lynn27
05-14-2007, 08:29 AM
I haven’t started to many threads because there hasn’t been much news. As always, please excuse my typo's. This is going to be a little disjointed because this weekend provided a few surprises and my wife and I made several breakthroughs in the last few days. Personally, the best part was that I finally got the nerve to shave off a 20 years old beard [been hiding behind it for many years]. In fact, my wife has never seen me without it.
Quick recap of our background
I did come out to my wife a while back and things have been progressing well. Wife is not big at communicating and has a difficult time opening up about my dressing up. Not that she is against it, just that she is going thru the normal up and down phases. She is good with me dressing up at home most evenings and underdressing to the extremes on our nights out. I have tried to go very slow and allow her to adjust. I have considered her feelings at every turn and not said or done anything to upset her.
In the last year we [me in drab] have shopped [she loves to shop for bargains] for things off the bargain racks and she has bought lots of great stuff for me, mostly sweaters, tops, jr. low-rise jeans, panties and bra’s. We haven’t bought any dresses or skirts together yet but she’d to be blind not to see the dozen or so in our closet. So far I have refrained from wearing a dress or skirt in front of her.
Since the new year I have taken off almost 40 pounds. I'm at 190 to 194 right now and my next goal is 180 with the hope of getting below 170 before the winter.
I have also let my hair grow out since around January so my hair is below my collar and well past my ears. Speaking of ears, I’m debating getting them pierced now. I did them myself about 25 years ago but let them go a year or so later.
Well Saturday we went out for a drive. I wore an extremely tight pair of hiphugging jeans, a “well-filled” lacy 40B bra and a lacy top under a loose shirt and jacket. We ended up at a distant watering hole for a light snack and a drink. My wife looks over at me at the door and motions to close my top button. I acted dumb later and she whispered, “your lace top was showing.”
I had planned on dropping in on Chloe’s “Girls Night Out” in Akron but I chickened out at the last minute. I had wanted to go in there and act surprised but as we pulled up there was a really big girl [like 6’4" 250] outside smoking and my wife immediately read her as a guy and questioned what kind of place it was. So we headed of in another direction.
Well, anyhow we get home and we got ready for bed. We cuddled a little and started kissing. She pauses for a second and says, “this is scratchy” referring to the beard I have hide behind for almost 20 years. I have been looking for an excuse to shave that thing off for a while now, so I jump out of bed and the thing is gone in about 2 minutes.
We ended up kissing more than we have in 5 years. It was so nice. Usually she is a little indifferent toward my breast forms. I sense that she avoids contact with them. Well Saturday night was different, after the beard shaving she showed a lot more abandon and had her arms and even her hands on them several times. :hugs: I’ll leave the rest to your imagination but Sunday was great morning for both of us, too. :tongueout
Quick recap of our background
I did come out to my wife a while back and things have been progressing well. Wife is not big at communicating and has a difficult time opening up about my dressing up. Not that she is against it, just that she is going thru the normal up and down phases. She is good with me dressing up at home most evenings and underdressing to the extremes on our nights out. I have tried to go very slow and allow her to adjust. I have considered her feelings at every turn and not said or done anything to upset her.
In the last year we [me in drab] have shopped [she loves to shop for bargains] for things off the bargain racks and she has bought lots of great stuff for me, mostly sweaters, tops, jr. low-rise jeans, panties and bra’s. We haven’t bought any dresses or skirts together yet but she’d to be blind not to see the dozen or so in our closet. So far I have refrained from wearing a dress or skirt in front of her.
Since the new year I have taken off almost 40 pounds. I'm at 190 to 194 right now and my next goal is 180 with the hope of getting below 170 before the winter.
I have also let my hair grow out since around January so my hair is below my collar and well past my ears. Speaking of ears, I’m debating getting them pierced now. I did them myself about 25 years ago but let them go a year or so later.
Well Saturday we went out for a drive. I wore an extremely tight pair of hiphugging jeans, a “well-filled” lacy 40B bra and a lacy top under a loose shirt and jacket. We ended up at a distant watering hole for a light snack and a drink. My wife looks over at me at the door and motions to close my top button. I acted dumb later and she whispered, “your lace top was showing.”
I had planned on dropping in on Chloe’s “Girls Night Out” in Akron but I chickened out at the last minute. I had wanted to go in there and act surprised but as we pulled up there was a really big girl [like 6’4" 250] outside smoking and my wife immediately read her as a guy and questioned what kind of place it was. So we headed of in another direction.
Well, anyhow we get home and we got ready for bed. We cuddled a little and started kissing. She pauses for a second and says, “this is scratchy” referring to the beard I have hide behind for almost 20 years. I have been looking for an excuse to shave that thing off for a while now, so I jump out of bed and the thing is gone in about 2 minutes.
We ended up kissing more than we have in 5 years. It was so nice. Usually she is a little indifferent toward my breast forms. I sense that she avoids contact with them. Well Saturday night was different, after the beard shaving she showed a lot more abandon and had her arms and even her hands on them several times. :hugs: I’ll leave the rest to your imagination but Sunday was great morning for both of us, too. :tongueout