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TracyH
05-25-2007, 09:36 AM
I don't know what came over me yesterday, but I felt the need to dress more than usual. Now usually I'm just not a wig, pad and makeup kind of person, but yesterday was different.

First I got pre-dressed. I wore my pads and bodysuit under a pair of girl's jeans and a normal looking top. I put on makeup, which without a wig just makes me look like a goth kid. Also, I keep my head shaved, so in reality I femmed up to look more intimidating than I usually do. But luckily the look turns dark and smoky when I put on my wig. Looking at myself in the mirror, it was hard to tell that I was wearing pads. The only giveaway were the platform shoes, but those were mostly covered by the legs of my jeans. I'm good, everything's hidden. Okay, lets go.

I packed my breasts, wig, and a cute stretchy blue top into my backpack and left the house. My plan was to drive to the lloyd center, finish my look, and then walk around the outside of the mall, which was about six blocks. Once in the parking garage, I brushed out my wig, changed my top and inserted my breasts. My breasts are just bags of rice, so while I was squishing them into a breast shape, I caught some motion out of the corner of my eye. As it turns out, someone had been sitting in their car about three spaces away and watching me.

I could have died right then.

Instead I drove away and parked in a different corner of the parking garage. Then I made sure to check every car around me for occupants, but then I realized that I already dressed and I should just go do what I set out to do. Many of you will identify with what happened next: I started trying to talk myself out of it. First started the stalling: Okay, I'll go when those people go inside, wait, now those people, now there's a car. Then came the excuses: I should totally be doing homework right now instead of playing around at the mall. finally the desperate measures: There might be a dog out there and it'll out me because dogs can smell the difference between men and women! I won't be fooling him!

I took a deep breath to calm myself. I told myself, "You're going to die someday and if you keep putting this off you're going to end up complaining about how you wasted your life not doing anything fun after you're dead. So go do it now before it's too late" I got out of the car and locked it. "That means you can't get back in until you're done!" My mind told me. So that was my mission, to walk that six blocks I'd mapped out in my mind before I'd let myself into the car again.

Now, I live in Portland, which is a great city for crossdressing. It's pretty progressive, so there are very few uptight or just plain bad people. Unless you go out to one of the suburbs, but I won't go into that right now. But I digress. One thing I hadn't seen much of in Portland until today were gangmember, but there were two of them right there in front of the mall entrance. Blue bandannas, blue baggy shorts. I decided I would walk counterclockwise around the mall instead and maybe they'd be gone once I had to pass where they were. And if not, I would just walk around the other way to get back to my car for double credit.

I began to calm down once I was walking and got about halfway around the mall. A block away was the light rail and I could have taken it downtown, where, honestly, a barely passable crossdresser would have seemed pretty mundane. It was a thought, but I didn't want to be trapped on the light rail with someone who might not like me. "Well, if you're not going to do that, you're going in the mall!" my brain told me. I railed against it, as it was not part of the plan, but my brain was kind, but firm, "Yes, you're scared. But remember that dying thing? Yeah, go do it"

I'd be lying if I said I wasn't terrified. But unfortunately there was nothing I could do as my brain had set this new task for me. I opened the door and stepped inside to the pleasant air conditioning. There were people everywhere and suddenly I was standing right in the middle of them. I didn't have time to balk or to run away; my legs just started walking on their own. And they made sure to work those hips. I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror and was suddenly horrified. Crap, Tracy, you went and made yourself hot! What were you thinking? Now guys are going to hit on you!

Almost. There was a couple walking toward me who pretty much embodied the spirit of Portland. Both were tattooed and pierced and wearing somewhat vintage clothing. The guy didn't notice me, but the girl made eye contact. She looked me over and then her face lit up. She gave me a smile that seemed to say, "I'm going to take you home with me and do to you things that they write about in penthouse letters!"

I started to sweat and realized that I had to get the heck out of here before I started getting armpit circles. I kept a normal pace and got out of the mall in time, but my heart was pounding so hard it was all I could hear. However, once I got in my car I was okay again, and I changed and drove home.

JulieC
05-25-2007, 11:32 AM
Bravo and nicely done Tracy! Much less well written! Had me laughing at times! I really laughed hard after you realized someone had been watching you from another car. Part of me would have been tempted to walk over and say, "I noticed you watching me with interest. Want a date?" :lol:

suzy
05-25-2007, 11:53 AM
Tracy,

Great story......Congratulations! I know that you had a very rewarding time out! Loved the story......what's next???:D

Rita B
05-25-2007, 12:29 PM
I started to sweat and realized that I had to get the heck out of here before I started getting armpit circles. I kept a normal pace and got out of the mall in time, but my heart was pounding so hard it was all I could hear. However, once I got in my car I was okay again, and I changed and drove home.

