont think theres a definate answer to that??? :confused:

good debating!!!!!!!! :D

[mary anne]

For me it depends what I'm dressing in.If its a pantsuit and blouse then no I'm not aroused,but if its a sexy silky nightie or lingerie,then most definitely I'll be aroused because it makes me feel like a sexy woman

[janice4ever]

:) I use to in the beginning of dressing many years ago,but now nothing. I either got used to it or I'm turning into a girl

[confusionatitsbest]

This is a very good point janice, Do we just get use to stages and yearn for more? i.e. dressing in mums or sis's clothes, to actually buying our own, visiting a cross dressers transformation shop are these all stages? admitidly I found each stage a brilliant turn on. The worrieng thought is were it may end up!!!!!!!!!!!! :confused:

[stevie h]

i am like crispy.

i dress because i have to.

without it i am so not me.

arousal, whats that.

i am in a bit of a bad land at the mo.

life is a real b........d at times


love

stevie