Has anyone been hit on when out dressed?

[Amy Hepker]

Hi Ladies and Gents,

I was just wondering if anyone has ever been hit on by someone who did not know you were a CDer.

I was out one time on Halloween and was hit on by someone, but I am sure he knew I was a guy in a dress. I just ignored him like most women do when they don't want to be bothered by some guy. I in no way want to have that kind of contact, I want Females not Males. Weird life ain't it?

[Dixie]

Last Halloween I went out dressed for the first time, I was being hit on constantly, guys were buying me drinks, following me around it was really quite flattering. I did not think I looked like a women at all I thought that me look was more like dragqueen. It was hilarious but also a real confidence builder. I was so drunk but my wife took care of me and made sure nothing happened to me. She really wants to much me with another guy when I'm dressed, but she said it shouldn't happen when I'm drunk, it should happen because iI'm ready and willing on my own.:happy:

[sandra-leigh]

I was just wondering if anyone has ever been hit on by someone who did not know you were a CDer.

No, just by guys who knew I was crossdressing. One time for sure, and a bit last week. Ummm, and there was once where the guy was drunk enough that it wasn't clear that he knew but it seemed likely (especially with me talking in male voice.)

I don't mind guys sitting down and talking to me when I'm dressed. I don't pretend to be female with them and I don't flirt with them: it's just a conversation. But like with any meeting, sometimes you find the conversation interesting and sometimes the person strikes you the wrong way. The guy last week was one who didn't feel right to me (and he turned out to be into some computer things that I consider unethical.)

[CaptLex]

I in no way want to have that kind of contact, I want Females not Males. Weird life ain't it?
I know what you mean - when I first started dressing I was getting hit on by women a lot (and I'm only attracted to men). Some still give me admiring smiles, but I just smile back and walk away quickly. I'd be happy to switch with you. :p

[Butterfly Bill]

I have been hit on by women who did know I am a crossdresser, because I was crossdressed at the time.

[Syuviel]

well, no actually, but thats because i mostly go to gay bars XD, so the guys want nothing to do with me.

[Robin_1616]

Best thing to do is go out with your wife or girlfriend for "protection". Some times you get hit on by pairs tho.

[Samantha B L]

Hi Amy!,When I was like 19 and 20 years old I had my own hair and I would even buy clothing items that I wasn't 100% sure were for guys.Some of this stuff was female.It was slacks,tops and sweaters mainly.And I would style my hair in all sorts of "big hair" styles witha blow dryer,berets,bobby pins and tons of hair spray.I would sometimes tease my hair.This was in like 1975-1978 and beleive it or not you still saw those kinds of styles back then,once in awhile.I was especially fond of the :"Peg bundy Top Knot"and I wore makeup once in awhile which a GG freind showed me the basics on how to do it.Anyway,I'm sure I looked flat chested yet minor league drag queen-ish and I got hit on once in awhile in those years and I also had to be bailed out of some situations where I almost got beat up in parking lots.There was a guy next door to us that called me "Rhonda" sometimes and to tell you the truth,I don't think he meant it in a freindly way.I have a few gay freinds and they are actually sort of nonplused that I'm a heterosexual crossdresser but they do accept that I dress,no problem.Years ago an old freind of mine started hitting on me for sex when he found out that I CD'd and I finally had to tell him to stop it or I would call the cops.

[XDW Nathan-Natasha]

I wanna be hit on by a straight guy when I'm dressed. As I'm a straight guy myself, I wouldn't want or expect anything to come out of it. It sure would feel good though...

[Sweet Susan]

I've been hit on several times. Mostly it turned out harmless. Other times it became a bit scary but turned out okay. A couple of times I was compromised and had to make the best of it. This is something that all of us will experience given enough exposure. The best thing you can do is remain calm. Losing your cool will often only result in a bad to horrible experience. I've had both, and I've learned from it. I think that one must remember that when you go out to a club or bar anything can happen. In fact, I have found out that going out for an afternoon in a safe part of a liberal city can result in a compromising situation. One best stay home if not ready to confront the realities of what is out there.

