Nikki A.
02-17-2005, 03:27 AM
For the umpteenth time I tried to lay some ground rules where we both could be comfortable with my CDing. I asked, what are you cool with and when do I cross the line?
The answer was that underware is okay in that she doesn't see it, but outerware bothers her. She knows that I wear panties 90 % of the time, hose lots of times. She also said that it does bother her in that I should have the right to wear what I want in the privacy of the house. Also she still feels that all this new activity in my cding is a reflection on her not satisfying me.
Understand, we've been married 16 years and she knew that I liked to dress up before we were married (yes I do want to do it more often now), two great kids, I've been employed steady all this time. She has had health issues and does suffer from depression and is a stay at home wife, so there is no time that that I am ever alone at home. I want to keep her cool and yet I do want to be able to express that which is me. Expressing myself is why I joined this great forum and I do enjoy reading about your successes, feeling etc. I guess I alsotend to talk alot too, but only if I have something to add constructively.
Anyway, I wander, any ideas how to go about and make her more supportive?
The answer was that underware is okay in that she doesn't see it, but outerware bothers her. She knows that I wear panties 90 % of the time, hose lots of times. She also said that it does bother her in that I should have the right to wear what I want in the privacy of the house. Also she still feels that all this new activity in my cding is a reflection on her not satisfying me.
Understand, we've been married 16 years and she knew that I liked to dress up before we were married (yes I do want to do it more often now), two great kids, I've been employed steady all this time. She has had health issues and does suffer from depression and is a stay at home wife, so there is no time that that I am ever alone at home. I want to keep her cool and yet I do want to be able to express that which is me. Expressing myself is why I joined this great forum and I do enjoy reading about your successes, feeling etc. I guess I alsotend to talk alot too, but only if I have something to add constructively.
Anyway, I wander, any ideas how to go about and make her more supportive?