DAVIDA
08-13-2007, 06:25 AM
Jean and I have a very good friend that lived next door for 10 years. He still comes by often and that makes for some quick change events. Well, the other day he called and said that he was going to stop by. I said OK, but to be prepared for a shock! I was dressed and decided that I was not going to change. I mean, if he is as good of a friend as we think, why not?
Well Jean came home from work and I said that he was coming over. She just said that I could do what I thought was right.
When he got here, he came in, and I don't think that he paid much attention to me at first. He said that he was thinking that Jean and I were splitting up.??? When he saw me, he just said that he didn't care and gave me some T-shirts. (He is a liquer and beer salesman and I get a lot of shirts)
He talked mainly to Jean, saying something about being sick and only went to the store for meds and to drop off the shirts and this time some hats.
Well, he left soon after he got here, which is rare. I was just a little uncomfortable with the amount of time he was here. Jean says that he told her that he was feeling worse at the store. She thinks that he really doesn't have a problem with anything. She called him after he left to ask about things, and again he said he did not care.
Well, the problem that I am having now is, did I dump on him too much at one time? Was I insensitive to him? Jean said that she thinks that we should have talked with him before hitting him with the full picture.
I can't take back what I did and I am afraid that I may have done the wrong thing.
OK, I know that I am asking for it, but I am interested to hear what all of you think!
Well Jean came home from work and I said that he was coming over. She just said that I could do what I thought was right.
When he got here, he came in, and I don't think that he paid much attention to me at first. He said that he was thinking that Jean and I were splitting up.??? When he saw me, he just said that he didn't care and gave me some T-shirts. (He is a liquer and beer salesman and I get a lot of shirts)
He talked mainly to Jean, saying something about being sick and only went to the store for meds and to drop off the shirts and this time some hats.
Well, he left soon after he got here, which is rare. I was just a little uncomfortable with the amount of time he was here. Jean says that he told her that he was feeling worse at the store. She thinks that he really doesn't have a problem with anything. She called him after he left to ask about things, and again he said he did not care.
Well, the problem that I am having now is, did I dump on him too much at one time? Was I insensitive to him? Jean said that she thinks that we should have talked with him before hitting him with the full picture.
I can't take back what I did and I am afraid that I may have done the wrong thing.
OK, I know that I am asking for it, but I am interested to hear what all of you think!