how many are married?

[casey01]

I'm new to the site just wondering how many are married to the oppisite sex and how do they fell about you dressing?

[SherriePall]

I am. She's knows and is not happy.

[DAVIDA]

I am married over 16 years, and Jean has known since the day I proposed! She is involved with my dressing, which is pretty much every day.
Love, DAVIDA

[marie354]

I've been with my current GF for 5 years now, we do concider ourselves married, but we're not. (It's a monetary thing.)

[SandyR]

Married 23 years, came out "ok, got busted" about 6 months ago. Seems she has known for a long time, and we are doing good.....

SandyR

[sami1952]

I've been married for 27 years ,she has know about it for about 10 years. Sometimes she wear some of my clothes because they fit her and she lets me do my thing even in front of her.

[lexygirl]

I'm married to the most wonderful woman I have ever met. She knows and helps.

[Rene]

I have been married for 17 years. My wife has know since the very begining. She tries to be understanding, but it has been very hard for her, and it has almost broken us up over the years. Most of those years have been spent in denial about it.

We are now doing better then we ever have, She spends lot of time on Helen Boyd's boards. that has helped her a lot with understanding and dealing with things.

[Roxi Loh]

Married over 30 years. The first 27 she loved it and then decided it was not for her. She knew long before we were married. We had gotten dressed together and were very romantic...(spelled SEX). She still is tolerant but not supportive.

[ArleneRaquel]

I was married for thirthy three years, a period in which I virtually never dressed, and when I did it was only undergarments. I am sure that my wife never knew or suspected. After she died I went whole hog, so to speak, I am sure if she were still alive, my CD'ing would still be virtually non - existent. :love: & :hugs: Trina - I Still Wear My Wedding Ring

[Barb Valentine]

I'm married and still :hiding:

[nancy58]

Happily married for fourteen years, out of the closet to her for two. She tolerates this, but she doesn't like it.

[Alice B]

15 tears.She has known for the past few months and OK with it to a limit. OK, but not in her presence as yet.:happy: :happy:

[suchacutie]

Married for 33 years. We finally discovered Tina almost 2 years ago. It was a joint discovery and it's still a shared experience and adventure!

tina

[Amy Hepker]

Been married twice, and divorsed twice, because of my dressing, I think it was more because they were able to handle my dressing.

[rosiegurl]

I am, she knows and loves it, thankfully.

told her before we met, she accepted it with VERY baited breath *laughs* had the typical uneducated view of it, that I am either gay or freaky.

am so glad I told her before we got together, dunno if we would of lasted otherwise

[Byllie]

Happily married 29 years next month. My wife is tolerant of my CDing. Though she would rather not see me dressed, she accepts my clothes and stuff about, and often painted toenails.

[flatlander_48]

I was married to wife #1 for 30 years and 1 month. Crossdressing never "crossed" my mind, but she did discover that I was bisexual. That was sort of the beginning of the end. Been divorced for about 3 1/2 years. Married wife #2 almost 2 years ago. She knows all about me (and probably some things even I don't know!). She even dragged me into the Salvation Army one time to go dress shopping. Truly a bizarre experience...

[Carol Sue]

Been married for 39 years. I don't think she knows or suspects. I'm sure that if she knew she would not understand or accept.

[KarenSusan]

Never been married, so I can live my life mostly as a woman.

[Miss Petra]

Married to a wife who is somewhat supportive.

Not in front of her & not in bed. other than that I am free to be Petra.

She has lots of questions about the tri-ess group i want to go to.

Married for 7 years dated for 6 years (Long Story) total time we have been together is 13 years.

My marriage has taken lots of twists & turns over the years. 2 years of intensive weekly counseling we finally worked it out.

Now our relationship is better than ever.


Hugz,

Petra

[joanlynn28]

Was married for nine years, when my wife found out about me other life that was the end of our marraige. But since then I have begun HRT, am coming out at work and have come out to my family and finally for the first time in my life I am truly happy about myself. Just somewhat sorry that I had to take my exwife along for the ride. But I had to do it to figure out if I was or was not TG. We still remain friends I just could not stay being her husband and she considers staying with me would make her a lesbian.

