Do you get treated like a lady?

[Barb Valentine]

When you go out dressed have you ever been
Treated like a lady; like having a door opened for you
And how did you like it ?

[amanda barber]

yes, quite often, and its nice.
I hear Ma'am alot too.

[NatalieGirl]

Yes I have. I have been called Ma'am, had doors open for me, and even had a gentlemen buy a drink for me the other night.

It is very nice to be treated like a lady. And I am sure that all you girls agree with me that we should do everything we can to show that we deserve such respect, when we are out en femme.

[Christina Nicole]

Yes, all the time. Otherwise, what's the point of going out? I certainly don't want to be a guy in a skirt.

Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

[Sherlyn]

Hiya Barb,,can only tell ya from clubbing that the doormen always say ..Hi Ladies and open the door (unless I get it first for Di :D) .. have had a drink bought for us once so far ...that kinda stuff doesn't bother me.. I really dont think about it ,,,comes with how I look I 'spose ...but I must say getting hit on ...bugs me.. and Im still not sure how to handle it .. ... a WTF are you looking at stare usually backs the stalkers off... and Di does 1 quite nicely :D

[Brianna Lovely]

Yes, all the time. Otherwise, what's the point of going out? I certainly don't want to be a guy in a skirt.


Hey, I resemble that remark! I am a man in a skirt, well, sometimes anyway, giggle.

[Brianna Lovely]

...but I must say getting hit on ...bugs me.. and Im still not sure how to handle it .. ... a WTF are you looking at stare usually backs the stalkers off...

I usually drop back into my male voice and say "I'm not that kind of a girl", that stops them dead in their tracks.

[Karren H]

I suspect the reason Sherlyn is treated like a lady is cause she is one ... Posing as a crossdresser!! Only Di would know for sure but I've never seen any maleness in any of her pics!! Hehe

And for me... Yes... Act like a lady and you'll be treated as one..

Ohhh and I just hate it. :tongueout

Karren

[Jesse69]

They've opened doors for me and let me pass ahead in line for grocery. But I worry when guys are nice to me cuz I don't want to get hit on!

[marie354]

I was asked "is that all Maam?" once while I was endrab... Does that count?

[SherriePall]

Been called maam by SA's, but that's it that I know of.

[btmgrl6]

Yes..it's nice to be treated lik a lady. Kind of makes your day. Don't mind getting hit on now and then either...good for the ego. :heehee:

[ArleneRaquel]

I have been called Ma'am on a number of occasions by Sales Associates and Delivery ( UPS ) Men, and on two or three occasions by Delivery Ladies. I sure get a thrill when I am accepted as a Lady. Having doors held open was a rarity before I found a Boy Friend. He is always a gentleman, well almost always. :love: & :hugs: Trina - Thrilled to be A Woman

[Leslie Foxx]

Recently a young lesbian I didn't know took my hand and kissed it. Does that count? I felt very flattered.

[Kate Simmons]

Most of the already mentioned courtesies have been extended to me en femme. I return them when I get the chance as both Rich and Sal. It's nice to know there are still some gentlemen left in this world.:happy:

[Amanda Shaft]

Last weekend in a club whilst en femme, a guy whispered to me “You look absolutely stunning!” I said “Thanks I try.” I really didn’t know how to react; I can’t remember the last flattering comment I had whilst I was in male mode! In the end I felt I was a little ungracious next time I’ll say “Thank you for saying, that’s very kind.”

On another point the other day I was driving en femme and I was amazed how many times I got cut up or pulled out on: now there’s a psychology study for someone.

I try to look feminine therefore I should expect respective gender specific reactions to this, some are going to be positive some will be less so. Whatever way you look at it, this is providing a fantastic insight into the things woman face all the time and hopefully making me a better more understanding person overall.

[Shelly R]

Yes.......And love it!! When a man holds open the door, lets me into the elevators and door ways first, being called ma'am, The whole deal feels good to me. Even in a straight bar when someone wants to buy me a drink, it's nice. I am still not quite used to it.

[JoAnnDallas]

Last year I went to HEF2006. As I walded toward the Hotel, I was a little scared as to how guest would react to me. Then as I got to the Hotel door, a male guest came out, held the door for me and said 'Morning Mam". I was a little shocked at first but managed to smile to him. Then once inside, it hit me that he treated me like a lady. I started to relax and had a smile on my face all day.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

I have had many good experiences while shopping, and am thankful for evry one of them. It really feels good to be treated like a lady. I especially like it when the sales girls find outfits for me that they think would look nice. What a treat!