[Dixie]

Sound Advice girls

[Sweet Susan]

hmmmm

[Eugenie]

I was out one time on Halloween and was hit on by someone, but I am sure he knew I was a guy in a dress. I just ignored him like most women do when they don't want to be bothered by some guy.
It never happened to me so far, but would also most likely ignore them. Most of those hits are gros and disrespectful. However, I like to meet people and that whether I'm in drab or "en femme".

So if a man would address me respectfully, starting to talk about decent subjects and not jumping right at me with sexually connoted proposals, I would be likely to enjoy the experience. If his conversation is interesting I might want to stay in touch and try to see him again. If I detect some genuine interest for me "en femme" as a potential partner from his part, it may make that desire more intense, but it would have to be delicate and gentlemanly done...

Then, what may happen between us would primarily depend upon mutual attraction. It is not because one has a nice conversation with a guy that it has to end up in an intimate relationship. But if things were to develop in a more sensual way, why not?

But I can't tell as it never happened to me...

Note I would react in the same way if I was meeting a woman in similar circumstances...

:hugs:
Eugenie

[crusadergirl]

I have went out twice this week dressed up without any makeup. I was just walking in to a store to get some water, and two girls were walking out so i stopped to let them walk by. They went to get in there car then drove up next to me as i was standing there talking to one of my friends, they rolled down there window and asked me how much for a night. I said nothing b/c i don't have much of a girl voice yet. I just started laughing and gave them a thumbs down meaning i don't do that kinda stuff. I don't know why but more girls talk to me when i dress as a girl then when i look like a guy.
I don't think i look that good as a girl but if others like it thats cool.

[Brianna Lovely]

Giggle, I was at hotel and steeped outside at 3:00 AM. As I was looking out over the courtyard and pool, wearing a short denim skirt and sexy top. A man came up behind me and said, "Hey baby, want to come to my room, for some fun?".
I turned and looked at him, saying "I'm not that kind of a girl." He said, good night, and walked away. (shucks)



well, no actually, but thats because i mostly go to gay bars XD, so the guys want nothing to do with me.

A local Gay Newspaper did a survey in Feb. and 67% of gay men said they would not date a CD.

[Lisa Golightly]

Most guys talk to my breasts...

[Eugenie]

Most guys talk to my breasts...

Exactly... That's what I meant when I said that I would accept a decent conversation even from a foreigner: he would have to talk to me, not to my cleavage... :tongueout
:hugs:
Eugenie

[jillafsdpko]

I think being hit on by a guy while out would be thrilling ! even if you were unsure (?)
Jill

[Kimberly]

I almost got hit on (someone was giving me the eye) in McDonald's, Trafalger Sq at 3am... not a pleasant experience!!

Tbh, I'm horrified about getting hit on by anyone who doesn't know that i'm a guy presenting as a girl. If they have any confusion, I'd say steer clear, for your health or even your life. xx

[Amy Hepker]

I do agree that it does feel nice to be hit on, a real moral booster, but could be scary as hell too.

[Robin_1616]

They always put their hands where they don't belong! Last month at a bar in Conneticut I just informed the guy that I have a Black Belt in seven martial arts...boy did that straighten him up real quick! All of a sudden he was a gentlemen.

[GinaTgirl]

When I go out I have my share of men hit on me... thank God! I just wish more men would get over being so "shy" (read "afraid") and just come up and talk to me. Men are the reason I get all dolled up and go out. I hate it when some tranny hits on me... if I wanted someone that lookes sexy in a dress, I would have stayed a man.

