Your perfect outing?

[Di]

I know that a lot of you don't get to go out, for many different reasons, so I thought I would start this thread to give those a chance to tell us, what YOUR perfect outing would be.For those of you that do go out and about.....is there somewhere you haven't as yet and want to?Why there? What would you wear?
Would you go alone or bring someone if so who? So spill it girls.....what would be your perfect outing?

[DonnaT]

I've been out, but I think my most perfect outting would be for my wife to go with me on a nice stroll around the block, holding hands, and her not worrying about anyone elses thoughts.

[sara_also]

Well now, This is hard for me to reply to.
every time I have been out it has been with my wonderful wife, and every outing has been perfect. We have gone out to the casinos in Vegas, Out to dinner with Tri-Ess members, out for country drives, and to the movies.
We have had CD dinner guest at our home, and that was fun also.
I would have to say that every time we have gone on an outing, It has been the best I could ever want.
I owe it all to my wonderful wife, and partner, and girl friend, all rolled into one lovely lady.

[Deborah_UK]

to work, every day

[JenniferR771]

i would love if my (disapproving) wife would have a change of heart and get me all gussied up and take me shopping, maybe out to dinner or for a few drinks.

Of course i am submissive--in a fantasy world--I would be wearing locked-on heels, locked-on dress and corset.

[Nicole]

I'd like to go on a picnic by the beach and eat lots of tasty finger foods, sip wine, and let my hair blow in the breeze. All while being sprawled out on a blanket and snuggling up with my wife.

[Eugenie]

I've been out a couple of times with a CD friend and didn't feel very comfortable... :o

The first time I went out and felt somewhat comfortable was after I had received very supportive comments by a GG whom I respect very highly for all her work in our association of defense of the right of people with handicaps. She had told me that I was doing no harm to anybody being an X-Dresser and she added, seing a picture of me, that I looked nice...That really boosted my self esteem. So the day after I felt a lot more confident, enough to go out alone during the day in the streets of Brussels.

So I think that one important componant of feelling well while going out is to have a good image of oneself while "en femme". But that is not enough.

It is out of the question that my SO would come out in the streets with me. Actually, even if she did, I'm not sure it would make me feel more comfortable...

What would really make me feel very comfortable, and even secure, would be that a nice and caring gentleman would walk side by side with me, perhaps allowing me to hold on to his strong arm...

But that is probably an unlikely thing to happen...
:hugs:
Eugenie

[SherriePall]

Di -- My perfect outing would be going out to lunch with a couple of GG's who are SA's and friends of both Sherrie and her male side. I think I would like to wear something nice (as in nice office attire), with heels, of course.

[marie354]

I'd probably like a day of shopping with a friend, male or female, CD/TG/TS, or whatever, and just have some fun. (Soon... I keep telling myself... Soon, Sandy... Soon.)

[Kelsy]

My perfect outing would be to go to a fun city , say Las Vegas, and spend a week with say , some friends from this forum and to meet other gurls and primp and dress up, get my nails done, have a make over, and go out on the town:D

Jennifer:happy:

[Lissa Stevens]

My perfect outing would be spending everyday dressed. Barring that, I guess it would be dressed in my pinstripe boot cut legging with a white polo shirt. I would have on my black strappy 2 in heel thongs. Light make up and perfume would finish out my ensemble. It would include a light lunch and a day of stopping in lots of small specialty shops. Window shopping at some and maybe buying that special item that I have desired for a long time.

[Holly]

My perfect outing would be to go to a fun city , say Las Vegas, and spend a week with say , some friends from this forum and to meet other gurls and primp and dress up, get my nails done, have a make over, and go out on the town:D

Jennifer:happy: Wow, Jennifer... that sounds like fun. Can I come too? ;)

[LisaRose]

to work, every day


Ditto Dressed Every day without repercussions would be wonderful.

[NatalieBliss]

my "perfect" dressy outing would be dinner and an art gallery with some friends. my "perfect" casual (though still girly) outing would be drinks and catching an amazing concert featuring some of my favorite female artists.

