View Full Version : By no means new to cd, but still CONFUSED
skydive Natasha
06-09-2007, 04:48 PM
I have been crossdressing mtf for as long as I can remember, but have always wondered, is there ever a situation where a mtf and a ftm have a lasting relationship? I am most comfortible dressed as a woman, but it's not accepted in society in Wi. or Ks where I'm from. I can't have kids as a man (sterile) from drinking weed killer as a child of 3, and I can't have a true gendre reassignment because I had tumors on my left chest (breast), but I long for the company of a ftm because I'm not gay either. Where do I turn. I've had 3 marrages because they became uncomfortible with me in a dress and acting like the lady I feel like. I now live in Wisconsin, and long to be treated like I feel. I drive a truck and always dressed up, except to unload or go inside anywhere. Any advice.
Skydive Natasha
There is someone for everyone i truly beleave that too i mean i am ftm and i would go out with a mtf if i felt the connection with there soul and with them as a person and im sure there are others out there that are the same.
It may take time but im sure you will meet the right person one day have you thought about a online dateing site that way you can put down how you feel who you are and who you want to meet :D
you are who you are and you are female if thats how you feel ops and hormones dont make you a woman its who you are that makes you a woman :hugs::hugs: i hope you meet the right person and i am sure one day you will just dont get down and put yourself out there meet new people and hopfully you will meet the right person :D
CaptLex
06-09-2007, 08:23 PM
I have been crossdressing mtf for as long as I can remember, but have always wondered, is there ever a situation where a mtf and a ftm have a lasting relationship?
Hey, Natasha, and welcome. I understand your concern - you may think that GGs will never want to be with an MtF CD, and your only hope would be an FtM, but the world is a lot bigger than that - except maybe in Wisconsin (sorry, I used to live there, so I'm allowed to say that). :p
My point is, there are lots of GGs that are interested in and accepting of CDs (as this site can attest), and if you put yourself out there specifically looking for one, you could find one - though you may have to look harder in some places than others.
but I long for the company of a ftm because I'm not gay either
In case you don't know (and from your post it sounds like you may not), FtMs are not usually crossdressing women (tho some are). Usually, we're men with the wrong plumbing or somewhere between the male and female side of things, so if you're not into men (you mentioned you're not gay), then an FtM may not be for you. But nothing is carved in stone, and there have been MtF/FtM relationships. The thing to remember is that there is no such thing as a "typical" MtF or FtM, so anything is possible, as long as two people connect and can respect the other.
Good luck. :happy:
pocoyo
06-10-2007, 06:28 AM
There is someone for everyone i truly beleave that too i mean i am ftm and i would go out with a mtf if i felt the connection with there soul and with them as a person and im sure there are others out there that are the same.
It may take time but im sure you will meet the right person one day have you thought about a online dateing site that way you can put down how you feel who you are and who you want to meet :D
you are who you are and you are female if thats how you feel ops and hormones dont make you a woman its who you are that makes you a woman :hugs::hugs: i hope you meet the right person and i am sure one day you will just dont get down and put yourself out there meet new people and hopfully you will meet the right person :D
:iagree:!
In case you don't know (and from your post it sounds like you may not), FtMs are not usually crossdressing women.
Usually, we're men with the wrong plumbing or somewhere between the male and female side of things, so if you're not into men (you mentioned you're not gay), then an FtM may not be for you.
Yeah that ^
anything is possible, as long as two people connect and can respect the other.
That too ^
Good luck finding someone you like, who likes you too Natasha.
I'm sure you will find someone for you. :rose:
Lovely Rita
06-11-2007, 08:42 PM
Hi Natasha, I am sure you will find your soul mate some day. A person who will be just right for you and that will accept and love all of you and in turn bring out the best in you.:happy:
crazy4cheezeits
06-20-2007, 12:42 AM
Definitely don't give up! I might not qualify for your FTM (I'm still figuring out what exactly I am), but I was born female and am definitely at the least gender queer. I've been with 2 MTFs.
Charmaine
06-23-2007, 03:27 PM
You are not gay, therefore, you want to be with a woman. So find that right, special woman for you who is openminded and will appreciate who you are whether you are dressed as a man or woman.
I can say this bc my CD BF is a straight male, only interested in feminine females, which I am. It can be done.
How we found each other: He put his trueself, everything, out in the open on a dating site. I sent him a letter of encouragement, we kept emailing, I liked his emails so one day.....months later after a lot of soul searching....I showed up at his work - he's a DJ - and surprised him. We've been together ever since.
Good Luck!
:hugs:
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