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Phyliss

09-10-2007, 03:30 AM

I've had the opportuntiy to "play dressup" a number of times. Not going into too much "detail" (except for one recent time, in a minute). I found that for the first two or three times I was rather nervous about the whole thing. I mean, I was still thinking of myself as a "guy" and here I am putting on a dress, in front of another "guy" who also was wearing a dress. Fortunately they understood my feelings and made me quite comfortable.
One thing still remains as the "tipping point" to getting comfortable dressing up with another CD. As "she" was putting on "her" bra, "she" turned around and asked me to hook it up. I was amazed at how "natural" that felt for me. Just one of those little things that stand out in my mind.
Oh about that "recent time" .... Two weeks ago I had the wonderful chance to meet with Ms.Janessa, and spend the afternoon with her. I must say it was an interesting time. I thought I knew quite a bit but, I learned many new things from her. Exploring some rather deep and penetrating subjects.

Angie G

09-10-2007, 04:31 AM

Sound like fun but I never have and don't think it will happen :hugs:
Angie

09-10-2007, 04:53 AM

I've had the opportuntiy to "play dressup" a number of times. Not going into too much "detail" (except for one recent time, in a minute). I found that for the first two or three times I was rather nervous about the whole thing. I mean,
I was still thinking of myself as a "guy" and here I am putting on a dress, in front of another "guy" who also was wearing a dress. Fortunately they understood my feelings and made me quite comfortable. One thing still remains as the "tipping point" to getting comfortable dressing up with another CD. As "she" was putting on "her" bra, "she" turned around and asked me to hook it up. I was amazed at how "natural" that felt for me. Just one of those little things that stand out in my mind.
Oh about that "recent time" .... Two weeks ago I had the wonderful chance to meet with Ms.Janessa, and spend the afternoon with her. I must say it was an interesting time. I thought I knew quite a bit but, I learned many new things from her. Exploring some rather deep and penetrating subjects.

i found it weird like OK here we are guys dressing up in pantyhose skirts bra top then makeup and the wig and then the who is walking out the door first hope no one sees me lol , it took some time to get my head around this dress up thing now days it's just normal

Mitch23

09-10-2007, 10:37 AM

I found it a bit uncomfortable at first - like in my recent pics, got dressed with 'granny' amber and suzi before going out for a meal. soon got used to it though and helping each other like girls do!

Mitch

Sonia Kiss

09-10-2007, 11:15 AM

I didn't anticipate the powerful effect of trying on each other's clothes.

See, each of us chooses clothes for ourselves that, in our minds anyway, transform us into an attractive woman. Consciously or instinctively, we pick clothes that we find particularly attractive. Further, after wearing them we mentally associate these clothes that we own with transformation and attractiveness. (We do find ourselves attractive, right?)

If I play dress up with a friend and put my clothes on her, the effect is that I transform her in this way that I find especialy attractive to me. Like, wow.

I've seen this happen both ways. I've watched my friends suddenly get very attracted to me when I've tried on their clothes, and I've felt the attraction when I've let them try on mine.

Sonia

Melinda G

09-10-2007, 11:27 AM

Never gonna happen. I could never get it out of my mind, that I was playing with a guy, no matter what he was wearing.

PaulaJaneThomas

09-10-2007, 12:05 PM

Whatever floats you boat. Just remember to use water-based lubricants as any other type can cause the condom to split.

Cara Allen

09-10-2007, 12:19 PM

If you like this experience, I highly recommend a trnasgender group! Not only can you swap tips, chat, etc., but you can then go out and do things in the safety of numbers.

Nothing sexual about it when there are 20 other girls, all chatting and happy...

Being dressed and playing dress-up with another tv is very fullfilling. Exploring and playing. Tell me about yours.

Love Barbara

Deborah Jane

09-10-2007, 12:43 PM

Never done it! But i wouldn,t rule it out if it was just for a laugh!! [Nothing intimate]

sybercom11

09-10-2007, 01:39 PM

haven't played dress-up since junior and senior high school. i had a friend i would dress up with in his attic, which was actually an apartment, after school and on saturday mornings.

we would get into his mother's garter belts and stockings. and also i would bring items that belonged to my two older sisters.

we had many hours of fun dressing up.

PS. sorry about the previous slipup, Sandra

LizBeth

09-10-2007, 01:41 PM

Hello another CD and I spent the whole day dressing and doing each others makeup and swapping cloths and wigs and having lunch and some wine and it was wonderful, so comfortable and sexy, we do it as often as we can now about twice a month or more and the sex is just wonderful , I did it with a GG and it was not as good as with another CD , ok thanks Beth

Suzannecd

09-10-2007, 02:18 PM

I have never had the opportunity do dress up with another Cd. I think it would very exciting being girls together. It would be so nice to have a girlfriend and I am hoping to have this experience someday soon.