[Joy Carter]

I have been under control of this little woman for thirty seven years.:heehee: We have a good marriage. But this is so against all her beliefs. So she knows it's not going away. And I can do what I want, as long it's not around her.:o

[kaitlin]

Hi Girls, Getting married soon !!! She has known from our first date, 3 years ago, 100% support. Kaitlin

[Joni Beauman]

Been married almost 24 years. We are as close as ever, perhaps due to some great acceptances from both of us. It is clear, however, that I will not be fully en femme while we are in same room together....Joni

[Fionax]

Like the old song ~ "we've been together now for forty years" married that is, so I know that she knows, but that she would rather not. I have never mentioned Fiona, but every so often something pops up...a dropped finger nail, which was carefully placed in a strategic place for me to find; a large soft parcel arrives, an odd email address on our joint computer which give the game away. I just would not want to risk our marriage by attempting to explain why Fiona exists or is almost 'the other woman' so a closet girl for me is the only happy answer. It is selfish and some would say deceitful, but there is n't much of a wound; just a scratch really, and I'm not about to rub salt in it.

Fi

[carolinewalker_2000]

I'm also married. She knows a bit about my dressing, but not the full extent of my interest. She doesn't understand why I need to dress so I have to be discrete.

[RachelDenise]

Married 22 years. She isn't accepting or tolerant. Stalemate.

[jozee]

am i married? yes, twice
does she know? yes, twice
bitch, i mean wife no 1 hated it and blew a fuse every time i even wore panties.:Angry3::mad: :thumbsdn:
loving wonderful wife no 2knew 10 yrs before we married and has always been supportive. i dress whenever i want . we shop together a lot.:hugs: :love: :thumbsup:

[Suzie S.]

My wife and I have been married for 12 wonderful years. She has always known about my crossdressing and is accepting. :happy:

[karynspanties]

Married 24 years. She has known from day one. She thought I would grow out of it. She does not know the extent of the dressing (going out in public). She buys me panties and the occasional pajamas or chemise. I wear something to bed every night. She is cool with that. Panties during sex is ok, but nothing else. When we first got married, (we were 18) she would dress me in her clothes and do my make-up. I was very passable back in the day. We do not play dress-up anymore.

[Tina Dixon]

4 years on the 23rd

[pedebra]

We have been married for 22 years now and I couldn't ask for a more wonderful wife. She doesn't know and I don't know how to tell her. I thought it was something that would go away but now I know that I was in denial.
Debra

[suezeq]

been with wife 6years known since day one she takes me shopping and when we go to usa we take empty suit case lolo

[Karren H]

I'm married 30 years... and If eel great about it!! Ohhhh How does she feel about it.... Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

:mad:

Love Karren

[Rashell StClaire]

Been married 15 years wife has known since before we got married but the last two years the urge to dress has gotten stronger. She does not like it but tolerates it as long as it is not in front of her.:sad:

[Staci G]

Married to a hater 7 years now. I have the 7 yr itch too

[maryjanecapri]

my wife loves me for who i am. i wore a dress at our wedding. even my stepchildren love and support me. i'm one of the very lucky few.

[JenniferR771]

Wife and I have been married for 25 years. She found out (busted) about 5 years ago. She dislikes my crossdressing very much--but she tolerates it if I keep it out of sight. Doesn't mind if I go to Tri Ess or to Just Us meetings in Grand Rapids.

Take a look at new avatar--it was at recent Michigan Tri-Ess meeting.

[slamddoger]

for four years itold her befor we got married so she had oppt. to stay orleave i am gland that she decide to stay we have some fun whit it

[michelleupnorth]

My ex busted me when she was leaving. She went through everything and found my goodie bag. (Just another reason for her to hate me) I think that a small part of my reason for telling her it was over was so that I could be myself, believe me it was more than just my desire to dress and find out who I am that ended a loveless relationship, plus a whole lot of other stuff. I think that a part of me actually sabotages my relationships so that I can be me

[soccervixen]

I am married for almost 24 years, only began dressing about 5 months ago, my wife supports my underdressing (she has helped me shop for panties, night clothes), knows about my love for heels, doesn't know about full dressing, don't think she would be terribly happy if she knew. I am taking it slowly to see how it develops with me, and with her.

