Fantasizing about crossdressing during "normal" heterosexual sex.....

[miss laureux]

Fantasizing about crossdressing during "normal" heterosexual sex.....


For those of you who are not out, you still have so-called "normal" heterosexual sex with your girlfriend/wife. Although your woman is probably attractive, do you fantasize about being en femme or forced feminization while having sex. Many times, this helps to increase arousal.


Even though I am "forced" to play the role of the dominant one while having sex, in my mind, I am dressed as a sissy french maid who is being used by two dominatrix-like women.


I mean without her knowing.... doing this inside your head....

Please tell me your thoughts, stories, etc...

[Petra1]

Tried it, wife didn't like.

[miss laureux]

Tried it, wife didn't like.



I mean.... without HER knowing.... doing this in your head...

[Mitch23]

Yes I do play these games a lot in my head and for a lot of very good reasons. Firstly my sex drive is very much higher than hers and she has often felt threatened by my constant arousal. By giving her the dominant role and only having full sex or being 'milked' when she wants to and when i have deserved it has made us much more in tune with each bodies and made our intimate moments much more enjoyable for both of us.

Secondly, i have made her the queen of my sexuality, so i have no authority to stray elsewhere or to gratify myself with porn. Th is again has the effect of focussing me back on my marriage and my beautiful wife.

Thirdly she will not let me dress en femme for her but will occasionally dress up for me and has no problem with my 'man panties' that are often part of our games. Of course, she would never call them sub/dom games but is very happy with the principles because it has enhanced, and probably saved our marriage. I learned these techniques from a professional dom, who also reawakened my desire to crossdress. i no longer see her because it would be inappropriate in the context of what i have said. My wife is a natural dom and i love to play the sub role but not all the time. I hope that helps!

mitch

[JulieC]

There are times during activities when I *really* wished I was crossdressed, at least slightly. My wife is accepting of me wearing hosiery during such times, but nothing else. But, if I'm not dressed and we're in the act, I'm not about to stop to put on a pair of hose :)

[Deborah]

I'd rather skip it all and just be the wife. ;)

[rose382832]

never!!! i married the only person in the world that i am attracted to and have never used anything other than her to arouse myself or to help myself get off. we are a couple and " till death do us part" is , for me at least, reality, and the truth.

[sparks]

I'm to busy thinking ...........not yet. Think baseball Think cold weather think Pres Bush naked anything for another acouple minutes. PLEASE.

[Jennifer1978]

yeah absolutely

[RobertaFermina]

Well, YES! Though not a large proportion of the time.

I've fantasized EVERYTHING I can think of. I'm an equal opportunity fantasist!
Being the 'woman' is one of my favorites, though.

Then again, I've abstained from sex for a few years, so my next experiences and fantasies (oh my! what about realities?) might be different !

:rose: Roberta :rose:

[Sallynyc]

I have been fantasizing during hetero sex for over 30 years. it used to vary, after I got married, sometimes it was me as a dom, capturing a woman and forcing her to become a lesbian, Mostly tho, its me as a young boy, 12 or 13, being forced to become a girl by a strong mother and her friends,
Eventually dressing me full time at home, forbidding me to play with boys, only girls, going to pajama parties, where I had to wear diapers and rubber panties under my babydoll pajamas.
Then the parties where we play spin the bottle and some boy takes me into a closet and kisses me, and I run home to tell my Mom and she loves it. Eventually she has me castrated and wearing a Kotex belt under my panties and tells all her friends who are delighted that I have become a sissy.
She gets me a part time job in a beauty parlor where I wear the see thru smock showing my bra and panties, then a job at her friends corset shop where I help all the women fit for their corsets, One of them takes me home to do her laundry.

Am I bad/ Yes, but love the fantasies.

You know, it hasn't killed me or hurt my S.O. in fact she has fantasies of her own involving sex with other men. I don't mind a bit and am turned on by it

I think fantasies are great and don't hurt anyone, in fact I believe that we all fantasize and it's normal

Hugs Sally

[jo_ann]

I have done it once dressed.. felt a little weird, felt guilty about her, even though she has been with women. I must say that 99% of the time, I'm fantasizing that I'm the woman.. in fact, I feel very confused at this point of my life.

[Dixie]

Yes I did, Yes I Do, and No I won't tell........Much too graphic.

[sandy_folsom]

Not only do I fantasize about being dressed up, on many occassions I was. I usually wear lingerie and stockings. We've role played where she played my "date" and seduced me.

[Roxi Loh]

I have done it...when I was not particularly inspired...I usually fantasize about me being dressed as a sexy woman...having sex with my beautiful wife.

[sandcastle]

Sometimes I'm able to convince myself that my genitals go in rather than out. I'm also able to imagine they are my breasts. This can work with SO on top or bottom.

Over about a year, I've managed to convince myself my nipples are further out then they actually are.

This way of thinking works just as well when kissing and cuddling.

Sandra.