[Kate Simmons]

Yeah, I do get "hit on" sometimes, Amy, mostly by guys who don't know me. I usually have a little fun with it. Salandra is different than Ericka was and is definately no "pushover". Some of these guys are nice but most are kind of jerks. That is when my tendency to put them in their place takes over. Sometimes I can't resist doing it, though, especially if they deserve it. Hey, I'm not "bad", I'm just drawn that way.;) :battingeyelashes:

[Paula T]

Once many years ago when I went to a Haloween party with my first wife I had one of the guys there ask me if I gave B******s and I said No I'm not into that. I wonder what would have happened If I would have mentioned to his wife who was also at the party that her husband asked me for that:D I don't think it would have been a good scene at least when she got him home.:(

[Glenda]

You will be hit on if you frequent clubs when out dressed. That's just the nature of the beast. It is important for me to enjoy myself when out dressed. That's why I go out. The first time I went out alone I went to a popular gay bar. I wanted to just sit at the bar and be left alone but forced myself to put my quarters on the pool table. Best thing I could have done. Scared to death but when I took my first shot in heels I suddenly found myself 3 inches taller when addressing the ball and it helped transform me into the role. I made that shot and most of the others until closing time. It was me against the guys and we were laughing and drinking and more than one asked me to go home with them.

The first time dressed at my regular straight bar was Halloween several years ago. Many of my friends had begged me to come as Glenda and they were thrilled when I walked in. Every bar has at least one guy who hits on every single new woman who walks through the door. Mine is no exception. Not every one recognized me. One of the bar tenders didn't recognize me until another told her. Garrett was on the prowl from the moment I walked in. He knew me well as Glen but didn't recognize me. He immediately started hitting on me to the delight of the crowd. I played it for about 5 minutes before one of the bar tenders told him who I was.

Bottom line........we normally don't go out to be left alone. We go out to be accepted and interact. We don't have to take offense when someone hits on us. We can be nice, polite and discreet. If we need help we can ask for it. We can have a good time with it. The important thing is to be yourself. It is so much more fun to feel natural and anything you can do to help promote that makes the experience so much more enjoyable.

[Melinda G]

I get hit on all the time. Men are such pigs. :D

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[Dixie]

I am not offended, actually I find it flattering and a little bit of a turn on to know that I had that effect on men. My wife is thirlled to see it when it happened. One of the guys who hit on me on Halloween is a regular at the bars in town. We always tease him about hitting on me, and he says it's not my fault you make such a beutiful woman. It always makes me blush.

[Hali]

well you girls wont believe it, but its true we live on university campus, i often dress and go out for a stroll most especially in the night so i pass wery well, thats wy i get hit-on many times almost every time i go out, sometimes up to the level of guys grabbing me and trying to force themselves on me, some follow me to see where i live this is almost every day, but i lose them along the way, guess wat? i was hit at different times (almost four times) by my childhood friends, they did not recognise, one of them we actually move together every day infact after i remove my femme clothing i went to his house and waited for him cos we promise to meet i asked wy he was late this guy didnt mension meeting any lady on that day that thing puzzle me very much, hey someone force me to him a peck, i can go on and on, anyways girls, tek care.

[Jesse69]

I have been hit on by women who did know I am a crossdresser, because I was crossdressed at the time.

Gee, I would love to have that happen to me. Maybe I'll go out more in drag to meet women while shopping too. Might find someone who likes me in drag.

I'm scared of guys hitting on me though. Won't take a free dinner or anything from them either.

[tallyman]

The one and only time Iwas able to go out made up to the eyes and dressed to kill I was hit on three times what a great time.


love Michaela:love:

[MsJanessa]

yes---by both men and women

[XDW Nathan-Natasha]

I have been hit on by women who did know I am a crossdresser, because I was crossdressed at the time.

THAT DOESN'T COUNT, SILLY!

Or...does it girls? I suppose the thread didn't specify 'hit on by men' while cross-dressed, did it? Hmmm... But still! Not fair! I suppose you win (don't ask me what or how, I'm crazy...).

Now if only I could get hit on while dressed... It doesn't matter who by: if it's by a by a straight man (ideal, 'cause I'd be tryin' to pass and all), a gay man (does he know I'm a guy? If so = not passing), or a woman - straight or lesbian (if straight = probably knows I'm a guy; if lesbian = YES! I'm passing!) it wouldn't really matter. I just want it to happen (but I've probably gotta go out first...).

