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Violetgray
04-16-2007, 11:26 AM
Ciara's "Like a Boy"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5peZWTwPtV8

Interested in hearing what my brothers on here think of the video!

Dasein9
04-16-2007, 11:34 AM
I like the choreographer's interpretation of masculinity.

The lyrics do concentrate on the negative aspects of masculinity, though, and the line "I wish I could act like a boy" seems fatalistic to me, as if there's something (besides ethical integrity, in this case) stopping the speaker from doing so.

CaptLex
04-16-2007, 12:10 PM
Interested in hearing what my brothers on here think of the video!
Interesting video. She's a good dancer, and I like her in the suit. But I think the song isn't about being a boy, it's really about wanting to treat men the way she sees them treating women ("like a toy"). :p

Kieron Andrew
04-16-2007, 12:12 PM
Interesting video. She's a good dancer, and I like her in the suit. But I think the song isn't about being a boy, it's really about wanting to treat men the way she sees them treating women ("like a toy"). :p
Thats the way I interpreted it to......

Violetgray
04-16-2007, 08:57 PM
Wow honestly I never really thought of it that way...

I guess its kind of like when non-tg entertainers and comedians do drag and end up doing a bit which is really an over-generalize critique using stereo types portraying females in a negative light...

But I gotta admit though, she's sexy all butch and I love the boyish dancing too!!

I love this board such broad and intelligent points of view..

Question Mark
04-16-2007, 09:10 PM
Everything else I would've said has been said already, so I'll just add this:

If only more women in hip-hop videos dressed like that. :D

Christine Kelly
04-17-2007, 06:58 AM
I had to add this to my favorites.
Very nice.

Thanks for sharing it.

pocoyo
04-17-2007, 08:30 AM
Hehe it's cool!

Nice, stylish video too. :D

I think it's probably more relevant to GG's really though, rather than FtM's... because for a ftm.. they already are a guy... they are just born with girl-bits (hehe). But possibly a lot of GG's would be interested in "swapping roles" or whatever, and crossdressing!

Evert
04-17-2007, 08:36 AM
[Verse: 1]
Pull up your pants
(Just Like Em')
Take out the trash
(Just Like Em')
You can dig cash like em'
Fast like em'
Girl you outta act like ya dig
(What I'm talkin' bout')
Security codes on everything
Vibrate so your phone don't ever ring
(Joint Account)
And another one he don't know about

[Hook]
Wish we could switch up the roles
And I could be that...
Tell you I love you
But when you call I never get back
Would you ask them questions like me?...
Like where you be at?
Cause I'm out 4 in the morning
On the corna roll'n
Do'n my own thing
Ohh

[Chorus]
What if I?
Had a thing on the side?
Made ya cry?
Would the rules change up?
Or would they still apply?
If I played you like a toy?
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy

Can't be get'n mad!
What You Mad?
Can't Handle that!
Can't be get'n mad!
What you mad?
Can't handle that!

[Verse: 2]
Girl go head and be...
(Just Like Em')
Go run the streets
(Just Like Em')
come home late say sleep like em'
Creep like em'
Front with ya friends
Act hard when you're with em' like em'
(What)
Keep a straight face when ya tell a lie
Always keep an airtight alibi
(Keep Him In The Dark)
What he don't know won't break his heart

[Hook]
Wish we could switch up the roles
And I could be that...
Tell you I love you
But when you call I never get back
Would you ask them questions like me?...
Like where you be at?
Cause I'm out 4 in the morning
On the corna roll'n
Do'n my own thing
Yeah

[Chorus]
What if I?
Had a thing on the side?
Made ya cry?
Would the rules change up?
Or would they still apply?
If I played you like a toy?
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy

Can't be get'n mad!
What You Mad?
Can't Handle that!
Can't be get'n mad!
What you mad?
Can't handle that!
Can't be get'n mad!
What you mad?
Can't handle that!
Can't be get'n mad!
What you mad?
Can't handle that!

[Bridge]
If I was always gone
If the sun beat me home
(Would Ya Like That?)
Told you I was with my crew
When I knew it wasn't true
(Would Ya Like That?)
If I act like you
Walk a mile off in yo shoes
(Would Ya Like That?)
I'm mess'n with your head again
Dose of your own medicine

[Chorus]
What if I?
Had a thing on the side?
Made ya cry?
Would the rules change up?
Or would they still apply?
If I played you like a toy?
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy

Can't be get'n mad!
What You Mad?
Can't Handle that!
Can't be get'n mad!
What you mad?
Can't handle that!
Can't be get'n mad!
What you mad?
Can't handle that!
Can't be get'n mad!
What you mad?
Can't handle that!

If I played you...
Would yo like that?
Had friends...
Would you like that?
Never call?
Would you like that?
No no
You wouldn't like that
No!

What if I?
Had a thing on the side?
Made ya cry!
Would the rules change up?
Or would they still apply!
What if I...
If I played you like a toy
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy!

Can't Handle That

Why posting lyrics? Because I can! That's why!

But really, acting like a boy like Ciara does... is really an insult toward my inner gentleman. :heehee:

But I still like the song.. Keeps really stuck in my head... :eek: *continues singing*

Lex
04-18-2007, 10:52 AM
I like it.
It's good to try and make girls think about being treated as an object. Why should that happen? How would guys like it if they were treated that wya, etc? It's very cool, I like it.
And they were all dressed so nicely! They didn't looks like cheap flesh! Huzzah!
Also, I think it is also a response to the way gender is portrayed in hip hop videos.