My kids have no clue and it will stay that way.

[susann_gardener]

Married for almost 40 years. She knows but not supportive. Went to counceling once - little effect.

[Mary Jane]

I have benn married 37 years. My wife is accepting in her way, I guess. I can only dress when she is away from home.

[Jere Oneil]

I've been married 30 years,with a long period of separation. My wife knew I liked wearing skirts and dresses from about the 5th year, and accepted it at home, but not out in public, which was fine with me because, if I fully dressed, I'd look somewhat like a pregnant bearded grandmother. Although I thought our separation was somehow my fault, particularly my dressing, I've found out since that it was my wife's mental problems (she's bi-polar) and her problems with alcohol. She has beat both problems now and we are happy together.

[Carroll]

married: 8 years ...third time
Supportive wife and two kids that know

[Vicky_Scot]

Married 17 years this year...............wifes is very accepting and enjoys this side of me.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

I am married for 22 years this June and my wife has known for the last three years. She is somewhat supportive and we go shopping an awful lot together. I only wish that I would have bought her nice clothes throughout the years because she feels that I slighted her because of my clothes desires. In a way she is right since I tried to avoid shopping for a lot of years because I was constantly in denial about the dressing. I have come to terms with it now and am a bit of a clothes hog now. I also have at least 40 pair of heels, way more than her but I can't help it. She is the best thing that ever happened to me and I tell her that at least daily. She wishes we could go back to the way it used to be but she knows we never will so she makes lemonade out of the lemons I've given her. I can not ask for anything else from her, she is fantastic

[JoAnnDallas]

Married 25 years now. She doesn't know I am a CDer, but does know I

1. Shave my legs/chest/arms
2. Gets my toes painted
3. Allows me to wear fem t-shirts and shorts and sandles
4. Look at womens dress catalogs, including Victoria Secret
5. Allowed me to get a Victoria Secret Angel Card

[tealannette]

my SO is totally against me cd'ing. i think it is very selfish of her. i told her when we first started dating,(5yrs. ago) she seemed like she would be ok with it, not the case about a yr later. maybe i should've ran then.

[tommi]

Married 14 years she has known everything for 10, before she just thought it
was a lingerie fetish, doesn't support it and just tolerates me doing it.

[Katie Ashe]

Dating since Holloween 1990; Married June 1994, Still together and :love:

[Tina B.]

Thirty five years, she has know for Thirty of those years, fully supportive, and shops for Tina all the time. She never forgets my female side, when it comes to holidays such as birthdays, Christmas, or Valintines day. wedding Anniversary I insest we keep the female side of my personallity out of it.
Tina B.
I dress when ever!

[SabrinaDubh]

I am married to a wife who thinks that being trans is no big deal. Her only limits are: No mones, no surgery no coming out without her knowledge, and no kissing while the forms are on. It freaks her out a bit. :)

I realize that I am unusually lucky to have a wife who sees it all as a non-issue.

[Andrea Nicole]

Hi,
I'm a widower, and was married for 14 years. It's been over 20 years now that I have not been married, but I have seen our two sons grow into fine young men, great wives, and children, and super careers.
I don't think I'd ever get married again .... I'm too old now, and really ... it wouldn't be fair to the lady. I thought my wife was PERFECT in all respects, and would never want another lady to be in her shadow.
Oh, my wife was the one who actually started this CD thing for me. I was 39, and she hastily dressed me at Halloween to hand out the candy ... well, one thing led to another.
Huggs,
Andi .....

[cd300]

well wife knew before marriage but chose to look at it as a joke. we have had our us and downs with it including a months long seperation but recently she has come to the conclusion without jessica in my life i am not me and we have come to the understanding that whenever she is gonna be gone a while i can be me :) but around her it is only plain panties or else.!!! so welcome to the forum and i know all the ladies here will be exteremely helpful to you...

lots a luck...