Anyhow, I'm glad you can say you were hit on while cross-dressed. That's just awesome!

[XDW Nathan-Natasha]

I do agree that it does feel nice to be hit on, a real moral booster, but could be scary as hell too.

That's why I plan on carrying pepper spray and a one pound steel ball-bearing in my purse...well, maybe not the ball-bearing. But I will carry the pepper spray though. That way, if the situation goes form 'scary as hell' to 'outright dangerous' I can whip the spray out and whip the ball-bearing at their head (wait, I'm not carrying the ball-bearing anymore, am I? The spray it is then... *squirt, squirt* 'Ahhh, my eyes!').

But I agree, even though I have never thought of being hit on by as a potentially scary thing - well, minus when I'm not cross-dressed - I guess it could be. You have given me something to think about. Thanks Amy!

[soozeqct]

To my stunned surprise - at least in my early ventures out - yes, which was unnerving but gratifying that a man found me attractive enough to want to hit on!!!....I'm not the most flamboyant of ladies - I'm 48 and favor conservative skirt suits, dresses, makeup and heels - but it is nice to see that guys appreciate a girl who takes the time to look nice, at least that's how I tend to look at it...I know, strictly naieve, isn't it?

If a gentleman is nice to me in a club and interests me, I'll dance with him, but won't marry him...lol

"Some see things as they are and say why - I dream of things that never were and say why not?" --Robert F. Kennedy

[gennee]

I was nearly hit on twice last summer. I was glared at by many men. I was hit on by a gay man while dressed in drab. He liked my hands. :D

Gennee

[arani5879]

I'm straight as can be but I have to say getting hit on by a guy is very flattering. As much as some of the things said are just vulgar and some of the guys can be just plain gross. To me it means I am passing besides GG's deal with it all the time its only fair if we get it when we are all dolled up.

[tommi]

I'm straight as can be but I have to say getting hit on by a guy is very flattering. As much as some of the things said are just vulgar and some of the guys can be just plain gross. To me it means I am passing besides GG's deal with it all the time its only fair if we get it when we are all dolled up.
:iagree: Very well said :clap:

[Kelly,R]

