REALITY CHECK!! IT'S Great ... (we're blokes)

[Sarah Plumber]

When I'm on this forum I accept everybody as female. I will treat everybody as such BUT then occationally it strikes me that I am in fact interacting with a bunch of Blokes!!
Just like those who I work with. Football fans, those who ogle ladies breasts, check out the pics in MENS magazines drink Beer and then here I am discussing which skirts to wear, makeup, pink panties and the likes....Does my bum look big in this, kind of stuff...

And do you know I really like that. It makes me feel NORMAL !! Thanks Ladies...:love:

Anybody else feel the same way?

[Gina_darling]

Glad we can help, it is good to feel normal. I never pretend though, I show no interest in football, don't ogle (though I do check out outfits!). Funnily enough I was actually giving advice on make-up to a couple of GG friends the other day, they just accepted it (do they know about my other side?)

[veronicag48]

When I'm in this forum I do forget that the gender that this site is intended for. But the feeling of being dressed really feels wonderful and normal and feminine. I also enjoy doing the male things that I've been doing all my live, like auto maintenance, carpentry and I would definitely not go fishing or hunting dressed, maybe just camping. But never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined me washing out some lingerie and hanging them in the shower:heehee:

[Karren H]

Who's to say what's normalish.. How about suiting up and playing ice hockey late at night... Skating your ass off, getting your bell rung a few times.... Then getting up the next morning, stiff and tired, dressing up pretty and going out shopping for dresses... In a dress... How's that for normal? Hehe

Normal is as normal does.....

Love Karren.

[Valerie Nicole]

I agree with you, Sarah. On this forum I usually do feel like I am interacting with women...and I feel like I am one, to an extent, when I make my posts. Then every now and then it hits me...these aren't women and girls I'm talking to, but guys, and I'm a guy too. A minute later, I just put that out of my head and get back to the illusion.

[JoAnnDallas]

To me it's hard not to think of all the other girls here as females. Even all of the GG's too...LOL. Since we are all CD's, our mindset is female.

Kinda like my Tri-Ess chapter. Once in a while they will have a function or party where all the girls can not dress up. They must come in drab. They do it for the SO's. It is a little funny because sometimes you can not tell who is who and if it is at a public place, forgetting to use the correct pronoun or name can get comical.

[Gretchen]

I had those confusing feelings at first when I came to the forum but that was nearly two years ago. Reading and posting for me is 99.9% a female activity and I feel totally comfortable in my female role whenever I am on this forum. I am seldom en drab when on the forum and I think that may add to the mystique and magic, but it is totally comfortable.

I do have periodic flashes of awareness when in male mode in social situations with a small mixed group. I get a surreal feeling of "am I really doing that, wearing women's clothes and loving every minute of it?"
No answers as to what that means for me or even if those things won't go away in time.
Gretchen

[Sue Too]

BLOKES?????? GUYS????????

I've never entertained any thoughts that I was interacting with anybody but a group of lovely women. What a shock!! Geez! Don't know what to think!
Wonder if the sun will come up tomorrow?

Susan

[Eva Diva]

When I'm on this forum I accept everybody as female. I will treat everybody as such BUT then occationally it strikes me that I am in fact interacting with a bunch of Blokes!!
Just like those who I work with. Football fans, those who ogle ladies breasts, check out the pics in MENS magazines drink Beer and then here I am discussing which skirts to wear, makeup, pink panties and the likes....Does my bum look big in this, kind of stuff...

And do you know I really like that. It makes me feel NORMAL !! Thanks Ladies...:love:

Anybody else feel the same way?


Football (American) - check!

Big Breasts - check!

Porn - check!

Beer - check!

Pink panties - check!


As the kids say - "It's all good!" :D

[Ruth]

I guess there's a danger in thinking too much about anything. I'm happy showing my feminine side here, and I imagine I'm dealing with other people who are expressing their feminine side. Who they might be in the "real world" is not on my mind.

[EmmaJane TS]

Hi Sarah,

Personally it's never entered my head that anyone posting here isn't either female and/or in a female mindset.

BTW even if I'm en drab I'll still post, but it's definitely Emma who is posting (else I'd sign with my guy name who wouldn't in a million years sign a mail like I do).

Hugs and kisses,

EmmaJ.

[Wendy me]

it's pretty much the norm for me we Cd's (mtf) are girls .... the other Cd's (ftm) are guys.... and the GG'S are well our GG'S.... lol....
i will admit the first time someone called me girlfriend i was stunned .... now it's all good....

[Kate Simmons]

What? I'm talking to other guys here about girly stuff?:shocked: As Poyeye would say: "This is emabarriskin".:p

[Charleen]

this kinda reminds me of the thread a while back- We're men dammit! Boy that was fun!
Me? I'm Lily regardless of what it says on the birth certificate!

[Angie G]

WellI like it :hugs:
Angie

[kerrianna]

this kinda reminds me of the thread a while back- We're men dammit! Boy that was fun!
Me? I'm Lily regardless of what it says on the birth certificate!

