Came out to my girlfriend

[happyfish]

So, yeah. Yesterday ago I came out to my girlfriend in the most cowardly way possible. I wrote an 'unsent letter' in another forum where I knew she lurked. It was mostly to get all my confusion and stuff off my chest , but I knew she'd find it eventually. And eventually ended up meaning later that same day. She was shocked, but says she should have known. Apparently she's been wondering recently if I was trans or not, so she's being supportive and hopefully won't mind that I'm sending her novel-length emails about how confused I am?
I feel very happy right now. :) It's so nice to just...let stuff go. And I'm actually talking about my feelings (!:eek:!), which I clearly need to do more often.

[kerrianna]

That sounds like a real positive move happyfish. :hugs: Way to go. Sounds like a pretty cool GF you have too. I hope it works out well for you two. :hugs: :love:

Yes, talking about your feelings is a good thing. Even boys need to do it. :happy:

[pocoyo]

Aww Happyfish well done :happy:
I am really happy for you happyfish haha! You should be a very happy fish indeed.
Your girlfriend sounds awesome, you're lucky to have such an understanding lady :D
Awww I wish I could give you a big hug. Here is a virtual one *squueezzzeee* oops... a bit too hard.... are you ok?

Happyfish looks like this right now ----> :yikes:

Hehe... enjoy that weight been lifted!!! :D

[Evert]

Way the go !!!! :D

Must feel really really good now don't ya? :D

[Adam]

cool :D must be better now she nows :)

[CaptLex]

So, yeah. Yesterday ago I came out to my girlfriend in the most cowardly way possible.
Well, there may be preferable ways to come out, but I think there are no absolute right and wrong ways to do this. You know her better, and you have the best idea of what would work in your situation. Different approaches for different people, I'd say. And it worked, right? So that's great. A big load off your shoulders, I bet. Congrats! :cheers:

[Ryan]

What great news :) Glad it all was ok for you :)

[Felix]

That great hun :hugs: I'm real pleased for ya cos it definitely helps when ya tell the person you care for most and they are cool with it xx :hugs: Felix

[Kieron Andrew]

good for you Happyfish.......im glad everything turned out ok......like Capt said we all have our own way of basically outing ourselves! so what works for someone, may not work for you...you found writing on a forum your way.....good for you!!

[bi_weird]

DUDE congrats! Yay for coming out and even bigger yay for it going well! Have a brownie! Today's are Mississippi mud - yuuummmmm. And a candle, 'cause there's been no fire in my life for a while.