I’ll tell you a story that happened back in 95.But is still in my memory very much.
I love to dress it started slow with just, panties and stuff. But after a while I started getting more clothes.Shoes,hose and even make-up. I did have a wig back then, it was a nice brown one. I loved that wig, anyway I decided to take me a trip. I wanted to go out in public dressed, but not here at home. So I decided I’ll go to another state, where no-one knows me. So if I got read so what, I’ll never see them again right. Well back then with make-up done good, I could pass pretty well. So I packed up the car, and off I went.
I drove to (location not disclosed) and checked into a hotel. I spent the afternoon relaxing in a bubble bath, with nice music playing and of course some vodka. It was Heaven let me tell ya. Well the afternoon melted into the evening, and I dressed up beautifully. I had on my black dress that came to about 5” above my knees, my nice black 4” pumps. I was dressed nice and I looked very sexy. Well after I got dark, I wanted to go out. So I decided to walk down the street to the 7-11, for cigs. All went well no-one even batted an eye, I was amazed. I passed perfectly, it is a wonderful feeling. So much so that I returned to the hotel, got in my car and decided to drive around awhile. Well let me tell ya, it is a new high that I had never experienced.
Well I passed a bar that looked pretty cool, I had seen lots of girls going in. So I decided why the hell not. I was just going to go in for one drink, an that’s it right. Well I parked the car, got out and went to the door. Guy at the door did not even card me (thank god ).
So I just went in and got me a margarita an sat a table alone, it was about 10:30 by then.
I just sat there listen to the music and thought this is great. Then this guy came up and asked me to dance…I thought for a moment…then said ok. I slipped my heals off and danced with him. It was kool except he kept kissing my neck,
yes it was a slow dance. I just kept brushing it away. After the dance I went back to my table and he went over to his friends. Well I decided that was enough or tonite, and left, but he followed me out. He grabbed me outside and was asking me where I was going. I just told him I had to leave. He then puched me up against the wall, an started trying to kiss me. I kept pushing him away, then he reached up my skirt and I guess he felt my manhood. Because he got really mad, started calling me a fag. Also a lot of stuff in Spanish that I don’t know. Well I just walked away, when all of a sudden he grabbed my shoulder turned me around…and my lights went out. All I seen was this big ball of fire.
When I opened my eyes I was lying on my side an he was kicking me, although I
could not feel the kicks, but did feel my body reacting to them. Also he was yelling at me but I could not hear him,
just seen his mouth doing the motions. At this point everything was going black an white then color then black an white. I actually though I was dyeing.
Then out of nowhere this big bald guy tackled him, actually ther3e war two of them. One came over a picked me up and asked if I was ok, don’t remember what I said to him. But he went to help his friend. I remember they did give that guy a pretty good bashing. But I just got to my car as fast as I could, I have never in my life be so scared, as soon as I got to my car I stared it. Then I seen one of the Bald guys waveing his hand an hollering something at me, as he came towards my car…My tires screeched as I left. I went back to the Hotel. When I looked in the mirrior my god all I seen was blood. I lokked like something out of a horror film. Well in short I cleaned and yes it was my first purge as I left all my stuff in the dumpster at the hotel.
Well while driving out of this town I noticed I did not have my purse, holy shit it had my drivers lience in it and one of my credit cards. Well I was not going back for nothing.
This is a hell of a thing, about 2 weeks later; I received a package in the mail. It was my purse, with a note that said: Mam we are sorry your visit to our community was so votile but rest assured your are welcome. He had to know…to mail it to me he had to know as my DL pic is very manly. Also it had all my stuff, my compact, DL,credit card and $65 in cash. Well that was a lessen learned, I don’t want to ever repeat it. So I’m sorry if I seem stand offish. But it is not without reason, I still have a knot on my ribs. It use to be as big as a golf ball, but has went down since.It can happen gurls,it did to me and no pepper spray or gun or anything would have helped me.It just happens to fast,oh and by the way those two men...were of duty police-officers.( I got real lucky back then ).I also have not gone in public since.
Just remember gurls their are those out there who will hurt you,and hurt you bad.Always go with a friend or 2 even.I'm 45 now and I don't think I can pass like I use to...all of those years of fun gone because I made a bad choice,but it was my choice so I am the only one I can blame.:sad:
I know a long post...but I don't make many,I just want all of you to be safe.

[MelissaAndProudOfIt]

Hiya Amy

First things first, i cannot understand why most decide on halloween to parade their crossdressing endevours, as a cover up reason for Crossdressing, if you are genuine about your needs to Cross-dress, then why pick a point in the year, why not just do it all the year. I can understand to one point that it's an excuse to get dressed up and without the wife catching on to your Xdressing secret, lol but never underestimate women, they are smart and can genuinely figure out the truth, believe me I know and can tell from experience, so those who think they can fool females by dressing at this time of year, and think they are safe lol, think again... as many questions can arise of a originally innocent affair. await those questions from your partners, when they start having you sussed out... there are many signs... to say there is more to your halloween exploits than meets the eye... Trust me!

The best way is nine out of ten times to simply be just and honest, and though some women will shun it, there are many who will appreciate that you care and love them enough, to of had the sheer bravado to inform them of this side of your personality, when you could of just as easily have kept it in the shadows. In fact hiding truth does far more damage, than revealing the truth... most women are not slow in catching on with Crossdressing, though at best the only one you are merely fooling is not your partner, but yourself.. from my experience women tend to be very observant to the Crossdressing indicators, or at least would have hidden suspitions... so there you go...


In summary... it probably pays to be honest from the start, and not using Halloween as a screen to protect you from those you love, when it comes to your Crossdressing needs. In fact if they love you... then will come round...

