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pinkpantyhose
07-10-2007, 06:17 PM
Wow! How much fun today was! i was given the assigment to try on 8-10 wedding dresses, puffy ball gown style, with a minimum of half with lace-up corset backs so i would need help from salespeople.

i decided to do some homework before i went. i went online to davidsbridal.com and selected 12 ball gowns because i was expecting them to not have all in stock in my size, and printed out a "shopping list" making sure 6 were lace-up backs. See my list here: http://www.davidsbridal.com/favorites_public.jsp?id=IJLCACAEAB

i called David's Bridal today to ask if they had any appointments. Dixie answered the phone and said that they had times available at 11am, 1pm, 2pm, etc. i noticed she skipped 12pm and thought it would be busiest since no appointments were available as well as thinking people would be browsing during lunch breaks. Also, their website listed "evenings" as best time to come in due to fewer customers. I went ahead and made the appointment for 1pm though. "Great, see you soon!" Dixie said.

So, i got there about noon, wearing tight girl jeans over white floral bridal pantyhose, heels, and a seamless cami.

The receptionist welcomed me, asked me to have a seat. i did. i told her i was early because i wanted to browse a little first. She asked me basic questions about my wedding. i told her that my future bride and i thought it necessary for us to wear matching wedding gowns and showed her the list i had printed. She asked me to star 3 of my favorites. i did. She showed me where the dresses in my size were and told me to have a look and Dixie, my consultant, would be right with me. About 5 minutes later she greeted me. Cute, sweet, short girl with a great personality. Very friendly and bubbly. i told her what i wanted to do -- try on as many of the dresses on my list that they had and take pics of the front and back to show my bride-to-be so she could decide afterwards and we would have matching gowns. She said, "No problem. i can even take the pictures for you if you want. Some people are surprised we allow pictures, i guess other places don't, but no problem here."

She proceeded to use my list as a checklist grabbing gown after gown. "You really like the lace-ups, huh? i can see you have several here." :) Yep... They had all but 2 in stock. 10 dresses for me to try -- perfect, and 5 were lace-up backs. "Let's start with these first 3" she said and walked me to the dressing rooms. "Is this first one okay?" It was the first room closest to the front of the store and in plain view of the front door and most of the store. When i tried on wedding dresses last time they walked me to the back of the store. Not Dixie. "Perfect," i said, trying my best not to sound sarcastic. "I'm going to go get you a petticoat. Do you need a strapless bra?" "Yes, please" and i told her my size. Into the room i went to slip on the petticoat and corset -- it wasn't a bra -- it even had garters.

Out i went in full public view wearing a petticoat, white floral bridal pantyhose, and a corset with dangling garter straps. She was waiting right outside the room for me. i wouldn't return to the room for about 2 hours.

i tried on dress after dress after dress. We forgot heels at first -- the receptionist was with us periodically and she asked what my shoe size was and what type of heel i wanted. "10, and probably medium." She and Dixie looked at each other and said some style name that i can't remember. They got them for me. They were thong-type heeled sandles and i was wearing pantyhose still. Guess they didn't notice, LOL. "Oh, you have pretty stockings on...these won't work. Let me find another pair." Off Dixie went to fetch a higher heeled shoe that was really pretty and surprisingly comfortable. She helped me slip them on. We also forgot about veils for a minute, then tried on various ones with the different dresses. Dixie was more than helpful with recommending veil length, style, etc. and of course taking pics. But perhaps her best talent was lacing the dresses. "i'm sorry, i didn't realize that it would be so much work for you to lace all of these," i said. "Oh, no problem at all. i love doing this! They call me the 'corset queen.' I even tell bides that i will lace them up if they invite me to their weddings. If you get lace-up dresses, be sure to have someone really patient in your bridal room."

What an awesome feeling to be laced tightly in a corseted wedding dress...5 times!

"Oh, that was the last lace-up dress." Dixie said as she checked our list. she and the receptionist kept asking what i liked about each dress, how they felt, etc. i eliminated dresses as i tried them and was told to try to narrow down to about 3-4 that i really liked. Most of the customers in the store were in the bridal party half of the store, but a couple did wander my way. One stared at me with a look of shock for a minute. Then she said "Oh, beautiful gown..." "Thank-you, do you like the beading?" She nodded and left.