Suzanne

09-10-2007, 02:29 PM

Whatever floats you boat. Just remember to use water-based lubricants as any other type can cause the condom to split.

why would you think that !!!!!... dressing up as nothing to do with sex :rolleyes: well for me anyway

janet1234

09-10-2007, 03:02 PM

I agree with you Melinda, as cute as some of you are, I must remember you are guys, and I, unrepentant I, am a horny heterosexual who happens to XD.

PaulaJaneThomas

09-10-2007, 04:12 PM

why would you think that !!!!!... dressing up as nothing to do with sex :rolleyes: well for me anyway

The phrase "playing dress-up with another tv".

My Lady Marsea

09-10-2007, 04:23 PM

Hasn't happened as I know no others. If I could find a T Girl here local though I would sure like to do girl shopping, movies and lunches and little day trips to somewhere.

Billiemarie

09-10-2007, 04:33 PM

I did have an afternoon tea party with one gal. Well actually it was coffee and pastrys and then we had a little photo shoot session. Had a lot of fun.
Billiemarie

Peggy55

09-12-2007, 12:25 PM

Never gonna happen. I could never get it out of my mind, that I was playing with a guy, no matter what he was wearing.

Well don't forget we are all a bunch of.................................

(I'll whisper it)......

guys in here! We shave, change oil, watch football and probably spit! LOL You sure can loose sight of that though huh? It's all good!

meg_dc_00

09-12-2007, 06:28 PM

For me, I can only imagine feeling even more feminine being with other tgirls.. There are no awkward questions and things....

Kim_Bitzflick

09-12-2007, 10:08 PM

I haven't played dress up, but I do want to spend time with someone who understands me. I do not want sex, just a friend.

Maybe some day.

Stephenie S

09-12-2007, 10:15 PM

Well, I just LOVE being with other people, girls and guys both. But I can get dressed by myself, alone, in my bedroom, with no help from anyone, thank you very much. Once dressed, however, I do enjoy the company of others. :D

Lovies,
Stephenie

Roxi Loh

09-12-2007, 10:21 PM

Great thread...good discussion ladies. I have done it once...can't wait for the encore.

monikkkka

09-13-2007, 01:42 AM

I can't wait for my first :happy:

very few of us out there (comparitively) to meet! and Im not into the drag scene...just looking for someone who was like me - wanted to try it for the first time.

sigh!

JoanFlores

09-13-2007, 11:16 AM

I have my girlfriend who enjojes dressing up with me, we take pics of each other so we can work on our makeup, smiles ect. I also have a friend CD who I get to see some times, so we dress up, talk, have something to drink and agian take some pics, It is nice to have someone with who to be with, the bad side of it is it happens so far apart.

june58

09-13-2007, 04:53 PM

Have done it once and it was a nervous time and a bit uncomfortable. However it was kind of nice to be dressed with another cd. The conversation covered a lot of areas both feminine and masculine. Never forgot the other person was a male though. Would be nice to just have a girl friend to get together with occassionally for non-sexual fun, girl talk and picture taking.

julianna1984

09-29-2007, 08:38 PM

never experieced it want to though

Xandra

09-29-2007, 09:08 PM

For me, dressing with another CD would be an important expression of both self-acceptance and self-discovery; that said, I have never done so but cannot deny having thought about it on more than one occasion!

At this juncture, it will remain a fantasy, but one should never say never...

Great question. Will you tell us about your own experience(s)?

Love,

Alex

SabrinaDubh

09-29-2007, 10:32 PM

I have "played dress up" with other CD's many times. Both platonic and otherwise. It's alot of fun sharing clothes and talking about trans things with somone who can really understand what I am talking about. Taking each others photos and gossiping about friends and other T-girls on the local scene.

Playing with another T-girl in a romantic manner is also something I very much enjoy. Of course this is something that varies from person to person. Many of you are not attracted to men, in drag or otherwise. For me I don't find men as men attractive but other t-girls just ignite my fire somethin fierce! Wierd, huh?

Now that I am married to a wonderful woman all of that is just fond memories.

natasha

09-29-2007, 10:51 PM

Someday somewhere sometime

andreaattimes

09-29-2007, 10:52 PM

It would have to be somebody I knew well and was comfortable with.

sterling12

09-30-2007, 12:23 AM

Being dressed and playing dress-up with another tv is very fullfilling. Exploring and playing. Tell me about yours.