[Rachel Morley]

Well, I'm not about to tell you my most intimate fantasies in the bedroom, but if it's between me and my own mind, I can't think of anything more appropriate! In other words if you can't fantasize when you are making love, when can you??? Anything goes in our house if it's a fantasy....and sometimes those fantasies become reality :D

[Chiana]

Yes, I have had mental fantasies about being female while having normal heterosexual sex with my former co-habitational partner. Yes YES YES.

[Robin Leigh]

Well, I'm not about to tell you my most intimate fantasies in the bedroom, but if it's between me and my own mind, I can't think of anything more appropriate! In other words if you can't fantasize when you are making love, when can you??? Anything goes in our house if it's a fantasy....and sometimes those fantasies become reality :D
What she said. :D

The number of sexual activities I've had and not fantasized about or actually been en femme I could probably count on one hand. :)

:hugs:

Robin

[Cora]

I do most of the time. I think of hips and breasts and a curvy body and sometimes that is her and sometimes it is me!

[kittypw GG]

if you dont feel aroused by your partner why would you have sex with her?


:cheer::iagree::thumbsup:

I have always suspected this may be the case for some and thanks for confirming it. How would you feel if your wife had to think of a strong burly man just to get off with you????? Kinda hurts don't it? Kitty

[GypsyKaren]

:cheer::iagree::thumbsup:

How would you feel if your wife had to think of a strong burly man just to get off with you????? Kinda hurts don't it? Kitty

Truer words were never spoken...

Karen

Kitty, you totally rock!

[lahr]

Many times my wife and I had fantastic sex while we wore garter belt's, sheer stockings, and stiletto heels. It just doesent get any better than that.

[TeresaCD]

I know that I am one of the lucky ones because I not only fantasize about cross dressing during "normal" heterosexual sex, but I am actually able to cross dress (occasionally) during these intimate times. Although we are strait and traditional in most aspects of our lives together, my wife and I have lots of fun with this. We enjoy wearing matching nighties, panties, and other sexy lingerie and bedroom attire together.

On those days, weekends, or vacation periods when I am being Teresa, it is understood between us that I get to be Teresa in bed too. I think that is all I will say because this is so personal and so intimate between my understanding wife and me.

It's so nice to be able to be open with her about my wildest feminine fantasies and to have so much fun making them a reality in a way that we both enjoy.

I occasionally wonder if this part of my CD life falls in to the "to-good-to-be-true" catagory. I count my blessings! :Pray:

Teresa

[LilSissyStevie]

Early in my marriage I used to fantasize a little bit during sex, but over the years I've been able to 'come out' to my wife about a number of things (not just CDing). I've learned that my wife can be trusted absolutely with my thoughts, emotions and fantasies.:happy:

Being able to trust someone on such a deep level is a very beautiful thing which I'm afraid most people don't ever get to experience. I know where her limits are and have no desire to go beyond them. Lucky for me, her limits are as far as I want to go anyway.:devil:

I was not so lucky in my first marriage. If I showed the slightest vulnerability to my first wife, she would use it as a weapon against me at the first opportunity. :(

[Emeralddragon]

I do not do that at all. She can read my mind and if I even considered thinking such things while we're having our happy fun time she'd make it so I wouldnt have to pay for SRS.

[Dragster]

Many fantasies come into my head at any time of day, including during intimate moments with my wife, and my own private "intimate moments". Mostly they concern sexy female clothing, worn by either or both of us, but they do include bondage scenarios etc. I find them a big turn on, and would love to act out the achievable ones, if only my wife was not turned off by them.
Kitty GG, I'd be happy for my wife to have her own fantasies at these times, whatever they were, and wish she could have the courage to tell me about them. I'd love to tease her by role play and by mentioning some of them in detail in the middle of our love-making, just to watch the erotic effect and get her "over the edge", hoping that she'd want to return the compliment. Like Rachel Morley, I'd like nothing better than for some of my fantasies to become reality, and to do the same for my wife.

Tony

[TxKimberly]

. . . think Pres Bush naked . . .

OMG - did you HAVE to take me there??!! Now I am ruined for life!
Kim

[zencat-x]

Far too much fantasies and way too little reality dressed in fem. Fortunately for me, that is in the process of changing, thanks to a wonderful,l understanding, GG…..
I want to be meeeeee…..I want to be freeeeeee…….hehe.

[kimberly_f37]

Oh yea I do now and then and she doesn't mind at the time as long as I don't get Lip Stick everywhere !! LOL

[Leah B]

How would you feel if your wife had to think of a strong burly man just to get off with you????? Kinda hurts don't it? Kitty


I wouldn't really care. She'd feel the same on my end, right?

[Brenda Ann]

Is it weird to fantasize about having sex while en femme with another CD. I find it one my many fantasies while having sex. I am a heterosexual but having sex with another crossdresser is kind of the only other way I would have if you call it homosexual sex.

[nicoleazcd]

Yes many fantasies some with my wife. Alot of fun to get to roleplay some. It is quite fulfilling to be able to share them. Brenda Anns type of fantasy is one I have had also.

[Morgan3705]

I think everyone fantasizes about one thing or another during sex.