Jessica

[Melanie R]

Married for 26 years, 5 months and 21 days. She has known about my dressing and is 100% supportive from day one when I told her one month after we were married. She got so involved that she wrote four books on the topic of men who cross gender lines and has appeared on many national television programs on the topic. I spend 90% of my time enfemme.

[Nicole]

Married happily and we are currently exploring what is possible. Although she has not seen me in full attire yet, she knows and has already made a few clothing suggestions which is a positive sign. Makes me love her even more! :o

[TerriCT]

Married 28 years...she only knows about the panties but cannot understand why I need them.

[Bev06 GG]

Been together four years and I am hoping that he/she is gonna make an honest woman of me this year some time. I am a practising christian and dont feel comfortable living over the brush so's to speak.
We plan to have a wedding and a blessing so that Jay can wear a wedding dress for one or the other. I will probably wear a suit or tuxedo for both, tee hee.
Love Bev

[amandacd2002]

Been merried for about 6 mo. now, and I told her before we got married. very supportive her name is TadpoleGG on here

[luv2dress]

We meet since 11 years next month and maried since 5 1/2 years now,
She is a wonderfull wife and she is supporting to a certain point. She is kind of responsable of my femme side. She push me to develop my sensuality and my femme side so much that cding began to take a big place in my life. She didnt expect that to append. She buy me panties, let me wear woman jeans,
gave me some of her clothes and let me wear a bra when i feel to.
Sometimes when my fem side take to much place she tell me to leave it in the closet for a while. I have a great wife and i love her.:love:

[Dawn D.]

Just passed our 27th anniversary! She has known that I liked to wear panties since before we were married. She did not really know the extent of my CDing until about a year ago, when it hit me again like train at 90 mph! Took a while but she has become quite supportive with few exceptions. Love her to pieces too!!!!


Dawn

[susie evans]

i have been happily married for thirty five years :D

susie

[az_azeel]

c/ding was the downfall of my marriage after 7 years... went through all the "I can give this up" but as we all know its impossible... actualy still married but living with a very understanding girl now... in fact yesterday we celebrated 3 years together..

[AllyM]

I am married (29 years) and she is supportive.

[Robin_1616]

I ve been married 13 years lived together another 10 before that. A few years ago we went to a masquerade ball and I went as wonder womaqn. That was the start of her knowing. I usually only dress when we go out.that wa sthe most fun a few times a year. She seems somewhat OK with it.

[TxKimberly]

Married for 20 years and wouldn't change a thing.
She has known since the start and is OK with it but doesn't want to be a part of it. She doesn't hate it, and I can talk to her about it, or fashion, or makeup, and its ok, she just doesn't care to go out with me.
Considering what it must take for her to be even "OK" with it, I have no complaints.
Kim

[insearchofme]

We;ve been married 35 years, been together 39. She knows and is ok with me wearing panties most of the time, waxing my chest, arms, under arms and back. She wouldn't be ok with me CDing fully.

[Kathryn Philips]

Married for 12yrs. She will neither accept nor permit me to dress. If I had known how strong my inner woman is now all those years ago, perhaps I would have decided not to marry...

[Lori SC]

I've bee married 27 years and have 3 grown children. I told my wife a little over 2 years ago, and she is very supportive now. We occasionally go out together en femme. She goes with me to conventions and we meet wonderful friends there!

Hugs, Lori

[VickieBonne]

Married. She knows and is very supportive, participates, and enjoys it as well.

[Alice460]

I am married, but my wife does not like the dressing. She prefers that I stick to lingerie.

[GinaVegas]

I'm married, and this year will be our 9th anniversary. My wife found out about me just this past November, and even though she's not thrilled about it, she is working with me on it. I love her to pieces for it!!!

[Jenny Wilson]

I've been married for 27-1/2 years, but I moved out two days ago (on Monday) because I had it with her mood swings and verbal abuse.

She doesn't know about my crossdressing but I know she thinks crossdressers are sick and are scum. She's extremely "vanilla" when it comes to sex and gender issues in general. She's a prude about almost everything.

