Donna O
07-09-2007, 07:58 PM
This will long and pointy. Please read all more than once. As some you may know I am Peter (Donna ) Oiler of "Oiler vs. Winn Dixie. For a little more then two years , I was very much out and about. In doing so my s.o. and I meet a large amount of the so-call leadership of of the Transgendered movement. We were not impressed. We meet some ,that would flat out lie about how the helped us. They used these lies to better themselves, and there organization. the Truth is we found and got the A.C.L.U. to take our case with little help from the "Big Boys". Next the lie that we are (or were rich) is so far for true. Fact is the best years income I had was after i was fried, and that was 31,000 . plus we had to use 2/3 of my 401k just to pay bills. next lie that most ,if not all the so-call helping groups were raising funds to help us or the case, we never saw any of it,no re did the A.C.L.U.(so they said in Sept. 2002).
Now for some sore points for me.
As we traveled around(we paid fully for it), one of the first thing all most every one said to us , " remember me only when you win, I gladly take 1/2 of the money. The thing was that if I helped some group , a different group would bad the first, trying to get us not to help them. One group went as far as to claim that they help save an other crossdresser job ,by telling their boss if the trans was fried ,this group would file the same kind of case as mine. Fact this other trans went in to their place of work cross-dressed. , I never did so.
Now for the A.C.L.U.
First before filing they wanted me to lie,and say I was gay. Then at the filing, I was asked to pay the 150.00 fee, and would be paid back, as of this post still waiting. Next the first lawyer left a few days later. Her replacement had never had any dealing with a crossdresser. Wean he first came to meet us , he had the nerve to go in to New Orleans , on business , he wore cut-off,sandal, painted toe nail( I felt that he was laughing at me by the way he showed up). Than as the case went on he refuse to listen to what I had to say about the dirty tick that Winn Dixie has and still use. After the case ended they did not even say Thanks(nor did any group, or person), but asked me to pay them back,because "They wasted good gay case money on shitty trans case".
now for my views on how to help your-shelf.
Shopping, let me say this " What color is your money. I shop were i find what I want. I only had one S.A. say Honey do you have a card with your name, not your husband. my reply that is my card . She said I'm sorry ,I made the same mistake last night. L.O.L.
Eating out, We eat at mid -priced place, and if we get good service, we tip as a sigh . If not we tell the boss, and next time things got a lot better.
Church Yes I go crossdressed, and welcomed openly. Wife was help pick new pastor. His first call in New Orleans (He was born in mid west) was near the French Quarter. The members know and enjoy Donna better than Peter. You may ask what type of church it is well it's an E.L C.A. ( Evangelical Lutheran Church of America)
Work, My first job after W.D. was a whole sale pet supplies ,the boss i worked for saw me on T.V. and said as long i did my work well, he did not care. The owners said same. I stayed from April 2000 till Oct. 2005. The reason for leaving, Hurricane Katrina. now i am doing some thing totally diffident, making sheet metals part for heating/cooling.
Wife She has been(and will be) a big pleasing.
I will post more later
Now for some sore points for me.
As we traveled around(we paid fully for it), one of the first thing all most every one said to us , " remember me only when you win, I gladly take 1/2 of the money. The thing was that if I helped some group , a different group would bad the first, trying to get us not to help them. One group went as far as to claim that they help save an other crossdresser job ,by telling their boss if the trans was fried ,this group would file the same kind of case as mine. Fact this other trans went in to their place of work cross-dressed. , I never did so.
Now for the A.C.L.U.
First before filing they wanted me to lie,and say I was gay. Then at the filing, I was asked to pay the 150.00 fee, and would be paid back, as of this post still waiting. Next the first lawyer left a few days later. Her replacement had never had any dealing with a crossdresser. Wean he first came to meet us , he had the nerve to go in to New Orleans , on business , he wore cut-off,sandal, painted toe nail( I felt that he was laughing at me by the way he showed up). Than as the case went on he refuse to listen to what I had to say about the dirty tick that Winn Dixie has and still use. After the case ended they did not even say Thanks(nor did any group, or person), but asked me to pay them back,because "They wasted good gay case money on shitty trans case".
now for my views on how to help your-shelf.
Shopping, let me say this " What color is your money. I shop were i find what I want. I only had one S.A. say Honey do you have a card with your name, not your husband. my reply that is my card . She said I'm sorry ,I made the same mistake last night. L.O.L.
Eating out, We eat at mid -priced place, and if we get good service, we tip as a sigh . If not we tell the boss, and next time things got a lot better.
Church Yes I go crossdressed, and welcomed openly. Wife was help pick new pastor. His first call in New Orleans (He was born in mid west) was near the French Quarter. The members know and enjoy Donna better than Peter. You may ask what type of church it is well it's an E.L C.A. ( Evangelical Lutheran Church of America)
Work, My first job after W.D. was a whole sale pet supplies ,the boss i worked for saw me on T.V. and said as long i did my work well, he did not care. The owners said same. I stayed from April 2000 till Oct. 2005. The reason for leaving, Hurricane Katrina. now i am doing some thing totally diffident, making sheet metals part for heating/cooling.
Wife She has been(and will be) a big pleasing.
I will post more later