f to m threads

[wilma]

I visit the male to female forum to see if the other side has the same type of troubles we girls have and I noticed something that bothers me. On our side, M to F, we are always complementing ourselves on how pretty and girly we look. To us that is a great ego boost and is probably why we post our pictures. I noticed on the F to M site we , M to F, are constantly giving praises for how great the women look as a woman. I think I only saw 1 complement on how good a person looked dressed as a man. This is what our brothers on the F to M site are striving for just the same as we are looking for that wonderful fem look. Am I misguided or do we need to show the same compasion to our brothers on the other site. Tell me if you think I'm wrong, in the mean time I'm going to send some praise to the other side. LOL Wilma

[AnnaMaria]

Wilma,

Whem you stop and think about it the truth is probably closer to the opposite than you think. For us girls it is a fact that we crave the attention that we have never had or that would be customarily given to women. And while I do agree that the F to M members probably want some attention the feeling is probably not as strong due to the fact that most men don't want that much attention. Since men are raised to avoid that kind of attention for the most part. But since they do have fem feelings as well I think that we should. Not only because they are just as much a part of this group as we are but also because they are just as deserving of the attention as any other person on the planet.

I personally try not to make any defference between groups of people. Why should we considering the fact that we are all human and we all have to share this planet.

huggs
anna

[Julie York]

If we had the courage to post photos as a guy, maybe we would start going "actually you are a good looking guy!" too. But we don't...(and I don't want anyone to either. My head's messed up enough seeing you all as girls.)

[Sophie Haworth]

The posts here certainly do make you think about others, and that is good.

I feel, as girls we do like people to see our outfits, our makeup etc, but as male, I would not wish to be comparing beard lengths or mustach shaping :) , nor would I wish to post any image of me, Sophie yes.

I do think it is a man thing, and a girl thing, and for a F to M then they also must have the male feelings.

[Holly]

Wouldn't it be easier to just ask them what type of feedback they would like to have?