She hates my other hobbies, tactical pistol shooting and sports car racing. She'd have gone ballistic if she had ever found out about Jenny.

Ultimately, I left because I was sick of the abuse. However, I am looking forward to Jenny being able to timeshare more of Don's life.

Jenny

[Delila]

I am married. I told my wife well before we were married she buys me clothes and occasionally helps with the makeup. We are still working on the bounderies but have currently found a happy medium.

[DawnRodgers]

Married 42 years, been dressing most of that time, more on than off. She knows, doesn't like it, thinks I will stop someday. When I dress we do not get physical at all. Have three children - none of them knows (as far as I know). Have kept myself totally hairless below the nack for the last 25 years. Dawn will alwys be around.

[Marianna Julianna]

Twelve years this year, she knows (did before we got engaged), not totally comfortable with it but accepts, since I've only recently started dressing regularly again I've only just found out that rather than half ignoring it she wants to know more. I'm taking my time doing that though, wouldn't want to spook her.

[Jackie-Ann]

Roxi, I'm sorry that she turned on you after 27 years, maybe she met someone else ? Jackie-Anne

[robinann]

I have been married for 36 years and she has known about 20 years. Some times she accepts and others times forget it. She is turned off in a big time. Years ago we would go out to dinner and have good time ,but now that has died off. Sometimes she tells me go out and have fun,shopping or meetings ,so I take advantage of the offer. I can come and go as I please since retired,so dressing every day is ok with her.Life has changed when you get older,but I enjoy it to the fullest.

[Amy Randal]

Been married 20+ years. Stopped dressing for 15 after marriage. I cant bring my self to stop dressing it just makes me feel so good. If she found out she would go crazy.

[Jocelyn Quivers]

Recent newlywed. Told my wife after 1 year of dating. She knows and approves of me. :happy: Jocelyn

[johnnaisacd]

Hi, Johnna here. When I first meet my future wife, I informed her that I liked to crossdress. At the time I was into bedroom drag and latex dominaterx outfits. I figered that I had better be upfront with her from the start so as not to waste each others time. The good news is , she accepted it, even tried latex. She likes it, however, she thinks it look's much better on me (hee hee). She has bought me several store (sears) items that I wear around the house. I have even been out on several day trips dressed with her. I am not out to our famleys yet. I am one very lucky guy to have such a wounderful loving and supportive wife.

[Michelle_NY]

I am married and yse she knows but freaking hates my dressing .

[Melanie R]

The responses in this thread seem to be comparable to what I have seen over the past years. 50% of all wives either do not know or do not accept. Of the 50% who do know, less than 25% are totally accepting and fully participate and 25% tolerate but wish it would go away. What I am seeing is younger women (under age 35) married to crossdressers who are more accepting.

[Jessicainme]

Married, she doesn't know and hopefully never will. New girl at this.

[gennee]

Been married 27 years. She knows I dress. She wears my skirts and tops. She accepts me wearing panties, bra, and top but not a skirt in front of her. I'm thankful that I can do what I can.

Gennee

[Chris St Pete]

Been married 35 yrs. Came out to her 3 yrs ago. Accepts it and does help with shopping and checking me out before my outings. At this point, she doesn't feel comfortable going out with me dressed en femme. Time will tell..

[Helen in OK]

We will celebrate our 36 anniversary 2 months from now. My wife knows about my dressing and allows me to go to TriEss meetings, now with fewer grimaces but she doesn't like my dressing, will not let me dress at home, and definitely doesn't like to find out I am buying feminine clothes.

Helen in OK

[almalove]

I'm married and still :hiding:

Same here 13 years .

Almalove.

