is there love

[JOEY88]

i like women and men but I'm way more attracted to women , what i want to know is it possible to find love as a crossdresser or potential transgender

[Holly]

I'm a cross dresser and I'm very in love with my wife. Fortunately, she feels the same way about me. :<3: My answer to your question is yes.

[racquel]

Yes,it is possible.I was up front with my s/o before we were too involved and we have been together twenty-three years now and more in love every day.:hugs:

[Jennilouise]

yes it is possible to find love as a crossdresser. i told my partner of my crossdressing 2 months after we started seeing each other and she loves both sides of me (if you know what i mean) and i love her too :<3:

[Jennaie]

I'm a cross dresser and I'm very in love with my wife. Fortunately, the feels the same way about me. :<3: My answer to your question is yes.

What? Are you linguistically deprived?

[Holly]

What? Are you linguistically deprived?No, just not a particularly good typist.:p

[sissystephanie]

i like women and men but I'm way more attracted to women , what i want to know is it possible to find love as a crossdresser or potential transgender

Having lived a very happy 49 1/2 years with my late wife, I can answer with a very definite YES! I told her before we were married, she accepted it and our life was very good. I became not only her husband, lover, best friend, but also her best "girl" friend!!

Sissy

More Girl than man sometimes
A man for my GGF, a girl otherwise

[Jenn2716]

I would have to put my vote in the yes column as well. I found the love of my life almost 12 years ago and within our first year together I told her about my femme side. We've been together ever since (married for 8). Now it hasn't always been easy and there are times when we don't see eye to eye on everything from groceries to vacations to crossdressing. But through it all the love has been there first and foremost. With open, honest communication we have found that we can overcome anything and support each other through the best and worst life has to offer.

Keep a positive attitude and in time you will hopefully find the love you are looking for.

:love:

[SandyR]

Big yes! Love my wife and she loves and accepts me.

Hugs.

SandyR

[JOEY88]

thanks hope i can find someone as excepting as allot of you have

[shauna 9]

Yes I have been with my lovely wife for 21 years now . She has supportive me of my crossdressing. She has scheduled total makeovers appointments for me. She has gone shopping for lingerie and make up for me. One year for Christmas she bought me my double D breast forms for Christmas. There is some moments in our life where she hated me for dressing but deep down inside she loves me to dress for her. I love my wife from this I wouldn't trade her in for anything!:

[JeanneF]

Yes, no question. I have been involved with my girlfriend now for 9 months...she knew from the very beginning about me being TS, and it's a non-issue.

[Sandra]

Well we will have been married 20 yrs next wednesday so my answeris yes.

[Veronica Fallon]

Most definitely yes!
In the past 13 years I've had 3 GF's that were cool with it:

1st) She opened the door to my totally repressed (unknown) femininity by talking me into dressing for her enjoyment. (I was hooked!!)

2nd) She had no problem whatsoever with it & helped me with certain aspects of it, but didn't get anything out of it for herself.

3rd) She (current GF) also asked me early in our relationship if I'd ever consider dressing for her benefit & she actually gets grumpy if I don't dress for more than a couple days in a row! (she's a dream come true!)

In that 13 years I also had 2 other GF'S. One was reluctantly accepting & the other didn't last long enough for me to share it with. None of the break-ups had anything to do with my dressing. So that's 3 out of 5 for me (but I am much luckier than most in ths regard!). Do the math sweetie & always keep your hopes alive!! :thumbsup:

Hugz,

Veronica

P.S.- It doesn't hurt to wear your lucky bra either!! :rofl:

[dakota_ann69]

The answer as you can see is yes, although my SO does not like to see me as Dakota she supports it. What do I mean by that Dakota can come out and play when she is not home, luckily that is everyday when the kids go to school and she is at work. You may not call that supportive, but I do.

As long as you are upfront you can find love, and unfortunately on the other hand alot of rejection. Just know who you are and be proud of that and I think that love will find you.

[Hermione Simpson]

even though i'm single, i believe theirs a person out their for everyone, so the answer to your question is yes

[Jillm]

In one word, YES!

[Angie G]

Yes I've had a loving wife for 39 years she has known for just over 2 years that I dress :hugs:
Angie

[KandisTX]

Love is definitely possible to find for us CDers. GlitterGG and I have been married, quite happily, for 5 and a half years now. She has known about Kandis since we met 12+ years ago and it has never been an issue or a problem for us.

Kandis:love:

[SirTrey]

i like women and men but I'm way more attracted to women , what i want to know is it possible to find love as a crossdresser or potential transgender


The answer to that is most definitely YES....When I first met My S/O (now My wife), we met in the context of a Dominant and submissive....I got her (She is MtF) to bring her naturally feminine side out more and more before laying it on her that I am and have always been FtM....Because we put the time in first, and because by the time I came out to her, I already had the relationship floating that way, it just wasn't established as such (if you know what I mean), our relationship transition to Husband/wife was pretty natural....There are genetic women out there who are attracted to genetic men who have a very defined feminine sense of self....For us, it wasn't hard....Before she actually understood My inate maleness at a conscious level, she was attracted to it without realizing it.....because it brought out HER femininity in an easy and natural way....Even before THIS was established, she was the domestic one, I was the decision maker/disciplinarian, etc. I could not be HAPPIER with MY lady, she is beautiful and the joy of My life.... we have chemistry that is second to NONE....and a very happy family.....So, you certainly CAN find love....and I wish you well in doing so! **T**

[TxKimberly]

Joey,

What an awesome and thoughtful question!
Yes, there is love. In about a month, my wife and I will have been married for 20 years. Of course just being married doesn't necesarily mean being loved, so I'll cover that too! We have been happily married for these 20 years. She is my best friend, she is my lover, she is the mother of my children - she is every thing good about me and my life. We often joke that apart we are two broken and screwed up people, but that somehow we combine to make one functional human being.

There are several other couples I am aware of here on this forum that are happily married, some of them even longer than I have been. Holly (http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/member.php?u=5497)is a fine example.
Carin (http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/member.php?u=41090) and her wonderful wife (http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/member.php?u=41037) are another that I know of. Even some of the moderators here, though I think most of 'em are too young to have 20 years of marriage just yet! lol

My recomendation is that when you think you have the right girl, you be honest with her up front - BEFORE you are married. It's unfair to both of you in the extreme to spring this on her AFTER you are married. It's unfair to her for obvious reasons that I'm sure I don't have to spell out. It's unfair to you because it may be so much harder after you are married if you find that she can not accept it, and therefore may not accept you.

"Is there love?" What a TERRIFIC and heart warming question - I'm glad your here!

i like women and men but I'm way more attracted to women , what i want to know is it possible to find love as a crossdresser or potential transgender