Yes, poor old Stapler. He knew us not well.

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=44593

:rolleyes:

Salandra you crack me up. :heehee:

[Ammdi]

Oh hell yes!

Fixed the steering stabilizer on my Jeep just now, - wrenches, jack, wd-40, pantyhose and little silver anklet. Felt soooo normal to me.

[Sasha M]

I just joined up today and that was one of the things that really struck me as well. But it seems to just work, and I like it. I do worry a little I can get lost in it, I'm prone to some obsessive behaviors: musician, skydiver, rock climber, poet, writer, construction worker, network engineer, fire fighter, photographer.

I've lived in about 7 states from a boats in Key Largo to a cabin in the Rockies near Aspen. I have truly been searching my whole life .. for what I don't know. Maybe just the next adventure ... maybe some nice panties and a sweet Teddy. I know right now, writing this, I'm very excited. Not in that I have to go relieve myself way, but in that I've just made a great connection way. Like I did with the other passions I mentioned.

It's a Mad World, I love it!

Sasha:be:

[trannie T]

Oh hell yes!

Fixed the steering stabilizer on my Jeep just now, - wrenches, jack, wd-40, pantyhose and little silver anklet. Felt soooo normal to me.

Fixing steering stabilizers is woman's work. Thank you for sharing your femanine side.:love:

[Jacqui]

Sarah, you've given me a cold slap to the face, a hard punch to the mid-section, and a mean dose of reality!

Now, can anyone tell me how to remove breast forms attached with Hollister adhesive?
I can't get mine off!

Jacqui

[BobbieCD1944]

Now, can anyone tell me how to remove breast forms attached with Hollister adhesive?
I can't get mine off!

Jacqui

Cotton balls, rubbing alcohol, and patience :)

[NewBetty]

Sarah, you've given me a cold slap to the face, a hard punch to the mid-section, and a mean dose of reality!

Now, can anyone tell me how to remove breast forms attached with Hollister adhesive?
I can't get mine off!

Jacqui

OW!!

[NewBetty]

When I'm on this forum I accept everybody as female. I will treat everybody as such BUT then occationally it strikes me that I am in fact interacting with a bunch of Blokes!!
Just like those who I work with. Football fans, those who ogle ladies breasts, check out the pics in MENS magazines drink Beer and then here I am discussing which skirts to wear, makeup, pink panties and the likes....Does my bum look big in this, kind of stuff...

And do you know I really like that. It makes me feel NORMAL !! Thanks Ladies...:love:

Anybody else feel the same way?

Last night I answered another widower in male mode (hey... I'm new)
and later felt as if I'd made a horrible faux pax (LOL)!

Still like pics of sexy GG's and all.
I just feel so relieved and joyous when dressed these last weeks... a much needed break from the darker parts of my life which are all over me the rest of the time.

I sucked at all sports and really had no interest either so that way of relating guy to guy was forever closed to me anyway. I used to try 'n fake it but later just said that rock n roll was my favorite contact sport.

[Rachel75]

I guess that thought just doesn't bother me much. I feel like everyone on here is in the same situation I am in. We need a place to just be ourselves and we draw strength from each other. Sure, we may be mostly guys, but we all share something in common and I have absolutely no problem with discussing feminine issues with anybody on here. Would I do the same thing with the same people in drab at a bar over a couple of beers? Probably not, but on here things seem different.

[RobertaFermina]

I bought a used car last week, and the stereo speakers were no good. I spent a good amount of time, removing and replacing them with a pair donated by a friend. I had to do some modifications to them so they would fit. Once I got them in, they sound so NICE! Screwdrivers, End-Cutters, Coil Impedances, Spade Connectors, Screwdrivers, Nut-Drivers. All tools and improvisation and Mr. Fixit! Fun Fun FUN!!!!

Though now I wish was EnFemme I could have played Ms. Fixit?

I'm a BLOKE and a Lady and have begun dressing the 60's Mod-Girl (or as some might say TART!) OoooH BEHAAAAAVE !!

Loving ALL OF ME!


:rose: Roberta :rose:

[rachel_rachel]

Watching and sometimes playing aussie rules football. Yes

Play cricket. Yes

Occupation. Truck Driver
Does this mean that i check out other women? From the height that i'm at in the truck... I do look, it's hard not too.

Drinking. Yes A mate and i put away a slab between us last saturday night. (A slab is 24 bottles of beer in case anyone wonders)

Men's mags. I don't to that anymore. Used to a while ago but that sort went with the job i was in.

Getting back to that.. I'm a panel beater by trade (autobody repair)
So i'm not afraid to get my hands dirty.

[Sarah Plumber]

Well it just goes to show a real bloke one minute....a girl the next ...perhaps thats part of the fun? Would it be the same if we could wear girls stuff whenever we wanted? Would'nt it be great to hang over the bonnet of a car stripping the engine in a short skirt? I know I'd love to do that. Admirering your mates new heels at the local footy match?

Now there's a world I'd love to live in....but would it be the same I wonder?