Making out!

[yingyang]

Another thread talked about making love with another cd. Could you enjoy making out with another cd, french kissing, caressing, and feeling each other, and then not get hot enough to make love?
:love:
If there is attraction, why not make love?
Mary

[Jennilouise]

What ever light your candel. i am happy with my partner who loves me and my cding

[BarbaraTalbot]

I'm not attracted to men, so although a CD might have a cute look, I can't see even starting up with a CD. If one wants to start, yes, I don't see why the attraction would end. Easy for me to say I suppose since I'm also not allowed make-out sessions with hot GG's either what with the wedding vows and all.

[samantha78]

Its something I am going to try! ya gotta do what makes you happy!!

[DawnRodgers]

I wouldthink that, just like any other physical relationship, that once you start something, you should be ready to finish it.

[valery]

when the right one turns up I think (hope) that I won't care about this little gender-difference.

gender-free - toying with ideas

[Stephenie S]

Can't even think about it. I am in a loving, monagamous, committed relationship with my wife. End of story.

Stephenie

[Raychel]

Only if it was a really hot woman dressed in a guys suit. Then the answer would be absolutely. As for a guy in womens clothes. Definitly not for me. But whatever floats your boat.

[stephanie100]

Someone once said experiance all things in life. so why not. but it may need plenty of:drink:

[phyllis47]

Probably...... I have thought about it but then that would be cheating on my wife... Cannot do that... The thought is erotic..

[Wendy me]

no not never not into guys at all ..... but if it's your thing cool just be safe............................

[Marla S]

Believe it or not: There is a difference between a CD and a GG.

[tanya3]

Someone once said experiance all things in life. so why not. but it may need plenty of:drink:

i have to agree!!!!!!

[Phyliss]

... Could you enjoy making out with another, french kissing, caressing, and feeling each other, and then not get hot enough to make love?
:love:
If there is attraction, why not make love?
Mary

NOT GET HOT ENOUGH? are you nutz . Once started there is usually "NO TURNING BACK"

[Sheila]

Believe it or not: There is a difference between a CD and a GG.

:iagree: with Marla

[Joy Carter]

There is something so magical in being with a GG and being interment. I'm not interested in someone who is that same as me.

[psion128]

No. I never thought of it. And the idea does not float my boat. Though it might for someone else. I do enjoy CDing and making love to a GG. Now that is my thing. But no, I do not picture myself with another CDer(GM). Now if the other CDer is GG, then that works for me. Everyone is entitled to their own preferences. Mine is to stick with GG only.

[Ruth]

I think it's worth saying, just as a reality check, that a lot of us here are heterosexual men. And a lot of us are faithful married men. So the scenario you describe just isn't going to happen.
Just for myself I'll say that fantasies about sexual encounters are not part of my CD world.

[Lilly 40C]

Been there done that and, its great.

[Deborah Jane]

Would love to meet a GG who liked CDers to make love! Other CDers just for friendship

[Karren H]

I'll pass thanks.....

Karren

[SandyR]

Nope, not my thing.


SandyR

[vivianann]

I am not into sex with another man just cant do it. if a very feminine cder were to come along it would be tempting

[SatinDoll00]

That seems to defeat it's own purpose, doesn't it?

Morgan

[Kris]

I hope there are cd'ers out there that want a GG. I am very interested in doing so. :happy:

I am new here, and am trying to learn from what everyone here has to say. I am interested in what everyone's ideas and thoughts are.

Thanks,
Kris GG
:bw: I also am glad we are all so different and can appreciate that in each other.

[Mitzi]

I think it's worth saying, just as a reality check, that a lot of us here are heterosexual men. And a lot of us are faithful married men. So the scenario you describe just isn't going to happen.
Oh yes, it happens... Being "heterosexual" and "faithfully married" doesn't shut off sexual desires, whatever form they may take... If that were the case, heterosexual, faithfully married guys wouldn't crossdress.

Mitzi

[RachelDenise]

I guess it depends on how honest you are with yourself. I am GG oriented, but I can't say that if a very passable TG/TS/CD and I were together I wouldn't give it a go!

[karynspanties]

Yes I could.........

[christina marie]

no thanks. girls only for me. making out with a guy would be kind of... ewwww

[serinalynn]

Being a crossdresser myself and still having my male equipment, I really am not interested in another male organ, so there fore I believe I would rather have a Gender Girl to make love to. :hugs:

Refer to kris GG's post above!!!!

[vivianann]

Hi Kriss GG, I tried to send you an email, but was unable to do that. I am a CDer who is in transition to living as a female, I am not getting SRS though.
I am interested in hearing from a GG who likes feminized males

[Adrienne Heels]

I often fantasize about being with a hot CD or hot guy.....mmmmmmm

[Eva Marie]

If Lilly44B really looked like her avitar I venture there'd be some different opinions. Anyway, welcome to the 21st Century where women dress, drive and cuss like men, and men . . . well, why are we all here? It's not addressing the original question, but I've long held the belief that no matter how macho masculine an individual may (claim to) be, somewhere in the world is the same sex person who can bring him down.

BTW, Lilly, what DO you look like?

[Meredith]

Probably...... I have thought about it but then that would be cheating on my wife... Cannot do that... The thought is erotic..

Yeah, same here. Well said, Phyllis.