Love Barbara

I play "dress-up," with dozens of Gurl's at least 3 or 4 times a month. Of course, it's in the context of my Tri-Ess Groups. We don't seem to have any of those "penetrating experiences," that some others have written about.

Since I'm a little foggy on this type of knowledge, I will have to ask some of the others, or their wives what this means?

Actually, we often share dressing rooms. It doesn't seem to have "that context," in those situations. Perhaps we are more interested in getting ready for Social Hour and The Pot Luck to follow.

Peace and Love, Joanie

Daintre

09-30-2007, 12:38 AM

Yes I have been with another and it was a great experience...well for me it was, dressing with another CD can be an enlightening experience. The girl I was with turned out to really affect how I felt about dressing.

Kate Simmons

09-30-2007, 12:48 AM

Never played "dress up" per se. I have,however, offered my home to my friends as a sort of "halfway house" to get changed if they do not have that option otherwise. That is about the extent of it though and they usually have a private room to change in. Never had the experience of sharing one another's clothes as they usually bring their own even though I have shown my wardrobe and things.:happy:

Mitch23

09-30-2007, 03:44 AM

I've got a halfway house now thanks to 'granny' amber and there are about 6 of us who meet and get dressed to go out and have girlie times together. I found it hard to get used to because its a girl thing not a guy thing and you have to see it outside of any sexual overtones but we're wandering round in our undies now, trying on things, helping each other to look good, accessorizing together, being constructively critical of how we look and helping each other when we are out in the world. I find it cool to be the elder sister and encouraging those who are less confident about going out than I am

mitch

Chloe Jean

09-30-2007, 03:51 AM

I love to play dress up with another girl- do each others makeup, go shopping together, nightclubing, chat. To have the friendship and support of another girl would be wonderful.
Chloe Jean

MsJanessa

09-30-2007, 11:28 AM

I love to meet other T-Girls---always a good time

Adele

09-30-2007, 11:57 AM

Chelseaswpa

09-30-2007, 07:01 PM

I have a dear friend who comes over for fun quite often. I wouldn't trade that time for anything, we have so much in common and have went out once, but am looking forward to doing that again.

Jonnie B

09-30-2007, 07:15 PM

I have to join the "Not in a million years " group.

Denise Anne

09-30-2007, 07:25 PM

I have met with several other T-girls so far and I must say that I throughly enjoyed each time. We went out on the town and had a very nice evening chatting and exchanging ideas and suggestions. I even went shopping with a friend from Chicago. That was a first for me and it was so nice to have someone with me who has done it beofre and lended me so much support. I couldn't have done it with her. We are great friends to this day and can not wait to go out again.

Denise Anne

AmandaM

09-30-2007, 10:39 PM

I haven't done that. Only with GG's. As far as "attraction" goes, I can be attracted to CDers that look like women, but haven't experienced that. Since I'm married, I don't plan too. But, I will admit the attraction exists. Who knows? If the wifey ever kicks me out. LOL.

dave46

10-01-2007, 12:23 AM

Would be fun...I am bisexual, but do not look for M2M encounters since I have an accepting female partner now. But I might like meeting another CD for physical encounters. :o

Rosaliy Lynne

10-01-2007, 02:55 AM

I would like to go to a local group meet, but haven't quite got there yet. I think my wife might "accept" that. If I went to meet one person I think my wife would suspect something was up and I don't want to risk our marriage. As much as I enjoy my cross dressing my wife isn't keen and my wife and family are the most important even if my feelings are to come out at some stage.

I know where you are at Adele. You might look into a local Tri-Ess group. The link in my signature goes to my web site and I have links there for Tri-Ess, both for the national organization and my own local group.

Christen3042

10-01-2007, 08:28 AM

Playing with another T-girl in a romantic manner is also something I very much enjoy. Of course this is something that varies from person to person. Many of you are not attracted to men, in drag or otherwise. For me I don't find men as men attractive but other t-girls just ignite my fire somethin fierce! Wierd, huh?IMHO, it's not weird at all. I'm a bisexual CD who isn't interested in 'guys' at all, but other CDs? Wow! Most of the CDs I've met personally feel the same way.

Dixie

10-01-2007, 10:03 AM

I haven't dressed with another CD so I do not know, But it sounds like fun!!

Michelle_NY

10-01-2007, 12:20 PM

yes I have a few times meet sisters here in NY. It was the dream of a lifetime to dress together and just be gf's.we went out shopping and chatted away like 2 girls on a date. The second time we tryed a little playing around, and I must say I think its better than straight sex as far as I am concerned. I am still deeply in closet but my femme feelings go on overdrive when dressed. Sorry if I offended anyone out here. I will respomd to anyone who writes me XO Michelle, [email protected]