Life's a bitch and who the F*** cares!!!

[Felix]

Ouch!!! After saying in another thread earlier that not as many things bother me cos of my age, there is one big thing that really bothers me. The f******* LAW and society and it's B***** norms. I really hate and despise them!!!!!!!! I hate it that after being six years together with Yachica because we are not married it makes things difficult. My step son thinks of us as companions which is nice cos he doesn't know the labels yet which in one way is good and yet in others it makes life so difficult to explain. I was just asked to sign something that had to be done by a none relative. Well my step son takes things literally so he said yeah that you! I was like life has such a way of making ya feel bad about ya self. Anyways I have explained now cos I'm so fed up of hiding and stuff I said 'you know what Hun you call me and ya mum companions well I look at you and your mum as my family I have been with you six years and I love you like my son and you are my family'. He was like 'I didn't know that'. but looked kinda pleased :happy: I said 'well ya do now!!' I've took the initiative cos I'm fed up of feeling like not important cos of my gender and sexuality xx Felix :hugs:

[KrazyKat]

:hugs: Way to Go, Felix!!:thumbsup:

It sounds like you made someone very close and special to you understand exactly how you feel, and they are loving it!!

Sometimes we forget to say those things, and yes, the laws stink when it comes to this stuff, I can't imagine the frustrations some go through, and the heartbreak, when other family members aren't onboard with a couple's life desicions!!

Sounds like you made a breakthrough!!:thumbsup: A celebration maybe in order, like chocolate milk shakes all around or something!!:D

[Sharon]

I understand how you feel, Felix, and I often wonder if the rest of the world will ever understand us, or others who deal with different issues. Even within our own community I marvel at the sometimes intentional, and sometimes just malicious or ignorant, attitudes towards others if they don't fit into the same narrow categories that they themselves belong to.

Our kids have a way of saying the most wretching things to us, even if done in complete innocence, but it's real cool that your step-son truly cares for you. It appears that he meant absolutely no harm or hurt in what he said to you.

[Kate Simmons]

Never feel you are not important Felix. You are very important to us, that's for sure.:hugs: Sal

[Felix]

Awww! Thanx Y'all :hugs: :hugs:

Sharon I know he meant no harm it is because of certain factors that he doesn't fully understand our relationship and those are ones that are supposed to protect him from others nasty comments only thing is the protective ones mean that he doesn't see me as family that is why I took the step to tell him how I feel. I think it helped already xx

Thanx Sal and Kat and yeah I think I have made a break through just hope it stays this way xx Felix :hugs:

[kerrianna]

Jeez Felix...you sound like a dad. It does sound like you've turned a corner. Good for you. :hugs:

Sure hearing a male voice from you these days. Kinda intimidating...maybe cuz I was scared of my dad. I know you're a lot nicer of a dad. hehehe...til I come home on the back of a harley with my new boyfriend. :p

[Felix]

:eek: Sorry Kerrianna didn't mean to scare ya hun :hugs: :hugs: xx Felix

[kerrianna]

:eek: Sorry Kerrianna didn't mean to scare ya hun :hugs: :hugs: xx Felix

That's okay dad, thanks for the hugs.

So is it okay if my biker BF lives with us for awhile? He got kicked out of his house and is between jobs. :battingeyelashes:


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