Wuz I Snooped on??

[Donna Marie]

I've told y'all before that the missus and I live apart and that I have told her all about Donna Marie. She went out of town this week and I kept her dog with mine at my house. Yesterday I was out doing some chores at church and when I returned I found that she had let herself in and picked up her dog on her way home and left me a thank you note.

When I went in the bedroom I found the bifold doors to Donna Marie's closet were ajar. Before I went out I made sure to put everything back in the closet and I closed the doors. Bifold doors have a spring that holds them closed - did they just pop open maybe?? Or wuz I snooped?? On the counter in the bathroom are jars of makeup and nail polish. Wonder if they were checked out??

Anyway, it makes me VERRRRY glad we had the discussion several years ago!!! Since then she has pretty much chosen to ignore the subject and our relationship has been good. I do not intend to bring it up again, but it sure would be interesting to know if she did look around while I was out. But there was really nothing naughty in there - just the normal clothes of a "lady of a certain age" - and that would be me. :D

[Jenny Beth]

Unless they've popped open on their own before I'd say she snooped. If that's the case then she knows your taste in clothes and maybe someday she'll want to borrow something....:heehee:

[AmberTG]

You can look at it this way, maybe she's finally curious about your lifestyle. Who knows, she might just approach you about the subject one of these days, but then again, maybe she won't.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

Did you tell her Donna Marie is your girlfriend or that you are Donna Marie?
If she knows about your crossdressing than maybe she was hoping to get some hints on how to dress fashionably because your picture shows you know how to pull that off.

[Just Rachel]

My guess is that she was snooping. It's human nature, isn't it? I don't think her curiosity is necessarily a bad thing, though. :)

[Kerrie Sifton]

snooping... well she might learn something if she did, but if your creams were on the counter she would probably guess. Good for you for discussing it early on. And too bad there was not anything naughty in the closet... it might have prompted some discussion... :D

[NewBetty]

My guess is that she was snooping. It's human nature, isn't it?:)

Oh yeah, she looked. Anyway that's what my "feminine intuition" tells me (LOLOLOL)

[Rachel Morley]

Humm.... an urge of curiosity that was just too much for her perhaps. :happy:

[AllieSF]

If she snooped, which it seems she has, how do you feel about her looking through your personal things in your residence? I personally would not like that and would discuss it with someone if they did, unless I was totally cool with it with them.

[NewBetty]

I agree. I guess she may no be an official "ex" but still you have every right to feel a little violated by the snooping.

[Jodi]

When my ex boogied, the first thing my lawyer told me was to change the locks and never give her a key. Nuf said.

Jodi

[gwenrob43]

Hi Donna Marie,
Yeah, I suspect you were "snooped." As you mentioned you live apart anyway, but I have to agree with one of the other ladies, she'll probably want to borrow something!

Love,
Gwen

[micheal]

Id like to think you were just in a rush or tired and didnt close them properly.

Since then she has pretty much chosen to ignore the subject
I was hopeing that she had decided to stop ignoreing your fem side & had slipped a present into your closet for looking after your dog.
Guess that would have been to fairy tail like :daydreaming:.