[Toyah]

Ok maybe I am odd (no comments please !!!!) apart from a very few excursions I have very little desire to venture forth I do enjoy hearing of others excursions tho

[Di]

Great answers ladies and thank you:hugs:

[michelleupnorth]

My perfect outing would be whenever I felt like it and not worry about what other people are saying about me. In time

[NatalieGirl]

I would go to the beach with a few friends. Either GGs or TGs would be welcome. Wearing a bikini and sarong, my toenails immaculately pedicured and painted a delicate shade of pink. Sunglasses on my head and long blonde hair tied in a ponytail.

Then we would go to a restaurant or nightclub. I would be wearing a lightweight cotton peasant dress, something like this (http://www.newport-news.com/shop/product_multi.aspx?styles=16767048|28616048|176300 48&index=0&gp_coll_id=2012&gp_cat_id=7505&nav_cat_id=8347&category_id=8348). Wedge espadrilles on my feet.

[JC]

to be able to walk in the yard with a long skirt, nails painted .... wit the wife. perhaps out for a burger. and no one staring or snickering...

just being accepted

jc

[nancy58]

My perfect outing -- so far -- was going to my therapy session in one of my outfits, and spending an hour talking with someone while dressed, knowing that she accepted me as I am.

[cindybarnes]

I have heard of CD/TS Cruises before and could realy enjoy a few days and nights of fun and relaxation like that .The idea of a ship full of like minded folks would be cool ! I know thats a little more than a typical outing but a girl can think big cant she ?:) Cindy did make it on a cruise years ago but only long enough to get a few pics ,,chickend out on venturing through the ship dressed.
Another cool outing would be meeting old friends and new friends at one of the rustic lodge/retreat places I have read about,,, I love the outdoors and think Fall would be a nice time of the year to mix fresh air with perfume *S*

,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,now Im ready for a vacation,, thanks Di LOL


Cindy

[Rachel Morley]

Can I have two perfect outings Di? (sorry to be difficult) :p

The first one I have already done and that was to go out clubbing with my wife as "two girls out on the town" on Saturday night. It was an awesome time that I will never forget that involved drinking wine, listening to music and laughing a lot as we got ready, then going to our favorite nightclub where (dressed in shorts skirts and heels) we drank cocktails danced to house and trance (techno) music and even got "chatted up" by guys .... or at least Marla did! :D

My other main perfect night out (fantasy?) hasn't happened yet. It's something I've always thought about since I was about 16 years old, and that is to go out with a large group of GGs (like say 6-8 of them) and me be the only guy in our group, and I am dressed fully en femme. The GGs would totally and completely treat me as female and as far as they were concerned I would be "one of the girls". In other words they don't make any allowances for me just because I'm crossdressed. I look like a girl and they are going to damm well treat me like one!! In this scenario there is no room for being shy or worrying about being read as a CD. :eek:

I've nearly done this ... as once I went out in San Fransisco with members of this very forum and the GGs were in the majority. There were 3 CDs and 4 GGs in our group. We had dinner in a "regular" restaurant before going on to a TG club. :happy:

[Audrey34]

To be able to spend a few hours walking about with other cd friends without fear of reprisals. I wish I had my own property with a large expanse of land. And a paved garden path so I could stroll around wearing a nice dress on a spring day without being disturbed.
-Audrey

[Khriss]

...riding one of the motorcycles.. "Harley" ..dressed w/thigh high boots and ? hmmm??
xx"K"

[Sally2005]

I think for me it would be spending an evening out on the town with a group of GG friends who include me as one of their own, but not ignoring the CDing so that they could give me pointers. Thinking about this, I would be comfortable around my guy friends too, it just seems to me that the group of GG girls I have in mind always look like they are having a lot of fun. My guy friends are basically boring.