Other salespeople wandered my way too. "That is my favorite dress" one said. i asked for suggestions on veils, on color (some were available in champagne or white). "You're one of those rare brides who can wear both champagne and white with your skin tone. I'm jealous," said one. Another said "That dress is so perfect for you. I wish I could wear that as well as you." i was so flattered, loving the attention.

At some point Dixie got a phone call and excused herself suggesting that i look through the designer dress rack to see if one caught my eye. One did. we tried it on...

When we got to dress #10, Dixie said "I'm curious what your reaction will be to this dress." The front and back looked like entirely different dresses. i told her that. She agreed. "We picture it on the website and catalog from the back so when people see the front, they are surprised. i didn't really like the front but loved the back. we eliminated it.

About this time the receptionist got a phone call from her husband i believe. i overheard her told him she had to go because they had 4 brides (a lie, LOL) but that she had "some very funny stuff" to share with him...hmmm...she was soon back asking me questions. "If your wedding were tomorrow, which dress would you choose right now?" At that point it was #3.

Dress #11, the last one...was my favorite. i had a genuine emotional reaction wearing it, feeling it, walking in it. i LOVED that dress. i wanted to buy it right then and there and everyone agreed that the fit, hem, look, etc. were perfect. Dixie said i could wear it in the store as long as i wanted to and that the record was 2 hours. After selecting the perfect veil, i walked up and down the aisles in it asking the 2 customers that were there what they thought. "Gorgeous, absolutely gorgeous" a middle-aged Caucasian woman said. "It's very pretty" an African-American in her late 20s said.

Dixie wrote down my favorite dress on her card, i changed back to my jeans and cami. i thanked her profusely and drove home a very happy sissy.

See all 36 (including 11 from their website, 12 dress fronts (1 dress we took 2x once without a sash and once with), 12 dress backs, and 1 business card/website printout proof) photos here -- i also posted screenshots of the dresses and descriptions from their website: http://picasaweb.google.com/pinkpantyhose/WeddingDressAssignment?authkey=WiZSD3wvY0g

(Note that i made a new folder in my Picasa album for this assignment because the other one was getting too full.)

Daintre
07-10-2007, 06:39 PM
Hi Pink, I read with great interest this last assignement....why ? because it is the one in which I have also done. Oh not to the degree that you have, and I am pleased that you were so accepted. I wish I had been there to take it all in. As I said, I also picked a bridal salon , it had to be one with larger sizes, and I did try on 3 dresses, I supplied my own lingerie and I eventually bought one of the dresses....like I could afford 600 dollars...but I did, and after it was protected I carried it home on the bus, the package was screaming ***** Bridal Salon, plenty of looks, but I was in heaven.

Pink I have enjoyed your exploits, I guess maybe I was living a bit through you..so bless you for all you have contributed.

goofus
07-10-2007, 09:09 PM
Crimony, show your face! What are you afraid of? If you don't want to show yourself in guy mode wear a wig and makeup...

Beth785
07-11-2007, 02:59 AM
I love #4 and #11 would be my second choice.

"Mary"
07-11-2007, 07:02 AM
Great adventure and you seem to fil them all very nicely. Diana

satinjackie
07-12-2007, 04:01 AM
i didnt have the chance to try on the dresses at debenhams in southampton, uk when they had a bridal dept, but know the feeling of carrying that huge dress bag! Mine displayed "brides international" and certainly grabbed many peoples attention.......and i loved it!

amberchgo
07-12-2007, 07:43 AM
How fun! Gosh I wish I could do that .....


Amber

Maureen
07-12-2007, 06:39 PM
I hate to rain on anyone's fantasy, but I'm sure hoping that you purchased one of these dresses. Most of these sales associates work on comission, and when you take up an hour of their valuable time living your dream, you are keeping her from making money. I'm all for you having the time of your life, but not if someone else's time is wasted in the process.

Could be the type of experience that will turn an associate off about working with us in the future.

ericalynne
07-17-2007, 10:29 PM
loved #1 and #11 too, and may i say you look absolutely lovely in all the gowns. I hope your day will be filled with joy

Billijo49504
07-17-2007, 11:53 PM
The dresses looked beautiful, but with your face removed, it left something to be desired. JMHO..,,.BJ

DanaJ
07-18-2007, 05:05 AM
I hate to rain on anyone's fantasy, but I'm sure hoping that you purchased one of these dresses. Most of these sales associates work on comission, and when you take up an hour of their valuable time living your dream, you are keeping her from making money. I'm all for you having the time of your life, but not if someone else's time is wasted in the process.