I admitted about my crossdressing to my fiancee in the very early days, and she realised how important my dressing was to me, and she said she loved me regardless, plus she loved me more for having the sheer guts to tell her.. well for me it wasn't that hard as I am very positive in my feelings for dressing, and could openly assure her that all was well regardless and I am still her male love... she realises that when i dress, she can tell me what to do and enjoy loving me and taking lead role lol, we have brought my dressing into our love life and really isn't any problem at all, in fact it really spiced up our relationship... so wheres my guilt now lol, i had it once, then it started to fade, and now it's non existant. If dressing is what you do, then you have to realise that it's an intricate part of the make up of who you are... and wheres the wrong in telling the one you love, that fact... she might go quiet, but if she has any sense she will realise you love her enough to have told her... she has two choices.... but alternitve to that you are simply just holding off the inevitable revelation of your revealing your hidden dressing.... and the longer you leave revealing, then quite possibly the more irrepairable damage it can do to your relationship, as inevitably on day in the near or far future it WILL be found out.... Luck only lasts for so long, till it runs out..... so my reasoning is tell her sooner if you really love your partner, the sooner the less damage.... I am speaking from real life experience, why hide it and live a lie, when you can show it and enjoy you life, like me and my fiancee intends to do... as we are sorting to be married towards the end of this year.....

This article was written from my life experience... besides you are the only ones who know how your partners feel, and if you know that theres loads of love in your relationship, do you really think crossdressing will really get in the way, besides if the obvious signs are there with you, don't you think she'll already be somewhat aware of something very different about your personality... Crossdressing is normal, so why hide it as if it's a crime..


Regards


Melissa

[MelissaAndProudOfIt]

Hiya Amy

Second issue...


Being hit on by men, or come to that women lol


When you go out dressed, first and formost you go out to project this hidden side of your persona... and I can honestly say with great accuracy that you are not invisible, contrary to what you might like to hope that you are. When you go out as a male you will naturally hit on women/ or men depending which way you swing, and others do exactly the same ( not wishing to patronise the reader of this article, cuz it might seem that way lol) people will hit on you... you can guarantee it, if you do a bad job of dressing and even if you do an excellent job of it...

Preparations for being hit on should be given great consideration, and as usual being prepared is half the battle, following through with that preparation is the second and final part too to minimize risk. Though i would like to emphasize at this point, that risk is need not be a bad risk, it can prove to be very benificial and if played right can help and be very imformative, if a person hits on you and could tell you apart from a genuine woman, if this was the case some will tell how they sussed you out, thereby arming you with new knowledge to avoid such a pit fall the next time out... lifes about learning, and there's loads of learning too with Crossdressing.

Generally if you have done a bad job of crossdressing, someone will clock you and can make for an unpleasant experience if they are such a person who wishes to instill grief into others.... Preparing in your early days of dressing could of avoided this.

If you get hit on and you looked every bit a woman and a guy was turned on by you.... then you done a good job of your crossdressing you lucky girl.

This guy could be a woman instead!!!!... as there are lesbians don't forget..


If it's a guy or woman, naturally you have 2 choices... either to be interested in them, or avoid, but be polite, very important. You could simply say that sorry you are not interested in them... as they cannot expect you to fall for them that easily lol, or you could show interest and make a start on your life... Running away is simply NOT an option... you quite simply get peoples backs up that way.... to think that for one or another reason you can and will avoid being hit on is really a considerably naive way at looking at crossdressing life.... just remember regardless of how good or not so good you are at dressing, chances are you will get hit on.... being prepared can save hassle.....


regards


Melissa

[Lisa Thorne]

Guys always toot their car horn when I am walking down the street. I guess that is their sign of approval for what they see. It is very flattering to me.

[Lilith Moon]

Guys always toot their car horn when I am walking down the street. I guess that is their sign of approval for what they see. It is very flattering to me.

I had lots of car horns, shouts and whistles when I used to get out. A few times I've had truckers stop and offer me a lift. I was never quite sure if they were seeing a cute girl or a well turned out trannie.