[TxKimberly]

A day with you Di, a day with you! <G>
Just teasing, tell your SO not to shoot at me - I'm allergic to lead!
I 'spose the perfect day.outing would be shopping, a nice dinner, followed by the Cinderella ball so I could wear that killer full length gown that I don't have but always wanted.
All kidding aside, the perfect day would be what you consider a normal day. To be out in the world, doing every day things like going to work, going shopping, going to dinner, etc.
Kim

[Melissa Ryan]

Ok maybe I am odd (no comments please !!!!) I had to let you know I treasure your posts! :D Its not a comment, its a fact! You is so odd it makes me giggle! And you know I like to giggle! :heehee:

[Shelly Preston]

I think my perfect outing would take all day

Up early in the morning dressed casually and meet a few girls for a round of golf on a nice sunny summers morning, where we all play close to our best.
Then in for a quick change to a nice black skirt and white blouse for lunch with the girls before going shopping. Spend the afternoon having a manicure before picking out some delightful outfit, or some jewellery for a special party in the evening.
Of course getting ready for the party would be a blast picking the correct outfit. Maybe satin skirt with matching blouse or black sleeveless dress before having a wonderful evening meeting other girls and friends before clubbing I would not want the evening to end.

How would I feel -Exhausted but Elated

[Di]

Ladies thanks so much for your input. I'm finding your answers...what means the most to you as in an outing.... fascinating...thanks ladies:hugs:

[Melissa Ryan]

Thankyou for asking Di, its a very caring topic! Thankyou! :happy:

[carolinebrookes]

For me, I would say that to be in with a group of gg's on a night out clubbing sounds like my ideal night. Dressed in a similar fashion to them, eg skirt and top with heels.
I partly had a perfect night a few years back when my older sister took me out for a girls night out. Just the 2 of us. My night ended earlier than hers, due to her having "pulled". I went home alone much to my sisters disapointment. I didn't want to play gooseberry.

Although I do go out on occasion, nothing has matched my ideal night fantasy.

[Christina Nicole]

An outing would be nice; especially one where one could dress up in something fancy. What would make it perfect would be to have someone else pickup the costs!

Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

[Regina girl]

Go to another city with SO and spending the whole time dressed with her and exploring art, dancing, going out shopping etc. I would love to explore how we could grow away from our usual encumberances and learn to love each other more:love:

Regina

[Staci G]

Shopping,shopping,shopping or maybe SHOPPING
thats what I like and thats what I do best :D

[carolinewalker_2000]

My dream outing would be to go to some extremely glamorous venue where everyone was dressed up to the nines - including me; and where no-one gave a damn that I was a crossdressed fella, they just all admired my beautiful dress - (and were green with envy!)

[Bonnie D]

I have been out a couple of times in another city and had an excellent time both times.

My fantasy outing would take a full day and night. Starting with a nice relaxed scented bath, choose some comfortable clothes and get dressed, meet a cd friend for lunch and then shop for part of the afternoon, get our nails manicured/pedicured and painted, and then our hair (wigs) done. We would then go to our respective homes and get ready for the evening. Another scented bath and shave, put on sexy lingerie, do my make-up, finish getting dressed, skirt and blouse, touch of perfume, grab purse and out the door to meet my cd friend at a nice restaurant. We would then go to a cd friendly nightclub, have a few drinks and meet a couple of men, and then dance for most of the evening. The four of us would then get invited to a house party and we would party all night long. I would get home early the next morning.

[Butterfly Bill]

One outing that I remember as very satisfying was the first of the ones I described in this old Live Journal entry, the one about the PAC in Tulsa. http://butterflybill.livejournal.com/31264.html#cutid1 (All three of those were en femme, as is usual for me.)

Another one a year later in the same place is described in http://butterflybill.livejournal.com/48626.html#cutid1

[susie evans]

DI every day out is good and an adventure it's just that some are better than others :heehee: :heehee:

:love: susie

[Holly]

Well, let's see... how about meeting 35 or 40 other girls (both GG and TG), all dressed to the nines, and all getting into limousines and heading to glamorous locations all over town. At each stop we would all get out and have our pictures taken in beautiful locations with others from our group and strangers who are curious. People would ask us questions and be genuinely interested in finding out more about us. During the trip between locations, we would sip wine, eat snacks, visit and giggle and just have fun. Oh wait... I am going to do that next month in Las Vegas at Divas. Wanna come along? :D

