Angela d'Evial
06-25-2007, 05:36 PM
How I told my wife.
As I promissed to Chantelle I will tell how I told my wife:
My wife was away on vacation to her family for two weeks and I dressed almost every day , ordered new clothes and joint this site. I enjoyed the time so much that I decided to end the secrecy.
I told it first to my son giving him a 12 page explanation for partners and family (downloaded from the internet). The younger generation have a better knowledge of what is going on , so he was understanding and adviced me to rent the movie "normal " .
Second , I told my daughter and gave her the explanation and the movie.
She was also very supportive but a little more emotional. But she was also glad that I told this very personal secret to her. She never been very close to me , and felt that the relation was improving.
So far so good ,with some experience , now the risky one.
The first day my wife was back I asked her if she had some plans for tomorrow. She said "no ", I said "good , we have to talk about our relation".
I walked around her trying to start but everytime something came in between or she was busy with something. I saw on the internet that a huge storm was coming and she was gardening at 4 pm. She run into the house when it started and I thought it now or never and I started.
I said directly that I was a crossdresser and have an urge to dress as a woman.Direct no B.S. , straight to the point. Gave her the 12 page explanation and told we are going to watch a film tonight. Explained that I don't want to go as far as the man in the film and that I was very happy in my man's body.
My wife was so happy to hear this because after a whole day waiting she was expecting me to say that I spend the two weeks with another woman (in one way I was with Achnes ) and I wanted a divorce.
I think in the years I started to create an imagination in my head of how she would react blocking the courage to tell and stay miserable in the closet.
Like Rod Stewart's song "I wish I knew then what I know now" I would be out of the closed 25 years ago.
As I promissed to Chantelle I will tell how I told my wife:
My wife was away on vacation to her family for two weeks and I dressed almost every day , ordered new clothes and joint this site. I enjoyed the time so much that I decided to end the secrecy.
I told it first to my son giving him a 12 page explanation for partners and family (downloaded from the internet). The younger generation have a better knowledge of what is going on , so he was understanding and adviced me to rent the movie "normal " .
Second , I told my daughter and gave her the explanation and the movie.
She was also very supportive but a little more emotional. But she was also glad that I told this very personal secret to her. She never been very close to me , and felt that the relation was improving.
So far so good ,with some experience , now the risky one.
The first day my wife was back I asked her if she had some plans for tomorrow. She said "no ", I said "good , we have to talk about our relation".
I walked around her trying to start but everytime something came in between or she was busy with something. I saw on the internet that a huge storm was coming and she was gardening at 4 pm. She run into the house when it started and I thought it now or never and I started.
I said directly that I was a crossdresser and have an urge to dress as a woman.Direct no B.S. , straight to the point. Gave her the 12 page explanation and told we are going to watch a film tonight. Explained that I don't want to go as far as the man in the film and that I was very happy in my man's body.
My wife was so happy to hear this because after a whole day waiting she was expecting me to say that I spend the two weeks with another woman (in one way I was with Achnes ) and I wanted a divorce.
I think in the years I started to create an imagination in my head of how she would react blocking the courage to tell and stay miserable in the closet.
Like Rod Stewart's song "I wish I knew then what I know now" I would be out of the closed 25 years ago.