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Ashleigh
03-04-2005, 09:33 AM
Hi gals.
This is hard to write.
Last night and this morning support from my wife on my CDing has been lost. As you might have noticed, I have not been frequenting the forum as much lately and will be posting much less for now. I will, however, be touching base with you wonderful people periodically just to see how you all are doing but I must work on my wife's and my relationship which I thought was very good - and is to a point.
I must go now before I break down. I must remember, I am a guy and need to act as such.
Till we meet again.
Ashleigh :(
Ashleigh, oh love I hope everything goes ok for you, tell her what she means to you, and don't rush things, I'm sure everything will be fine. I always find that a little quality time with my wife helps soothe my being tg, very nicely. Pamper her a little.
love and best wishes mand xxx
Tamara Croft
03-04-2005, 09:47 AM
Hiya Ashleigh
I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope you can rebuild your support from your wife. It's always hard when we see another one of the girlz going through this, but your family will and always comes first. You know where we are and are all here to support you when and if you need it. Be safe and be happy.
Tamara x
Wendy me
03-04-2005, 09:49 AM
ashileigh you do what is right for thhe two of you if you need pm or post ...............
thinking of you ..........
love you sister
Amelie
03-04-2005, 09:49 AM
Ashleigh. do the right thing and save your relationship. Your family is more important than your dressing. Don't lose the ones you love, your family is your whole life, while dressing is only a part of it.
I hope all works out for the best for you and your wife.
Don't lose her over this.
Love Amelie
Tristen Cox
03-04-2005, 09:51 AM
Bye Ashleigh :( ...for now. Take care of what's most important. Your friends will be waiting.
Love ya
*big hugs*
Tristen
TrueGemini'sWife GG
03-04-2005, 10:24 AM
I am so sorry to hear your wife has had a "relapse".
I do hope it is just temporary, for both your sakes.
The Ladies here gave great advice. Focus on her for a little while and I am sure, being a GG and all, that soon enough she will be back to herself. We aren't perfect either. We make mistakes and do and say things sometimes, that afterwards, we regret. Give her a chance to see that.
Just hold her tight and remind her how much she is loved...
I do hope you don't go away for too long. You will be truly missed..
But like we all have said..
Family first, always....
But whenever you may need us, we will be right here.
Take care Sweetie...
:(
Stephanie Brooks
03-04-2005, 11:06 AM
:(
We're here for you Ashleigh. You are who you are, though. If you were completely a guy, you would never have been here, and you would be different from what you are.
I wish you and your wife the best.
*BIG HUGGLES*
Sandra H
03-04-2005, 11:08 AM
Hi Ashleigh.
So sorry to hear you problem with your wife, take care and I will be thinking of you over the coming weeks. I do hope everything works out for you both.
Take you time and keep your mind on the situation or you could go from a stall into a full spin. (Sorry girls just a little pilot speak) When you are straight and level call and see us and let us know. I for one will be worrying about you.
Take care.
Priscilla1018
03-04-2005, 11:39 AM
Hi Ashleigh,
I am so sorry to hear about your problem. Having the support of our wives is what keeps us going. For now you will have to concentrate on her and rebuild your reationship with her. We will always be here and you know you have the support and prayers of your sisters. Good luck.
Love and BIG hug,
Priscilla
Julie York
03-04-2005, 11:42 AM
Good luck.
Does this mean I can have all your shoes?
letsdance GG
03-04-2005, 11:45 AM
* BIG HUG*
Wendy me
03-04-2005, 12:27 PM
looking forward to haveing pizza with you............you choise the toppings my treat.....
DonnaT
03-04-2005, 12:40 PM
Damn I hate to hear that.
I'm sure everything will work out, because you are a great person.
Take care and keep in touch if possible.
ChristineRenee
03-04-2005, 04:42 PM
Sorry to hear about this Ashleigh. I hope that you both will be able to reach a mutual understanding here. We love you sis and care about you and will be here for you when you need us. Take good care and best of luck.
Love,
Chrissie:)
Anita
03-04-2005, 04:51 PM
good luck I and the girls will always be here xx
I speak from experience with help from the wonderful genuine people on this site
Meggan
03-04-2005, 04:55 PM
Ashleigh, I hope that all turns out well for you. I know that Relationships can take allot of hard work and time.
Julie
03-04-2005, 05:07 PM
Ashleigh I'm so sorry about your present predicament and I hope it is resolved quickly so you can join us again, I agree with Amelie in that your family are more important and all your concentration at present should be focused there.
I remembered that you'd posted about the home situation once before here so hunted it down to refresh my memory before commenting here.
JJ
SilkenPrincess
03-04-2005, 08:56 PM
Ashleigh, It is indeed a "sad time". We will miss you while you're gone. Please come back soon, after having reassured your wife, of course. Even though she may not be a member here, she is an intergral part of what goes on here in that she is an integral part of your life. Hopefully, once that relationship is restored, this one can be also. I'm thinking of you!
Love,
SilkenPrincess
paulaN
03-04-2005, 09:38 PM
asheigh I know it will work out for the two of you,you seem like such a loving person. And I bet your S.O. knowes that too. family is forever. good luck
Sweet Jeanette
03-04-2005, 10:21 PM
Im sorry to hear this happened to you, but your wife comes first. You gave me good advice in the past. Thank you. Come back soon, if you can.
Holly
03-04-2005, 10:31 PM
Ashleigh,
Hon, you know how I feel about you. You have the sweetest spirit. We have that "other" common bond that empowers us. I know that you will draw upon that power. While you are abscent, you will be missed, but never forgotten.
Love You,
racquel
03-05-2005, 03:57 AM
Damn I hate to hear that.
I'm sure everything will work out, because you are a great person.
Take care and keep in touch if possible.
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My exact sentiments.huggs and prayers for you and yours.
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