[Di]

Well, let's see... how about meeting 35 or 40 other girls (both GG and TG), all dressed to the nines, and all getting into limousines and heading to glamorous locations all over town. At each stop we would all get out and have our pictures taken in beautiful locations with others from our group and strangers who are curious. People would ask us questions and be genuinely interested in finding out more about us. During the trip between locations, we would sip wine, eat snacks, visit and giggle and just have fun. Oh wait... I am going to do that next month in Las Vegas at Divas. Wanna come along? :D

Love to come along Holly.....but just have to live it through you....next year maybe Sher and I can go.........Take lots of pics and I want all the details...have fun.....:D

[suzy]

Great question!!

I would love to get dressed up and go out with my wife to the zoo and casually walk and talk and look at the animals, then off to a nice restaurant for a casual meal and then finish the day off by shopping for some feminine attire at the local mall....ahhhh yeah.... that's my dream....one day...:D

[Kate Simmons]

How about spending some real time with some of my friends here? I could think of nothing more perfect than that.:happy:

[DeeGirl]

I have been CD'ing for many years from the neck down and always wanted to be able to go out and never got the nerve. The ex was completely against it. I couldnt even talk her into a Halloween out...

Anyway, now that we have split and I am on my own this is something I really want to try.

I have found a place within an hours drive that offers a makeover, pictures and a chaperone to a club near their shop. This sounds like a really good option for a first timer. I really need help with hair, makeup, forms etc...I am hoping from their I can learn how to pull this off on my own.

So for me just getting out is what I would like to try - I am tired of sitting alone by myself - it's time for some fun! :D

Thoughts? Comments?
Thanks so much - perhaps this should have been its own thread...:(

Dee

[KristyCD]

For me it would be a beach vacation with another attractive CD. Hang out at the beach or pool during the day - go out dressed at night. A good place would be Miami or Ft. Lauderale

[MJ]

well i would love to go to the sky dome "rogers center" and take my friend BO GG for dinner then go for a walk down by the bay on a nice spring day just a fun night out *well i can dream*

[MsPriscilla]

I've been thinking a lt about the recent thread called 'first kiss' and what my reactions would be.


Soooooooooo................ I think my perfect outing could be spending an afternoon at a salon being made as beautiful and feminine as possible ( miracles can be worked) then being picked up by a handsome man, taken to dinner and then to a dance, all the while being treated as a charming and desirable woman.

And if the evening ended with a passionate embrace, well..............

[Kieron Andrew]

ok i got it....my perfect outing would be to take Sher and Di to a nice restaurant, then to a club to watch them dance the night away

[MJ]

i want to go there with kieron so i could dance with him :D and get my 'first kiss' after the dance

[Kieron Andrew]

i want to go there with kieron so i could dance with him :D and get my 'first kiss' after the dance
:shocked::o :heehee: :eek: oh btw i dont dance i just watch!!!

[XDW Nathan-Natasha]

Wow Di, you had to pick a thinker of a question didn't you? Lemme see... my perfect outing... (mind drifts off into dreamland).
I think my perfect outing would be a formal party, like a black tie affair. I would wear a long, slender black evening dress, above-the-elbow length black satin gloves, diamond jewlery (cuff bracelets and a collar-style choker type necklace probably), and, like the highest stiletto heels I could gracefully walk in. I'd have my hair curled and done up all pretty and wear a small, simple tiara. I'd have my finger- and toenails painted dark red and my lips to match.
I would walk around the party, drinking a glass of fine chianti and mingling with the guests who would never consider me really being a man. That would be a dream come true... Hey, once I'm published and somewhat famous I could probably attempt that - though weather or not I'd ever pass is something that no amount of success can really effect, I guess.

I love the ideas for your fantasy outings, girls! Hopefully you'll all get a chance to live them! I know I want to!

[noname]

Perfect outting? That is easy. It would be meeting up with friends, going to church and having everyone treat me like a normal person.

[Tina Dixon]

Now Di that perfect outing, would be hooking up with you Shur, now that would a blast.