Ever damaged a GGs item while 'secretly borrowing'?

[heathr1]

If so, did she find out?

[Sheri 4242]

Nope! Anytime I have ever borrowed something it has been after asking to do so. The few times I have borrowed, never damaged what I borrowed. That said, I usually don't borrow, prefering to buy my own things.

[stellatoo]

Back in the days I was firmly in the closet, to my SO, I managed to pop a button on a skirt I had borrowed. Luckily I've always known how to sew and it was back on within minutes.

The worst though was again way back when and I was putting some stuff away. I kept it in a cupboard where I had stored some paint and didn't notice, in my daydreams of "later", that the paint had spilled over, I had trodden in it then walked the evidence all over the room:thumbsdn:
I got it mostly cleaned up, came up with a cover story and was relatively safe for a while.

Now I don't need to hide stuff:happy:

Stella

[Jillm]

Anything I did barrow from my SO she knew about it. I did tear a skirt and get some stains on a couple of blouses. She wasn’t happy about it.

[Claudia Zylindrias]

i did ruin a bra that i had brrowed from my sister when i was 15. It had fit the summer before...!! lol

[nicole090456]

I once lost one of her ear rings whilst out on a dress n drive many years ago, it never did turn up and I disposed of the other one and hoped she would not notice, she didn't ever miss them as far as I know.

I once "burst a boob" which was a condom full of water, it was all over our bedroom carpet, the cat got blamed for that one, I said she had pee'd on the carpet and that I had to clean it up.

Poor cat has never done any such thing in its life.

Nicole

[JenniferR771]

Wife kept wedding gown for years hanging on the back of the bedroom door. But...she was size 6 when we got married. I am small about size 10. So one one day I was trying it on. Down in the basement. I could not get it zipped all the way of course. But it was so pretty and so thrilling to wear. But the long sheer sleeves were a little tight. I had to push hard to get my hands through the tiny sleeves. The seams ripped a little. I was so pretty.

But then i heard her key in the door upstairs. Panicked. Hurriedly took dress off and stashed it behind a chair. Went upstairs nude. WTF! Told her I had been masturbating--and she didn't want to hear about it. Got dressed. Replaced it next day

[Stephenie S]

This is a good reason for what most of us more experienced here advise.

Unless you have permission, STAY THE HECK OUT OF OTHER PEOPLES CLOTHES!!!

It's imoral, impolite, and gross, considering what happens afterward.

Get your own stuff.

Lovies,
Stephenie

[Nastasha]

This is a good reason for what most of us more experienced here advise.

Unless you have permission, STAY THE HECK OUT OF OTHER PEOPLES CLOTHES!!!

It's imoral, impolite, and gross, considering what happens afterward.

Get your own stuff.

Lovies,
Stephenie

Yes ... but everyone starts somewhere and most of us started out by borrowing things from others.

We've all done it so don't be so hard on people.

[Alex!]

I have a very good horror story here. When I was 13 or 14 I was dressing with my mom's stuff (today I find that icky, but we crossdressers had to find an outlet and I did not have sisters). Anyway, I was wearing her real pearls when, upon taking them off, I ripped the string and all the pearls went flying. Today, I laugh about it, but imagine my dread. In a fit of inginuity, I calmed down and rebuilt the string of pearls (not as easy as one might think because the pearls were different sizes (the biggest up front, smallest in back). Anyway, she never found out, but I can tell you I stopped dressing for a long time after that.

[Hippy Chic]

Once.:o.

I was dating a girl, & she left a black satin bustier with embroidery on it behind. It was gorgeous & I couldn't resist. There was less give in it than I'd thought & it was slightly too small. I snapped one of the straps. Fortunately I had a needle & thread handy & very quickly was good as new.

She never knew.

[trannie T]

I'm glad that I only wore a few thing a few times before I got my own things. I would have been soooo embarrassed.

[JuliaCD]

When I was very young and just starting to try on some of my mother's things, I ripped a pair of her pantyhose while putting them on. At first I was horrified, then I realized she had about 60 pairs in her drawer and would never miss them. I kept them and wore them many times under my jeans, rip and all.

[Dragster]

First time I put on my mother's hook-side OBG and stockings, I was so excited that I was trembling. It was so tight over my p*n*s, that just walking about triggered my first (accidental) orgasm. Boy did I have a clean up job; as far as I know, it was successful!

Tony

[Jenny Wilson]

As my wife was putting on a white lace bodystocking one day, she thought it was stretched out so she accused me of wearing it. I was in the closet at the time (still am) and I denied wearing it. In fact, I hadn't worn it! I had one of my own to wear, so I didn't need her's. :happy: If she had ever known about my bodystocking.... Fireworks would have erupted!

