From secrecy to exposure

[helenr]

I wonder if others in our 'community' find that after so many years of hiding our transvestism-over 50 for me- that at some point each feels the need to expose oneself and trying to make some visible statement? In my case,my new little titties are pretty hard to hide in a T shirt-they just don't look like what a male has on his chest-too 'pointy' due to the nipple development. I truly don't seek this aspect of estrogen and anti androgens, but maybe subconsciously I do want to make a point (or two--bad pun) about where I am in life's continuum? Like after forcing oneself to closet only existence to coming out in some manner like this. How about others? hugs, helen

[AmberTG]

Well, Helen, I'm working myself out of the closet a bit at a time as I move along in my transition, slow though it might be. I'm not going to hide anything as it develops. I think it's easier for people who know you to see you change little by little as time goes along rather then all of a sudden. There's no shock with the gradual method. I don't really change faster then my electrolysis is going, although, I sure would like to speed that up!