Went out last night

[gretchenD]

Last night I went out with my girlfriend Nikki as my femme and it went great.My girlfriend Nikki celebrated our 6 month anniversary.It was hard telling her at first and I did tell her on our first date 6 monthes ago.I could not believe my eyes,she told me that she still loves me and became supportive right away and still is.My girlfriend considers my femme side as one of her best friends and helps me out once in a while.I have went through 3 bad relationships,my ex girlfriend Sandy told me to quit my crossdressing or the relationship is over and this was 8 monthes ago.We ended up breaking up.The other two ex girlfriends hated my crossdressing and left me.I have been lucky finally having my supportive girlfriend Nikki in my life and my adoptive parents do like her.She is very nice and treats my family with respect.

[Karren H]

Ata-girl, Gretchen... Your one lucky woman!!!!

Karren

[susie evans]

gald you can enjoy your passion with some one you ador and are excepted buy, life is good :hugs:

susie

[veronicagurl85]

Your a lucky girl. That's great that you have a supportive gf hope it goes very well from now on. I had a similar case with the ex gf she lied to me and said she was ok with it but then like 2 months later she said I was gross and disgusting. So anyways great find. Hang on to her

Vero

[gretchenD]

I am going to hang on to her and hopefully marry her one day.We love each other and have been getting to know each other,we are taking it slow.We even gave gifts,I recieved a pair of hoop earrings from her and I like them.I gave her a ring and she loves it.I do have an engagement ring hidden in my dresser,that is going to wait and we are not rushing our relationship.

[Karan]

Sounds like a great person. Treat her as such. Don't get to wrapped up in the crossdressing that you forget her. Little favors and act of thoughtfullness ( is that even a word?) add up.

Karan

[BarbaraTalbot]

great story, and you sound like a really great couple with a future. SOunds like you are both nurturing each other.

Great example of getting what is important to you out of a relationship by taking the scary risk of being open and honest. I envy the young in that I think that alternate expressions are being slightly less stigmatized. Your story of success with 1 out of four suggests there is much room for improvement, but 25% is much better than one would think.

[gretchenD]

My girlfriend Nikki is a very caring person with a sense of humor and that is what I like about her.I care about her too and think about her everyday.I treat her with respect and I even open doors,pull out a chair for her,she sees I am a gentleman to her as my male side.

[Wenda]

Sounds like a keeper Gretchen. We are happy for you, and for her. My situation was similar, much later in life. I rediscovered dressing on a trip out of town, and bought a sexy shiny black skirt with lace-up sides, panties, bra, breasts, shoes, etc, and excitedly shared them with my GF when I got home. She was in a state of shock.
I realized that she thought that I had 'turned gay', lost her man, etc. and backed off. When we went on an out-of-town trip a couple of months later, she discovered Wenda as a new friend and shopping buddy., Good for me, but a bit challenging for the credit card. All the best. wenda

[TxKimberly]

Congrats!