[Shelly18]

i was hit on buy a guy and even went to the movies with him while i was out with my sis a few weeks ago dont get me wrong i want to be with a girl and not guys but i thought it would be fun toi lead this guy on we made out the entire movie and he never new the difference

[ArleneRaquel]

I get car honks when I go out and about,especially when I am wearing a mini, and showing my legs. :love: & :hugs: Trina - Hot Sexy Babe

[bobbiebabe]

Yes i have been hit On While Dressed It was Very exciting..I remember I was driving And a guy rolled down his window and said hi I winked at him and taht was nice. Bobbieeeeeeee

[noname]

I have a couple of times. First time in the book store, total guy mode just a denim skirt. This guy kept following me around. I was pretty creeped out. I was about to leave when he started to approach me. I gave him the ' oh pleeease ' look. He did a quick 180 and walked the other way. I don't think he was trying to be creepy, we was a clean cut guy. But being strait I was not looking to hook up with a guy.

Second time was at a different book store. I go to get a coffee and uber cute girl is trying to yak it up with me, she also proceeds to tell me I should fill out an app as they could use more guys there etc... etc... I'm standing there thinking, doesn't she realize I'm wearing a white womens streatch zip up hoodie?

[cindychan]

Once an Asian guy came on to me in a store. I declined though, he seemed disappointed. :hugs:

[Robin_1616]

So it seems that MOST on this site LIKE to be hit on??? Very interesting.Cool... I would have thought not?

[aliyah]

So it seems that MOST on this site LIKE to be hit on??? Very interesting.Cool... I would have thought not?

Yea actually. I'm only interested in girls, but once I ventured to a gay part of town during day time...I'd say around lunch time. I went to a bar and sat there, and it was the best feeling ever! guys were opening doors for me, flirting with me, and even pulling a bar stool for me. offereing me drinks and what not. it made me feel very princessy. I love the attention, and thats just me probably. It was very flattering, turning heads, and guys looking at me. :heehee: :tongueout

[Sweet Cindy]

I'm straight as can be but I have to say getting hit on by a guy is very flattering. As much as some of the things said are just vulgar and some of the guys can be just plain gross. To me it means I am passing besides GG's deal with it all the time its only fair if we get it when we are all dolled up.

Arani nailed it. It's like getting an A on your report card in transgender studies class - look ma, I passed!

One night on a walk, I overheard a group of guys whispering approving words to each other as I strutted past, trying to encourage the one guy to approach me (which he didn't, thank God). I was dressed pretty full-tilt - maybe they thought I was a hooker?

Also had a bi guy who knew I was a crossdresser tell me he really wished I was bi too but he was very polite about it and took the rejection just as kindly.

[Gina_darling]

Sure. First time was when dressed as Poison Ivy at a Halloween party by two guys, but not at the same time :heehee: I have had a few winks and smiles thrown my way too. It does feel good as when I'm in male mode I seem to have an invisibility cloak on and don't get any attention.

[stormrider]

I have never had anyone hit on me, but occasionally when I was travelling I would have a clerk or cashier smile at me knowing that the clothes I was buying were for me. I even had one suggest that I would probably like a different pair of pantyhose better. At no time did I ever dress completely tough. Just a top or sweater and possibly ladies slacks or jeans.

[Deidra Cowen]

I get hit on maybe once a night when out clubbing on average. Have had both Guys and GGs approach me and that has resulted in me going out on dates with both categories. :p

In the last month or so on two different occasions I have had guys buy (send me) a drink via the bartender. That was quite a surprise and a very nice feeling. Both guys turned out to be creepos but oh well it was fun as well as a bit of a milestone for me since that had not happened to me in girl mode before.

LOL a few times...way too few I have had GGs buy me a drink in boy mode too! But honestly I am not that attractive in guy mode, for some reason I seem to look better as a chick.

[Eva Diva]

I get hit on maybe once a night when out clubbing on average. Have had both Guys and GGs approach me and that has resulted in me going out on dates with both categories. :p






If these high heels could talk, what stories they could tell. :D

[bobbie_francis]

hmmmmmmmmm...yes. :) and I love both, the boys and the girls.