I confess the truth

[crazyc]

Hi, I confess that Im a crossdresser. to say it out I have been for most of my life when I get the chance. I never wear in public and no one knows I am. The last time I wore womens clothing was over a year ago. It's hard to admit it but i have always liked it a lot. I also never been caught so no one knows about it so i never carry with me any womens cloths. I dont know when I started I just know I would wear my mother's and sister's and step sisters cloths when they were not at home or when in the middle of the night. I cant describe it well but the feeling was amazing and i sometimes pretend to be a girl myself. It is like a wrong thing but i could say i could not help it. only later on did it get a bit worse. when i moved away to a place where I have no family i lived in an apartment alone. there is a laundry room that everyone uses and after some time of not wearing womens cloths I wanted to do again. so slowly i began stealing one by one girls underwear and then shirt and skirts and got away with it. now that has been over with for long time and I moved again. Sometimes I want to get womens cloth but now its hard because I live in a house and no girls live here so i just dream about it and pretend to make a plan to go out far and steal more. today i had the same urge to wear again, but this time a aunt of mine is coming over for a while so then I think to myself a very good plan to steal some cloth and not get caught or in trouble. this is a problem for me because i dont want to do this and I dont want to wear womens cloth again and this is my family member but I feel like i must do this no matter what because i like it so much that the feeling is really good. I think i will do this when i get the chance. I also worry that when i have a girlfriend that I will steal her cloths too and this is very bad. whats your comment?

[TG-Taru]

It's more understandable when you're very young, but please don't go on stealing or preferably even borrowing without permission. Buy some of your own. Set up a PO box and order online if ordering with home address or shopping in person is too much for you. Nothing wrong with you getting and wearing your own clothes.

[sandra-leigh]

Stealing your clothes is a real downer.

I don't think I caught why it is that you can't buy clothes of your own? Start at a bargin store or a thrift shop if you are on a low budget (sometimes you get really good clothes at thrift shops!)

If the issue is that you don't want to be seen buying for yourself: relax, if the store clerks don't know you, they are unlikely to care.

I went out today to a theater festival in the middle of our downtown, and spent hours looking around the clothing booths, and openly tried on womens' clothes at three of the places -- including spending over an hour in one place alone. People walking by all around.

Who cared? Only the guy who really wanted me to buy something and cut his prices until I couldn't say no. (He even trusted me to take two dresses to a changeroom over 150 yards away and out of his sight -- must have been having a slow day!) Oh yes, an for at least 20 minutes, a GG and I were comparing notes on what we liked about one of the stores; she asked for my opinion on which pieces would be better for her.

Don't steal -- just go and buy for yourself, and act like any other customer, and you will likely be well served.

[sammie]

You are a brave guy for being so honest.I applaud that in anyone! I'm a lifelong crossdresser and i started much the same as you. I wore my older sisters,mothers,buy don't remember shoplifting things until i got into my teens.You didn't say how old u were in your post so i will not make any comment based on age ok.
I can help you avoid getting into any trouble because of your desire to dress.The way to do this is to please stop taking things that you want for wharever reasons you feel this need and replace that act with all the good ideas that you are hearing from all these other folks here.We do not want you in a jail or somewhere else....I for one Love u as i have already said at the begining of this note.You see now how one message that your brain tells you can mean many things to you and the world we live in is filled with all sorts of labels,messages.ideas and so on.We as our birthright to this planet are able to make free choices about how we live our lives.Make a healthy choice and don't steal anymore.That alone will free you to continue to explore your own mind,body,and soul.......Very Truly Yours,Sammie

[sammie]

Dear C, I hope that i can chat with u more about your female side and keep up the good spirit.You are a smart guy to be able to see that your acts of dressing are important to you.Not everyone can be able to confront those types of feelings which are all natural feelings that we all have. Anyway,ty for lettin me make that comment,Sam

[Stephenie S]

Dear Crazy,

Your problem is not crossdressing. There is abolutely nothing wrong with that. Your problem is that you are a thief. Please do not steal other people's clothes. There is no question but that this is wrong. It is imoral and illegal, and will get you into some really deep trouble if you are caught (which you will be, eventually).

Crossdressing is not illegal and is not imoral. Stealing is.

You have your priorities seriously mixed up. Buy your clothes, just like everyone else, and go ahead and crossdress to your hearts content. We will all suport you in that.

Good luck, dear. Get yourself straightened out, please.

Lovies,
Stephenie

[angelfire]

I think a lot of hear started by "borrowing" from family, or even stealing. I didn't, but I know a lot of people started that way.

My advice, as well as probably everyone else's here is simple: Buy your own and stop stealing. I'm not gunna rant about how bad it is, I think we have already established that. Its a big first step to accept yourself as a crossdresser.

Either way, welcome.

[Kitty Sue]

keep coming back, KS.

[trannie T]

Nobody cares if you buy women's clothing. When you buy women's clothing in a store someone may give you a strange look. That will be the worst thing that will happen.
If you want to come out to everybody as a crossdresser get caught stealing somebody's clothes. You may even get your photograph in the newspaper.

[Mitch23]

Congratulations you have taken your first baby steps on a long long journey when you confessed that you are a crossdresser - in public and in a place of safety. Doesn't that feel good? As Rita quotes 'the truth will set you free'. From now on, everything is possible!
love

Mitch

[renee99]

You can buy giant lots of clothes on EBay and go through them at your leisure, donating what doesn't fit or look good to the thrift stores.

There is no excuse for stealing...and you must stop now. One of the reasons CD'ing gets a bad rap is the association with sleazy panty thieves, and with criminals crossdressing as a disguise. You hardly read about crossdressing in the news outside of one of those two contexts.

You admit that you're a CD, now be a good representative!

[traceyanne]

good for you to admit you crossdress,you are harming no one by doing this.
what i will say is go out and buy your own stuff, sales people are only interested in making a sale/money.
if you continue blagging clothes you will be caught sooner or later, then its criminal charges, up in court, then a piece in the local paper which will out you whether you want or not, so i would advise you to buy for your own sake.

traceyanne