[kerrianna]

22 years, she's my best friend and she's known since the first night. She's ok with it as long as I don't get obsessed or want to transition. No worries there I don't think...well, hehehe can be a bit obsessed some days. :p

[JC]

we have been married for 33 years. last fall, we had a series of discussions. she is agreeable as long as i stay in the limits of no heels and no makeup.

i wear panties 24*7. most evenings, i wear long skirt, slip, blouse, bra or some of all. always the skirt. she has made skirts for me.

we went shopping once for a blouse ... we went into the shop and she had no idea what i liked .... we looked at everything. finally, we left. we talke and decided for me to shop the catalogs and find what i want.

she is my best friend and i love her - thnaks

jc

[jessieblake521]

I'm married 21 years she always new but what we start with and were we end up is to different story's you go from hiding in the closet and progress forward when they accept and then the rocks start rolling
Jessie

[Lisa Golightly]

Footloose and fancy free... *sniff* :(

[Rita Knight]

Hi Everyone,
I have been divorced 15 years in June. Have no desire to remarry due to how I see myself and who is available. I did not dress while married. I have seen this quote elsewhere and it really fits me well. "I could not find the woman of my dreams, so I decided to become her."

[Marcie Sexton]

21 years May 30...been out to her for over two years...needless to say there were bumps in the road of maritial bliss...now for the last year or more she has done a complete turn around...100 % supportive, we now belong to a TG/CD suppoort group that provide national support and help...have traveled to the NC area for a tri-ess meeting...

She now has a girl friend & husband:hugs: ...I have a girl friend and wife:hugs: ...

Life is good !!! :happy:

[mithali]

not married....but have a feeling it will not be accepted... here in india its not that easy

[Marcie Sexton]

20 + years of martial bliss, given it hasn't always been smooth sailing, but I would trade it for anything...and yea she know is fully supportive and enjoys her new found girl friend...

[Sinead2402]

Been married for just 3 years, even though I just turned 50:sad: , my wife found a pair of my panties, she was relieved that they were mine rather than belong to another GG, as yet I have not had the nerve to talk more openly about my CD'ing, I am not yet sure what her reaction would be to seeing me dressed, I need to take the next step.

[jeniffer]

Hi Girls, i`ve been dressing since i was 10 or 11 years old, then i met and married my wife who already know that i liked to dress.But down the 19 years that we`ve been married she has come to put up with me dressing. I`m not working at the moment because i`m just recoving from two back ops so i have the house to myself during the day. I also wear my nighty in bed sometimes i don`t bother getting dress i wear my nighty around the house all day in anyone comes to the door i just slip my (male)dressing gown on, so all in all i think i have a good life so far

All the best :love: Jennifer xxxx

[Lovely Rita]

I am married and my SO is absolutely in Love with Rita. She calls me a Lipstick Lesbian, amongst other things. We were made for each other.

Thank God

[jking90]

married almost 9 yrs, together 14+. she's tolerant of it. i told her before we got married; in fact, when i told her based on how scared i was, she thought i was dumping her, i thought she'd dump me.

but my dressing is really confined to the bedroom and around her. there's times i wish i could take certain aspects to another level, but i sense her comfort level, and realize i'm fortunate that she's willing to play along with the things that get to me, even if they're not what she'd pick as her favorite things.

[michelle-h]

I have been married to my wife for 11 years. She has known about my dressing for about 6 years, and she has been completely supportive for about a year. I am very lucky now, because she is ok with me dressing in front of her, and going out occaisonally. My wife has even bought clothes for me.

Michelle-H

[silkie h]

Together 20 years. Came out to my Wife about 7 years ago. She is supportive & accepting. I am very lucky.

[Joanboy2001]

I'm married and she goes hot and cold over it. Sometimes she helps me shop and dress and other times she throws everything out. I'm in the later condition now so I gone back into the closet.

[Crissy65]

We have been married for 37 years. She knows I dress and is supportive.. The idea of my wearing a wig feaks her out. I am thinking of dressing in private maybe that will be more acceptable to her.

[Ellie C]

was married , now divorced . Ex wife tolerated to a degree . Am now engaged to a wonderful woman who knows and is trying to understand which is all i could of hoped for :hugs:

[june58]

Married 21 years. I started hinting about it15 years ago. We started talking seriously about it 10 years ago, had a lot of tense discussions. Dress frequently at home in front of her. She tolerates it but doesn'e\t really accept it. Knows it is a part of me and won't go away. She is still here and loves me. A very special lady.