Jenny

[Jeannie]

Long before anyone knew I was CDing my second wife (who was very not understanding about almost everthing especially anything sexual), had a very pretty peach colored blouse and I was dying to try it on. Well I got it a little soiled (with dirt stay with me here) so I put it in the washer and the washing machine ate it. It got tangled around the agitator and ripped apart. Since she hadn't wore it in a while she wanted to know why I was washing it, I gave some lame answer and I really don't think she bought it but man I was embarrased. It was very hard to keep a straight face. That was my experience and I still feel guilty a little about the whole thing.

Jeannie

[cdmay]

i just put the back and she thought she did it

[whitney]

When I was about 14 I accidentally put my finger through a pair of pantyhose I was borrowing.
I felt so bad that I immediately went out and bought a replacement pair.
At that moment I realized that these people didn't care what I was buying, and only I knew what it was for.
I've been buying my own things ever since.
Well, except for the items that my wife puts on me from time to time. She occasionally dresses me up in things she likes.
Fortunately we're the same size.
It's odd to hear, "God, that looks better on you than it does me. You keep it..."

[rebeca_abigail30]

This is a good reason for what most of us more experienced here advise.

Unless you have permission, STAY THE HECK OUT OF OTHER PEOPLES CLOTHES!!!

It's imoral, impolite, and gross, considering what happens afterward.

Get your own stuff.

Lovies,
Stephenie


A good piece of advice would be more along the lines of "if you can afford, i.e. have a job, then buy it yourself. If you can't afford it, then you can wear it, as long as you wash it after your done."

[angelfire]

never borrowed stuff, so I obviously never ruined any.

[Stephenie S]

A good piece of advice would be more along the lines of "if you can afford, i.e. have a job, then buy it yourself. If you can't afford it, then you can wear it, as long as you wash it after your done."

I don't agree. Just being poor does not give you license to take what doesn't belong to you. Anyone can earn money. It doesn't take much. So save up for a while. You can buy a bra at Wally-World for $10. You can buy pantyhose at the drug store for a few dollars. You can buy a whole outfit at the second hand shop for under $20. This isn't high finance.

Taking someone else's clothes and having a sexual experience in them (face up to it, this is what usually happens in the beginning) is just plain gross. If that person knew, they would probably never wear that garment again.

I am well aware that this is a common way for most of us to start. That does not make it right, however.

Pay attention please, I am trying to teach something here.

DON'T DO IT!

Lovies,
Auntie Stephenie

[Sally2005]

It takes a lot of will power not to nibble at someone's chocolate easter bunny that is sitting in front of you when you see how good it looks when they are eating it. So I don't believe anyone who says they didn't borrow anything at all...ever. I borrowed, had a few close calls/repairs to make over the years, but thought about how I would feel if someone borowed my stuff, I felt bad and haven't done it since. Besides, it would be 1000x worse getting caught wearing -her- stuff if you are still in the closet. It is not the right thing to do...I don't recommend it...go to value village and buy your own.

[Stephenie S]

It takes a lot of will power not to nibble at someone's chocolate easter bunny that is sitting in front of you when you see how good it looks when they are eating it. So I don't believe anyone who says they didn't borrow anything at all...ever. I borrowed, had a few close calls/repairs to make over the years, but thought about how I would feel if someone borowed my stuff, I felt bad and haven't done it since. Besides, it would be 1000x worse getting caught wearing -her- stuff if you are still in the closet. It is not the right thing to do...I don't recommend it...go to value village and buy your own.

Nicely put, Sally.

Steph

[varinia]

As a kid I did get caught by my sisters and was suprised that the sister I was closest too didn't go off and tell my parents instead, I just made it that I was just wondering what it was like to wear them. Being that I have 3 sisters and I am an only son this was not so hard for her to believe.
Then again later as my oldest sister had gone to her Prom back in the 70's I tried on all the stuff she wore. OMG, it was fantastic, bodybriefer and Nylons and then slip with Chiffon Gown over that. Well I did it a couple of times and needlesss to say as I was still growing up opps....RRRRRIIIIPPPP! The zipper on one side gave out and I was asked about it. I lied and said I had nothing to do with it, but they knew better. My dad at one point threaten to dress me in girl's clothes and put out for all to see. If he only knew....lol. Well, I played it out as sorry dad, I won't do it ever again....right!
Well I a few years ago came out to a lady friend of mine whom was not always just a lady friend if you know what I mean. I kinda had to as one day she discovered my things. I was supprised at how accepting she was and for a time even helped me get things. But later she went her own way so it left me to fend for myself and since then with information I have found on the web started getting myself and can fully understand now why you should ask and if the answer is no....stay out. I wouldn't like it if someone got into my things. Guess I had to grow up before I understood how personal garments are. Dress, ok, Pants ok, Blouse ok, Bra Not ok, Panties Not Ok. And what ever you do please wash it before you return it. And if you *****'d in it...I don't ever want it back. I believe thats just a matter of repect.

