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ronna
03-16-2007, 07:57 PM
Girls, I've read a lot of reasons here and I've made my own list.
Since there are only 10 choices, feel free to add your own.

Why do you do it?

Joy Carter
03-16-2007, 08:17 PM
I do it so therefore I am. :p

Butterfly Bill
03-16-2007, 08:19 PM
I voted "I don't need a reason", but you didn't include:

I like the feel of nylon, polyester, rayon, cashmere, velveteen, etc. sliding over my body as I move. I like the breezes up and down my whole body on a hot day. I hate having tight things around my waist. I like the way lots of female clothes feel, in general.

MJ
03-16-2007, 09:00 PM
what if you were born this way i can't help being me it's who i am

SandyR
03-16-2007, 09:10 PM
I just can't help it I was born this way!!!! And I am proud of that.....

SandyR

Rachel Morley
03-16-2007, 09:13 PM
I think I was born with a natural disposition to it, but I needed a trigger. I got one and now I'm a hopeless (and happy) lost case :D

Cassy11
03-16-2007, 09:24 PM
I believe it's something I was born with but then again I wouldn't have known that at the time. Having been curious about it when I was very young and then trying it I fell in love with style and the feel of the fabrics.

marie354
03-16-2007, 09:28 PM
It may be genetic in some way, but I selectes that I don't need a reason.
I am who I am and that's all that I am. (Popeye)

Amy Hepker
03-16-2007, 09:39 PM
I Do What I do, and I don't care what others think, or do I???

Daintre
03-16-2007, 09:43 PM
None of the above, if I knew the "why" I would certainly be happier.

Suzie S.
03-17-2007, 03:34 AM
I do it because I like it. I do it because I need to. It feels normal to be in women's clothes. It's an outward expression of what's on the inside. That's as close as I can come to an answer.

aka.laura
03-17-2007, 04:22 AM
To me, it´s a hobby with a nice erotic touch. I love the feel of smooth fabrics, a skirt around my legs, things like that. Apart from that, I find using makeup very erotic.

btmgrl6
03-17-2007, 05:03 AM
Got tired of being a female to male crossdresser.:heehee:

Vicky_Scot
03-17-2007, 05:07 AM
I just can't help it I was born this way!!!! And I am proud of that.....

SandyR

Ditto

Kate Simmons
03-17-2007, 07:49 AM
I was unable to vote on this because my reasons are different. I do it to balance my male and female energies. If I do not keep them balanced, my energy abilities will not function. So, it is a matter of practicality to continue my work with positive energy.:happy:

Tina Dixon
03-17-2007, 09:17 AM
How about all the above:thumbsup:

Sara Kat
03-17-2007, 09:18 AM
Why not? It's fun! :D

michellebesweet
03-17-2007, 10:46 AM
Ronna,

I don't like a lot of your choices, some make it sound like we are just strange and weird people, we are not, it is just a natural feeling that completes you. That is my answer, " It is a natural feeling that completes me".

Sam-antha
03-17-2007, 11:34 AM
I do not know, I do not want to know as long as I am happy.

Tina Dixon
03-17-2007, 12:01 PM
Ronna,

it sound like we are just strange and weird people, we are not, Never meant me have you:heehee:

Lady Katherine
03-17-2007, 12:26 PM
I was skinny and weak as a boy ... terrible in sports and all things boyish. With such an androgynous body, I found by age 11 that I looked quite nice in my mom's dresses and skirts. Perhaps that's why I began dressing and continue to do to this day ... feeling comfortable in a body that is more feminine than masculine.

SherriePall
03-17-2007, 02:08 PM
Born that way.

Sheri 4242
03-17-2007, 02:29 PM
I was unable to vote . . . I do it to balance my male and female energies.

I'm not certain I like how you phrased all your choices b/c they are dualities that are not necessarily logical matches. Combine genetics (b/c I truly believe that is a viable part of it all) with "born this way" (which is in agreement with the genetic theory), add "regardless, it IS who I am," then mix in that I absolutely LOVE that I am what I am (took years to get to this point of self-acceptance), then add in a whole bunch of what also has been said in that it balances me! (By the way, please take no offense that I said I wasn't certain that I liked how you phrased your choices b/c no offense was intended; it was just that especially as a retired teacher and coach, I saw some construction problems in how you were forming your choices -- some redundant, some with internal disagreement, and some with, it would seem, a thesis already mapped out.)