[Dixie]

But is it cheating when the wife gives her permission, encourages it, finds the man or the CD for you to make out with??????
my wife wants for me to do this, so it is only a matter of time before I am dressed AND with a man at the same time,.....hmmmm my birthday is comming up.:drink:

[MsJanessa]

well of course---as I have said before, making love to an attractive T-Girl who is equally attracted to you while you are both dressed is the most exquisite pleasure imaginable.

[stacie]

Only into females.

[Chelseaswpa]

I adore other CD's myself. Being able to share our feelings together, the makeup and clothing talk, it is so special to be with another CD/TG for me. I feel a special "kinship" I guess is the best way to explain it.

[rebeca_abigail30]

If it were a FTM cder, I probably could. Kinda like role-playing, and switch the roles, I'm the wife, and she's the husband. Oh, fantasies, fantasies, fantasies.

[teresa jeen]

is it all a dress-up thing, being someone who we emulate? to be closer to that person than society will allow us by "being" that persona? i mean we mostly would like to be the female that we would like to meet. is it just me?

[The Girlfriend]

Reading this thread has been really helpful to me. My boyfriend told me just recently that he cross dresses (or has, or at least likes it). Hearing so many responses here helps me to understand that when he says he only wants me physically he really does mean it. That's a relief. I don't wanna share him!

Thank you. Awesome thread.
:D

[sissydork]

love to one day

[Angie G]

My wife is all i need :hugs:
Angie

[Meredith]

But is it cheating when the wife gives her permission, encourages it, finds the man or the CD for you to make out with??????
my wife wants for me to do this, so it is only a matter of time before I am dressed AND with a man at the same time,.....hmmmm my birthday is comming up.:drink:

Well...women say a lot of things. In the event some things don't work out. My first wife and I shared some fantasies and acting them out was quite pleasurable at the time. In the aftermath, days-weeks later there were some, shall we say, unpleasantries over the event. Lesson learned? Leave fantasies as fantasies.

[tracigirl_tv]

....but my :2c: nonetheless....

I think kissing is such an underrated (by many) erotic activity! Maybe it's because I find lips to be so sexy, I'm always checking them out on people *lol* A woman's lips, and her hips, can give me "jelly knees."

[NewBetty]

But is it cheating when the wife gives her permission, encourages it, finds the man or the CD for you to make out with??????
my wife wants for me to do this, so it is only a matter of time before I am dressed AND with a man at the same time,.....hmmmm my birthday is comming up.

Well...women say a lot of things. In the event some things don't work out. My first wife and I shared some fantasies and acting them out was quite pleasurable at the time. In the aftermath, days-weeks later there were some, shall we say, unpleasantries over the event. Lesson learned? Leave fantasies as fantasies.
Meredeth is making a very good point here.
I've never done this so I can't speak from experiance,
but I do know this:
Things can seem way hotter and emotionally safer
as sex talk. The aftermath of the reality may not be as
simple as you expect. Do what you like (of course!)
but brace yourself for possible unexpected emotional fallout.

[Marla]

I have, I enjoyed it, and no its not possible to stop with just making out, at least for me.

[RobertaFermina]

About not getting hot....

Sensuality is not always about sex.

Getting deeper and deeper into connection with kissing and caressing as the physical tether to complement the soulful emotional one is a complete and very acceptable practice. For me it would include time to move back and see each other as well as time to move in and 'engage.'

The 'orgasm' would be stimulated by emotional expansion and touching, and need not lead to more vigorous sexual activities.


:rose: Roberta :rose:

[Marcie Sexton]

Each to their own...

I can't say I haven't thought about it, but that it as far as it went a fleeting thought...

I have way to much to lose in the love of my life for a one time experiment all in the name of lust...:2c:

[yingyang]

I am so glad that so many even considered commenting on this thread. I know where you are all coming from. (Did I really say that?)
I'm alone. Never gone that way.
But I have this feeling that the next sexy person (GG, CD, TV, SM) that I encounter, had better watch out for me!
Mary:p

[Jamie001]

That is definitely not true!!

Not everyone crossdresses to satisfy sexual urges. I crossdress to relax and be a complete person. There is nothing sexual about it. It is about de-stressing and being myself.


Oh yes, it happens... Being "heterosexual" and "faithfully married" doesn't shut off sexual desires, whatever form they may take... If that were the case, heterosexual, faithfully married guys wouldn't crossdress.

Mitzi

[Dixie]

Ok let me make one thing clear my wife loves that I am with men!!!!! We are going to celebrate my 40th with me being gang ****ed!!!! We have done it before and she loves it she gets soooooo.....let's just say excited, that she is sloppy! I love to make her happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[btmgrl6]

I have no desire to be with a crossdresser.I am totally into masculine men,so A guy in a dress does nothing for me. If it works for you though.....enjoy!

Steph

[cdjoanne]

i have often thought about going all the way with another cder, the thought of it really turns me on. Never done anything like it before and would not know where to start. Would love to meet with somebody and be treated like a lady

[Rhonda480]

Would love to meet a GG who liked CDers to make love! Other CDers just for friendship

I have to agree....but insert wife for GG above.

[Chelseaswpa]

It is indescribable to me, you connect on so many levels as well, from talking about makeup to even sports depending on the situation. It is not so much about sex as it is kindred spirits