[ElleCD]

Married. 27 years. She doesn't know. Seems simpler that way.

[Alpaula]

Married 14yrs wife knows but not happy with it cannot dress in front of her,only when I'm home alone

[Juanita O]

I am married, we have been married for almost 29 yrs. She knows that I dress and she doesn't like it. She thinks that I am sick. we tryed counseling and she didn't like the counselor because he said that there is really nothing wrong being a cder.

[Mary Morgan]

I am married. She knows, and she is tolerant, sometimes supportive, but would wish it away if she could.

[GINA-CD]

I'm married and still :hiding:

Ditto... for 6 years and 7 months... probably she'll never know about it, at least not from me.

[Margot]

My wife accepts what she knows I enjoy doing. If it went away tomorrow she'd probably be just as happy. However; she feels I should dress as I like and has no problem with me fully dressed and made up around the house.
We shop together for our clothes and she advises me if she thinks something is not becoming to me.
All in all we have a great relationship. She refers to me as the housewife now that I am retired.

[Staci]

I have been married for 25 years and my wife has known since we were dating. We kind of experimented with it together. She helps me in many ways. As long as I keep my dressing as a girl a private thing with her.

[Jeannine]

We talked about it once a long time ago right after we got married, a little over 20 years ago. I told her of my interest although not the whole deal. So she invited me to show her. I half-dressed (skirt, hose and heels) and hung out with her for the evening. She started out seeming cool with it, but you could tell it was getting her depressed. So I figured we'd call it a failed experiment and leave it at that.

I have been away from CD'ing for years at a stretch (obviously my occasional episodes have been deep in the closet) but these days I'm feeling drawn back. I have only dressed fully a few times, including one memorable visit to Lynda Krupa's CD-Tips service in Philly about 8 years ago - an experience I'd love to relive...

[claireswife-gg]

6 years here. I'm the SO of a TS, not CD. The past year has been our best ever since I found out and she started transition.

[JC]

married for 33 years. she has known since Nov 2006. i can dress within our agreement. no heels and no make up. she is supportive. ok with it except withdraws if she touches a bra under the shirt. she has her limits. i do love her and thank her regularly

jc

[megan163]

Married 15 years. Told wife just couple months prior to wedding. We haven't talked about it for years since we have three young children and I don't think she wants to deal with it. I just do my thing in private now, which makes it a rare treat. I think about dressing almost all the time though. Not an easy balancing act.

[XDW Nathan-Natasha]

I'm engaged to a member of the opposite sex, if that counts for anything, and we're still planning on getting married despite my cross-dressing. It's hard for her to understand and really, really confusing her right now but she's willing to support me and learn more about my desires to dress-up and go out and all that, which is far more than I can ask of her. As I've said on other posts, and will probably say on more, she's been a saint.
I really think that us girls who are married (or engaged in my case) to GGs are super blessed, whether our wives (or fiances) understand or approve of our cross-dressing or not. Hopefully they're at least tolerating it...
I hope that helps.

[XDW Nathan-Natasha]

Ditto... for 6 years and 7 months... probably she'll never know about it, at least not from me.

I really can't imagine what it's like for you girls who have to hide this from you're wives - espeically for so long. 6 years and 7 months...? Geez, that'd feel like hell to me the whole way through... But if it's what you gotta do...

[jessieblake521]

I married 21 years she always new and its bin a long hard 21 years but we keep learning and moving forward she is great. We share our clothes now we both were the same size.
Jessie

[Natalie tv]

Ive been married for 12years and letting her know all about Natalie has helped us enjoy lots of different aspects of my femme side...

[Tiana]

yes i am married, my wife knew as soon as we started getting seious and was shocked at first but now after all these years its just part of our lives together but i know i am very lucky and count my blessings everyday x

[Michelle 51]

Married 30+ year's.She know's that i have my own underwear, and pantyhose and that i wear lingerie and let's me wear them to bed it i want to.She say's i'm nut's but she joke's about it if she call's from work and will ask are you wearing your stuff.I only started dressing in skirt's. dresses and heel's etc. in the last year or so and still unsure what to do yet. Justabit