GINA-CD
03-17-2007, 02:37 PM
Because society has defined I must wear something that doesn't feel like me. The same with accessories and make-up and how I use my hair.

Someone decided it is not acceptable for men to wear certain clothes, and I don't agree with that.

Rita Knight
03-17-2007, 03:14 PM
You did not give a choice along these lines:

I could not find the woman of my dreams so I decided to become her.

If you can't beat'em, join 'em.

Dressing gives me the chance to escape my drab male life for at least awhile.

Women have much more varied choices in clothing.

susie evans
03-17-2007, 09:40 PM
i like it to much and don't want to stop now it's to much funn :heehee: :heehee:

susie

Tasha Meredith
03-17-2007, 10:16 PM
Gender euphoria. I admire women so much, I wish I was more like they are most of the time.

debbiejoanne
03-17-2007, 10:33 PM
Gender euphoria. I admire women so much, I wish I was more like they are most of the time.

Ditto

Barb Valentine
03-17-2007, 11:39 PM
I just like the way the cloths feel
It just feels right

samantha48328
03-18-2007, 01:12 AM
I feel very relaxed while dressed up

Kristen Kelly
03-18-2007, 04:54 AM
It is an expression of who I am, I have grayed the line between the genders and have found something that works for me I cross that lime to the feminine side as much as I can or is possible now, but also have to cross the other way back to the “Dark Side” for work, I just make sure not to go to far.

Sheri 4242
03-18-2007, 05:11 AM
Lke Suzie S said, it IS an outward expression of our inner selves!!! It gives visible identity to our "second self." It lends balance to our lives -- in fact, it is how we achieve balance!!!

jayseedee
03-18-2007, 05:32 AM
None of the above, if I knew the "why" I would certainly be happier.

I pondered this question for 50 years and came up with:- In my case it was a misdirected, pre-pubesent attatchment to female clothes rather that female bodies. Though I formed that attatchment later (around 11 years old) I was already hooked on "dressing". I am in no way gender dysphoric, Tran-sexual or struggling with my inner feminine self. I am just turned on by wearing womens clothes, for me it is paraphilia, a fetish. If you wan't to know more read my blog on http://360.yahoo.com/jayseedee.

Mary Jane
03-18-2007, 07:12 AM
I dress because I CAN, it is fun, and I enjoy it.

Angie G
03-18-2007, 08:54 AM
Idon't know why nor do I care I just know I can and I love it :hugs:
Angie

Lilith Moon
03-18-2007, 09:15 AM
As I said in another thread....I was born this way. I have memories of "dressing up" in bedsheets before I could possibly know anything about crossdressing or gender or sexuality.

Niki 4U2 Nite
03-18-2007, 11:24 AM
Sexual sensation is one of my best reasons. I'm not ashamed to admit that my male side is totally turned on by my female side. A new shade of lipstick, a sale on heels, or a new copy of Vanity Fair featuring fashion models can all give me hours of pleasure.
Diss, Kiss, and Love,
Niki:doll:

charlie-50
03-18-2007, 12:27 PM
who knows. i dont realy bye the genetic dispostion thing. i think of it more as a evolving fedish . after all copying the female form isnt that some sort of flattery.

jasmine57
03-18-2007, 12:41 PM
I don't want to try and analyze why, I just just know it makes me happy and that's good enough reason for me.

silkie h
03-18-2007, 04:33 PM
I dont believe anyone is born to do what we do. I believe something has to happen to us when we are at a young age ( when our character is forming )to spark it off. I know that frequent close proximity to an Aunts nyloned legs from about age 3 or 4 sparked it off for me. From then on, I was trying on her stockings & other underwear. I believe many small kids have close proximity to Mom's legs & skirts when they are beginning to learn to walk & this could be the "spark" for many.

Lovely Rita
03-23-2007, 09:51 AM
I did not find a suitable choice

so here is my answer

It is who I am