The things we do for love ( of crossdressing):hugs:

Rita B

Mitch23
05-25-2007, 01:00 PM
Nice one girl - great story and thanks for sharing it! I think many of us can identify the mix of emotions you went through. In the mall for the first time and surrounded by people and feelings of complete terror! But you did it, you had a game plan and you stuck to it - well done!

mitch

TxKimberly
05-25-2007, 02:34 PM
Great story!
Someone recently posted that htey doubted the honesty of some posts talking about going out in public. They thought it sounded too easy, with no anxiety. YOUR post tells the whole story, detailing the nerves that I bet most of us feel when starting.

Thanks for sharing!
Kim

Lilith Moon
05-25-2007, 03:38 PM
Great story!
Someone recently posted that htey doubted the honesty of some posts talking about going out in public. They thought it sounded too easy, with no anxiety. YOUR post tells the whole story, detailing the nerves that I bet most of us feel when starting.

Thanks for sharing!
Kim

I know what you mean about some posts. This one came over to me as absolutely genuine, complete with sweaty armpits. Thanks for sharing Tracy !

JoAnnDallas
05-25-2007, 03:39 PM
Great story.......well done girl......I know what you mean. I went out public by myself recently too. First time was after filling up the SUV en fem. I stared at the gas station store and thought "Why not go in and get a bottle of water". Next thing I knew I was opening the door to the store. I got my bottle of water and no one seem to pay much attention to me. I too got checked by a GG. As I started to exit the store this well dressed GG came in. We both scaned each other, then she tilted her head and smiled at me. Then we walked passed each other. I felt like I had passed somekind of GG fashion test. LOL This led to going to another convience store the next night and then to Payless Shoes the day after that. So watch out, now that you have done it, it will become addictive and you'l find your self doing it again and again and again. LOL

CrossdressinGoth
05-25-2007, 03:48 PM
You went through all that and still managed to go out dressed. Well done. In a situation like that I would've almost certainly given up on going out dressed at that time. Awesome you had the will power to be the woman you can be. Great job!!

Franki Kate
05-25-2007, 04:25 PM
Well done Tracy. You sure brought back some memories of the time I visited the same center to purchase a new Spring jacket to attend a Northewest Gender Alliance meeting. I had parked my vehicle (a large 4x4) in the South open parking lot. I had to walk across two intersection to ge to the South side of M & F department store and walk up a couple levels of outdoor stairs. I had earlier had a total makeover by a professional makeup artist, in Portland. She had suggest tht I go to the Lloyd Center M & F for the coat.

When I entered the second level of the store I happend to land smack in the middle of the womens section and just a few paces from the Spring jackests. That was a relief. I did not have to travers many of the clothing racks and customers. I found a SA that was quite comfortable with my attire and we began the search for a jacket. After a nmber of stules and try-ons, I made the purchase and left, wearing the jacket. Thanks for the memories.:happy:

tracie674
05-25-2007, 04:38 PM
Tracy your great story brought back a memory. I was on a business trip in a company car. One night I decided to get dressed and go for a walk. After getting up the nerve to get out of the car, I walked a few blocks. When I got back to the car I reallized i had locked the keys in the company car. With no other option I paniced and smashed out the rear passenger window. I told the boss that the window just shatered when I closed the door. He bought it. From then on I make sure the door is unlocked, i have the key and I leave a window open even in the dead of a rocky mountain winter.

wtb Jessica
05-25-2007, 04:39 PM
Thats good for you, now just try to go a few other places. Also Just drive around it will get better with time. I should know.

O2B Barbara
05-25-2007, 07:04 PM
Good job! Took a lot of courage for that walk. Someday maybe I will get there.

Dixie
05-25-2007, 08:11 PM
Bravo, you did well young grasshopper.

TracyH
05-25-2007, 09:26 PM
Thanks everyone. I do find that just getting out of the car is the hardest part. After that step is taken, things seem to get a little easier. However, sometimes I'll still lose my nerve and go running back to my car. I'd always thought it'd be easier if I had some support. I've been thinking about putting together a Portland get-together as soon as I get some free time. However, with school coming to an end and having to find a job, that may not be for a few weeks.

Roxi Loh
05-25-2007, 09:43 PM
I think I became a little aroused just listening to your story...but that is just me...Way to go girl...

Mitch23
05-26-2007, 08:45 AM
Thanks everyone. I do find that just getting out of the car is the hardest part. After that step is taken, things seem to get a little easier. However, sometimes I'll still lose my nerve and go running back to my car. I'd always thought it'd be easier if I had some support. I've been thinking about putting together a Portland get-together as soon as I get some free time. However, with school coming to an end and having to find a job, that may not be for a few weeks.

I did that my second time out - just looked at myself in a mirror - saw a bloke in drag and scuttled back to the car. Got my composure back, hid behind my sunglasses and set out again. had a great time. have to do it on my own but would dearly love to go with someone else. One day perhaps!


mitch