[jessbcuzz]

I had gotten into my ex's makeup. I broke it at the hindge. She knew I dressed (oh, how she hated it), so the crap hit the fan. No, wait that time the fan hit the crap.

[TxKimberly]

If so, did she find out?

When I was about 14 I started to outgrow my mothers things but refused to admit it. She had a long white dress, with the waist made of lace. Well, I tore the lace trying to fit my (at the time) size 10 but into a size 8 dress.
Nothing came of it. 20 years later when I told my mother, I told her she was welcome to buy any dress she liked for my nieces wedding and that I would be more than pleased to pay for it. "After all Mom, I owe you one or two!"

[Janetmarie]

Nicole:

I was on your homepage and you are FABULOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[LisaDelNorte]

when I was 15, I had discovered my older sister's stretchy capris with back zipper. I loved wearing them whenever I was home alone. One day the metal zipper ripped away from the fabric and it was a mess. I figured that since I had not seen her wearing them since she had graduated from high school that she would not miss them if I were to dispose of them. That is what I did. I felt terrible. Almost two years went by and one day I heard her asking mom if she knew where her capris were and mom could not remember seeing them for a long time and suggested maybe they had been given to the Good Will.

[jozee]

couldn't get my moms bra unhooked.ripped it where the hooks are attached.put it back in her drawer. nothing was said.

[Rachell]

YES, many times that is how my GG figured out I was dressing. Then she wanted to see me and all has been fine since. Better then fine i am getting married 26 days to this lovley lady.:love::love::love::love::love:
Rachell

[KandisTX]

This was always one of my biggest fears as I started getting bigger in the chest then mom or sisters. It was this realization that made me come out to mom at the tender age of 16, then she took me shopping for my own stuff, in MY size.

Kandis:love:

[tammie]

I have been caught many times. First about wearing my older sister's things. I was asked why I was wearing my sister's bra and pantiegirdles. I denied it but was made to promise not to do it again. (Telltale stains in the wrong places)

Several weeks later I was desperate to dress up in a bra and panties so I rationalized I hadn't promised not to wear my mom's. Although the bra cups were way big.

To eternal delight I discovered garterbelts/stockings. Then shortly after slips with lace bodices.

The next time I was talked to by my mom was when she came into my bedroom sat on the bed and asked if I knew where her
garterbelt and slip were? She figured out right away I was wearing her slip and bra and pantiegirdle and garterbelt/stockings.

So she made me get out of bed and strip. She saw my erection and she knew that it was definately a sexual behavior for me.

My mom's friend advised her to buy me my own lingerie and forget about it. I came home from school one day shortly after to find a shopping bag on my bed with my own first bra LLPG and slip all in black and the bra was my sister's size and fit me like I was measured for it.

Mom even had me strip and try things on for her to see if they fit before she cut the tags. So I realized CDing is something not many men do (or talked about it in the 60s) but my mother accepted me doing it. Thats what mother's do if they love their chilren and want to help them. I was very lucky!

[tracie674]

I've been "borrowing" from women for 40+ years. The women have been friends, neighbors, coworkers and strangers. I've tried on clothes in stores with and without asking and often have my way with them. In that time I've accidentely ripped, torn, "soiled" and who knows what more items than I can count. I've been found out only once that I'm aware of. It's a long story that I'll not go into now, maybe someother time. As for the morality of wearing someones things without their knowelge or permission, yes its wrong but oh so stimulating. Yes I can aford to buy my own things and do have an extensive femme wordrobe, but still find wearing someone elses things a turn on.

[Melissa73]

i must admit, as a young boy i too borrowed my sisters clothes. And i ruined many items: a short set, a homemade graduation dress to name a few. I was never good at sizing. Now, in retrospect i agree that borrowing clothes without asking is wrong, but in my youth, it was my only option and those clothes were sooooooo tempting.

But mind you, later (just a year ago) i was put on the other side of this issue. I had made a deal w/ my employer to live in a room at the motel i worked. But when i was out, one of our housekeepers had wandered into my room and found my "clothe." She actually stole 2 of my new bras. I knew cuz she actually admitted to me......So, there i was, unable to do anything or others would know my "secret." And i really didnt want them back...since she wore them. But i n that time, i started thinking, about hpw my sister had felt when i was young. I suppose i got what i deserved.

[Cindi Ann Kelly]

I don't know if it is just a few of us, or that most of us have done this, but it is really wrong! Yes, it can be much more exiting to do this but it is still wrong, especially if the article of clothing is ruined. Keep a few dress sizes between you and the GG and it won't be a problem anymore.
Just my thoughts.

Cindi