Loving" Her"

[sarah378619]

There have been so many discriptions of what we feel.I am glad that I can feel"girly". I love wearing panthose,tights,bras,skirts and have a warm feeling that I love these things. It has taken a long time, but I love" her" and would not want to lose who I am ever. Do you girls feel the same?
sarah

[Sheri 4242]

It took many years to get to this point, but I agree!!! I would never want to lose who and what I am!!! I have a dichotomous personna -- and the femme side is stronger and feels absolutely wonderful!!!

[Hermione Simpson]

the only way i'll lose her is if i change my femme name (although it'll never happen) as it's HERmione lol

[Deborah Jane]

It took a long time and therapy to accept being deborah jane. But now that i have, i want to know her[me],enjoy being her and explore this side to my life. I dont think i,ll ever fight the urge to be "her" again because yes, i suppose i love her!

[KandisTX]

It took too many years of self-denial, and many purges, and rewardrobing to come to terms with who I am, there is no way I would ever choose to give that up now.

Kandis:love:

[bgirl]

Yes! I have reached a point where I can look at myself in the mirror and say "I love you" to my feminine self. Its not about how feminine I look, I dont, but about my feminine side. 'Her' is me. She is not seperate but part of who I am. It took such a long time, my god, years. Most of my life, to be honest.

[reneecroix]

I've grown to love me over the years and it's still exciting every time i slip something on or try something new...

[Mary Morgan]

Yes

[suzanne]

It took me a long time to realize that the femme side was the largest and best part of my personality. For the first thirty years, I worked hard to fit into the male stereotype that society told me went with my genitals. Now that I am somewhat free to be myself, I feel more whole, more complete when I am "her".

[SatinDoll00]

I am not the only one that feels that my femme persona deserves some kind of love.

Morgan is dear to me...and I must admit, a part of me (the Morgan part?) loves her above all else :)

WE are all split down the middle, or somewhere in between. I could never give "her" up...she is me!!

Morgan...(and her other side)

[Annesah]

Yes; I love Her very much! We are so blessed! How few genetic males get to feel and be as we? :love:

[christina marie]

100% yes! what i thought was the worst thing in my life has turned out to be the best!

[Jocelyn Quivers]

Yes, I love "her" with all my heart. I consider myself very lucky to have been born this way. Jocelyn

[sarah378619]

it is cool to see that others love "her" too. I think society is too scared to admit that gender is grey not black and white. I thought when I was little that something was wrong, why did I like dresses and being"girly". I was lucky that I explored " her" after I graduated high school. I let my hair grow(3 1/2 years) ,started wearing panties and bra's 24/7, girls jeans and tops, It was like getting to know myself. Although i have trimmed back a little, i still love"her".
Sarah

[Kristen Marie]

Definitely!! Just last night I had a chance to get all made up while out of town, try on a new outfit and take over a hundred photos. That thought came to mind sooo many times. It took me many years to get this this place and I love it!

[Jodie Wexler]

Right now it's a love hate relationship. Don't know where it's going to end up.
Only time will tell I guess.

[Slip Affinity]

In a word ... YES ... I love this part of me.

[tracigirl_tv]

Like Jodie, it's kind of a mixed bag for me. Sometimes I think how much easier some things would be if I didn't have this femme side of me.

More often though, I'm very glad I'm who I am, and who I've met to help me on the journey. That includes this wonderful forum.

Energy spent wondering "what if?" and wishing "if only" is energy wasted, IMHO.

[alanaundie]

Know exactly what you mean Sarah... The first touch of nylon or satin or lace seems to change my whole persona. I seem to look for any and all opportunities to be alone in the house and get into my wife's undies. An occasional blouse fits, but the rest of her clothes are a struggle, so I mainly use her undies. I did build a bit of a collection of outer clothes buying from ebay, but then got paranoid about discovery and dumped them. What a waste!

[Alice B]

Still learning, but sure.

[Wendy me]

lol over the years i have loved my "HIM" side and fought her off.... loved "HER WENDY" and hated "HIM" ...... lol took a toll on things for sure ....today and for now "HE'S " OK lol but we love her ... what i call playing nice together ....

WENDY will always be my first choose but don't tell "HIM"..............

[Daintre]

With me it has always been a struggle, Him vs Her and for years the Him side was firmly in control. Today it is a reversed position, the Her side is in control and I am not the macho, redneck male always in control. I am now a more easy going person, who is not afraid to take direction from others , maybe more passive, but enjoying life more now that I don't feel I am on stage acting like the "man" I had to portray.

[tealannette]

There have been so many discriptions of what we feel.I am glad that I can feel"girly". I love wearing panthose,tights,bras,skirts and have a warm feeling that I love these things. It has taken a long time, but I love" her" and would not want to lose who I am ever. Do you girls feel the same?
sarah

i totally agree. i love being Tealannette. i feel wonderful when i can just be her.:happy: