"HE" has a meeting ..... "SHE" is getting ready...

[Wendy me]

omg i have a meeting with the lawyers this Moroni .... no biggie i have done this way too many times before .... last night got some of my paper work together and went over some things we are going to talk abought look at notes... all the pre meeting things ...

this morning getting ready up coffee check the forum ... shower shave all over :D wash my hair .... out of the shower hair up to dry .... slip on a little nighty.... some dove anti-perspirant ... plucked a few stray hairs .... put on some face cream .... and lotion on my legs .... filed some of my nails that needed some looking after.... layed out "HIS" clothes for the meeting ...

as i sat down with my next cup off coffee it became clear that at lest in some way Wendy was going along to the meeting....we smell pretty and are as smooth as can be ..... i have caught my self more times than you could believe slipping in to Wendy mode when i was getting ready to go do a "HIM" thing ....., and no this is not the time nor the place for a Wendy apperance.... ........

[Karren H]

Wendy. You are one lucky girl!! Here's an idea.. Take you Wendy clothes... Have your meeting... Just before the meeting ends say "Ohhh, I need one additional bit of legal work done, I'll be right back"... Run to the restroom, change, run back into the meeting and have them draw up the papers to legally change your name??

:D

Love Karren

[Wendy me]

lol Karen would love to but this is official ... between our Union comp lawyers and the company's lawyer to settle a worker's comp. case not the time for Wendy to show up....

[Gina_darling]

I have to work as 'HIM' no way round it. Besides sometimes it's handy to be a little taller and stronger when calving a cow! 'SHE' steps of the bubble bath in the evening though :D

[Marcie Sexton]

Perhaps no place for Wendy right then, but she sure could enjoy the day afterwards....
I know after a tuffie, I always like to come home take a nice bubble bath and let Marcie have her way...:heehee:

[Charleen]

I gotta be "him" at work, but I'm to the point that when I dress as him, it's like I'm CDing to be him, so I know how you feel Wendy.
Loveand xxxx, Lily

[tommi]

Wendy
I'm right in that trench with you Tommi gets up and wants to go to work,
It would end my day and night time jobs thats for sure:(

[JulieC]

I've long struggled against any identification of "she" and "he" within myself. I am "me". That me has various different aspects, just the same as anyone else out there. That me dresses in certain ways for certain occasions. If I'm going hiking, I dress one way. If I go to a business meeting, I dress another.

Yes, society's laws demand I dress a certain way in most circumstances. I wish it was otherwise. But, having those laws does not mean I have to create a second persona, call it "she" and give it a name.

I've actively resisted giving myself a femme name for this reason, and remain
-BB

[AmberTG]

Hey BB, nothing wrong with that. Whatever works best for you is what you should do. Not having that constant pull from the o"other side" would be easier when dealing with life. I tend to be somewhere in the middle myself, I'd rather present as female all the time, and I'm working on that slowly, but I don't want to give up my handy male traits like being able to build and fix stuff around the house. Now having said that, I'll probably get jumped on by a couple of the GGs. I know there's some really handy, independent GGs out there that are just as good at it as I am, it's just not as common. Of course, I know enough men also that wouldn't know which end of a hammer to hold, much less to use it constructively.

[JoAnnDallas]

Almost everyday, SHE comes to work with HIM. Somedays SHE is only wearing panties, polished toes, shaved legs/chest. Other days, SHE is wearing panties, pantyhose, bra, cami, painted toes, shaved legs/chest, makeup and lipstick. No one notices because the outerwear is HIM. But under the outerware HIM is all SHE. I have found that since JoAnn really emerged and accepted herself back in 2005, that I have started feeling like when I am HIM, I am crossdressing as HIM and no one notices it. LOL

[EmmaJane TS]

I'm not at that point yet, but I can see it coming to that one of these days. I already shave totally smooth everywhere (I use to have a goate beard!). I also do the whole skin care regime as well (which I never did as a guy).

I'm even thinking about perm. facial hair removal so I guess Emma already makes the daily trip to the office with "him".

Hugs and kisses,

EmmaJ.

[marie354]

Wendy, you know how it is... A man has to do... errr.... ''A girl'' has to do what a girl has to do. TeeHeeHee.

You'll have your time, I'm sure.

Don't worry, be happy.
:hugs:

[Wendy me]

well we had a good meeting both side played nice ...lol.. on the way over there i was brushing my hair out and usually in the "HIM" mode i put it up in a pony tail with abought 5 or 6 bands ... today one band in a high pony tail ... just a last second change a little Wendy snook in....

most often when i end up getting ready for some big thing i find that i do go through my girl rutine.....