[carolinebrookes]

I've had a few experiences like that, such as having a door held open for me or a good evening ladies as I entered a club.

Equally so, I have felt vulnerable as a persistent fellow last week proved when he wouldn't take no for an answer. I was genuinely scared. In the end I took a chance and told him I was a guy. Strangely enough after that he wandered off and started pestering some other girl (gg i think being that it was a run of the mill club))

There are good and bad things about being seen as a woman.

[Katie Ashe]

Let see: :angry: NO... More like a :violin: on the :titanic: then a :evilbegon

[robinann]

When out shopping ,I find the older SA in department stores are more friendly to me than the younger ones. Many will talk and discuss things with you.I had on elderly woman comment on my rings and the way I look .She even asked how long I have been a woman, I replied about 3 hrs. I told her I was a crossdresser.
This made my day. I have been back several times.

[Amy Hepker]

Years ago, I went to a Walmart with my now X and we entered and the greeter said Hello Ladies and I was in heaven. Theninside my now X seen that the girls inside were staring at me and she left with me following close by. Then the Greeter said Have a good day Ladies. You know it's like the older ladies are not concerned by it to much and the younger ones only want to make fun of or chastise you for it. I did go to a Bar one time during Halloween in a beautiful dress. I got fit on by one guy and there was this drunk that could not keep his eyes off me. NO! I did not want anything to do with either one, I am not GAY!

[Robin_1616]

Since I've been out and treated well..I've learned to treat the lasdies much better when I'm a guy.

[Eileen]

Yes being treated like a lady is wonderful. My best experience was a couple of weeks ago when I went to church. The church was full and a nice late teenage boy got up and gave me his seat.

Eileen

[Jodi]

Only when I'm dressed enfemme.

Jodi

[TxKimberly]

When you go out dressed have you ever been
Treated like a lady; like having a door opened for you
And how did you like it ?

If you saw my thread "but for the kindness of strangers" you will know I've been treated as a lady once, and in a BIG way. Short story - I did something stupid (bad habit of mine) and got my truck stuck. Two gents behind me helped me get it loose by towing me out. That's a bit more than opening a door for me and was awesomely nice of them!
Kim (according to one woman behind my stuck truck I'm the "Stupid red neck bitch"<Giggle>)

[linnea]

yes, and I love it. I often have the door held open for me or have men step slightly aside to let me go through a door before they do. I enjoy the attention and consideration and say "thank you" in my softest (but audible) voice.

[MsJanessa]

absolultly love it--

[Lovely Rita]

I have and I have loved it. Let me elaborate. I have been well treated while in public. Whistles and all. Always the lady by ignoring them but they still were nice to hear.

[Stephanie Scott]

Only been out in public once (in a mall out of town) and LOVED it! Every SA called me ma'am, and the girl at the shoe store sold me 2 pairs and asked if I needed a purse to go with the shoes. (I did, but I didn't want to spend too much $$!).

Then as I was walking toward an elevator, a gentleman stepped aside to allow me to get on 1st, but I wasn't getting on, so I just said, "no thank you" in my softest voice and walked on. My heart skipped like 5 beats!

Being treated as a lady has always been an attraction for me, as it definitely appeals to my girl side. My mom raised me to be a gentleman, and I enjoy being one, but I was always a little jealous that I couldn't be the soft pretty one getting the chivalrous treatment every once in a while! Now that I experienced it, I try to redouble my efforts to be a chivalrous gentleman -- especially with my wife -- because I now have a better understanding of how meaningful it is to receive that kind of courtesy. It just makes your day.

Maybe I'll get other opportunities to be on the receiving end again in the future...

[btmgrl6]

I'D BETTER! :heehee:

Steph

[mskilmer]

I do get treated like a lady when I'm out, even though my SO often forgets and refers to me as a "he". It's pretty funny, really.

[Colleentg]

I get it all the time now. But when I heard it for the first time, it was such a thrill. I love being treated respectfully as a woman. I live across from a gas station and often go there for something I need (milk, soda, etc.). I've been in there hundreds of times and helped by everyone who works there, mostly in my male mode. Then last week, one of the common clerks asks me "arent you really a guy"? I was flattered!