Could be the type of experience that will turn an associate off about working with us in the future.You are absolutely right Maureen! What I dislike about this is that pinkpantyhose scheduled this appointment with the express intention of not buying anything. And - completely dominated several SAs time for several hours. It had to be at least several hours, just the 5 corseted wedding dresses had to take a lot of time, to be laced into them, take pix and then unlaced again.

Let me say there is absolutely nothing wrong with trying on wedding dresses, it is something I want to do one day - but to take the time of the sale assistants knowing that you would not be buying anything.... that is what I disagree with.

I am all for following your dreams of being humilated, I am sorry, I just don't agree with dragging innocent people into your fantasy who are trying to make a living and do their jobs.

jeniinnylons
07-18-2007, 08:50 AM
Wow you look very beautiful!

I wish I could do something like this.

Don't mind "the haters" they seem to forget we are all "different"

Shadeauxmarie
07-18-2007, 04:01 PM
Apparently, the thought was to buy TWO dresses when the choice is made. And I'm sure they are not cheap.

You may think spending several hours deciding on a dress is a waste of the SA's time, but I'm sure they'd tell you they want a happy customer.

You'd be amazed how long it takes me to but a car. When I'm ready to buy, I always end up knowing more about the car than the sales person.

DanaJ
07-18-2007, 04:13 PM
Apparently, the thought was to buy TWO dresses when the choice is made. And I'm sure they are not cheap.

You may think spending several hours deciding on a dress is a waste of the SA's time, but I'm sure they'd tell you they want a happy customer.

Not at all, I think IF you are PLANNING on actually buying a wedding dress, then no amount of time is too much. But I think you missed the point of the adventure - it wasn't to buy a dress, or see how good he looked in a dress, or even because his lifelong fantasy was to see what he looked like in a wedding dress. Do you really think if the SA really knew why he was there, they would have spent several hours helping him? And if that is the case, then why the cover story???


You'd be amazed how long it takes me to but a car. When I'm ready to buy, I always end up knowing more about the car than the sales person.Ahhh - but you do not go car shopping with the express intention of NOT buying a car, and then only because some complete stranger told you to go car shopping.

Again, I am not "hating" - just concerned at the lies told just to be able to fulfill a fantasy at working people's expense.

Don't you think that the right thing to do would have been to buy at least one dress - at least as a way of saying "thanks for all the help in lacing me into all the dresses and taking all the pix for me"?

robyn1114
07-18-2007, 08:45 PM
absolutely beautiful pics, you're a very lucky girl. I like # 2 & 3 the best

KandisTX
07-18-2007, 09:43 PM
I have got to agree with Maureen and dana here. While it may be fun for us to go in and try on all those wedding dresses, the SAs in Davids and other bridal shops are paid on commission and if all you are doing is trying on dresses because some domme "ordered" you to do it, you are waisting their valuable time.

I would love nothing more than to go down to the local bridal shop and try on the beautiful wedding dresses they have (I'm hopeing one day that GlitterGG and I will have a wedding vow renewal where I get to be the bride). But, I know that their time is valuable and until I am ready to buy a dress, I won't be going in there.

Kandis:love:

Shadeauxmarie
07-19-2007, 07:39 AM
I've had this exact thing happen to me many times before. I used to sell women's shoes in a department store. Women would come in and ask me for 3 or 4 pairs of shoes to try on. I would get them and they would have 2 or 3 more they wanted to try on. The shoes would fit and look good. When I tried to close the sale, they would comment, "I'm just waiting for the food court to open", or "I'm just looking", or "I'm waitng to meet a friend".

That doesn't make a person evil. (Although I was thinking evil thoughts of the women)

You learn to deal with ALL types of customers. Some of the other sales people I worked with used to make snide comments about men buying women's shoes. Especially when the sales people believed the men were actually buying for themselves. I used to try to get them as customers because I understood them. In fact, the main reason I worked in the women's shoe department was for the discount. (Okay the occasional shot up the skirt was nice too- I was 17 at the time)

C'est la vie.

GlitterGG
07-19-2007, 07:58 AM
Shadeauxmarie, were you getting an hourly wage, or were you working on a commission only basis? There is a huge difference between the two.

Shadeauxmarie
07-19-2007, 09:40 AM
Both. Less than minimum wage plus 15% commission. WAY less than minimum wage.

I was just thinking what a dull place this would be (Earth), if we were all alike.