Why does it seem natural?

[Satin_Lover_13]

I have been using lingerie for 33 years now. The past week being so upset I have been wearing a satin gown and robe after I shower when I get home from work, sleep in it and change to work clothes.

It feels soothing, relaxing, comfortable, natural and normal. This is ok being without a lady but when misses right comes along I need to stop because I can not afford to loose her. To me the person is more important then the clothes.

I could stay in it all day but I need to go to work. I hardly have any friends that I do things with, I work alone at night and I am the only one in the whole building. Plus I am never busy. I bounce off the walls. Because of this my lingerie has been holding me tight this week.

If I met another cd in my state of mind I would be temped if there were any sparks.


Please comment

[JulieC]

Humans are social creatures. There are a few outliers; people who can
routinely be without social interaction. But, the vast vast majority of us
suffer on one or more levels when not routinely involved in social
interactions, whether it be family, friends, church, work, what have you.

Yes, there can be weird psychological effects from social
deprivation :) No, you don't seem to be the Unabomber type :)
I think you're fine. Just a bit lonely.

[Talon DeRojo]

Slippy - Judging from the posts of the GGs here, you may be able to find a woman who would tolerate/accept/encourage your dressing. My experience has been that telling your partner early on save both time and heartache if the CDing is too hard to deal with/
Tal:happy:on

[JulieC]

Concur with Talon.

Various surveys on here show that 45-50% of the SOs of
the girls here are at least somewhat accepting. Of course,
this is an entirely unscientific sampling :) But getting a
scientific sampling would be difficult. If a woman is not
in a relationship with a CDer, it's more likely she'll be
unaccepting I think. Women don't grow up fantasizing
of Prince Charming wearing pantyhose.

That said, I think there's more women inclined to being
at least somewhat accepting than most people would
ever imagine. Even if it's only 20% of women, there's
still FAR more accepting women out there than there
are crossdressers (assuming 10% of the population is,
which is a serious stretch).

[Satin_Lover_13]

Oh you mean there are other people out there? I thought I was all alone. LOL The only people that keep me sane at night while I work is a team of support guys from another company that is in India. They know me better then anyone in my own comapny. LOL

My lingere right now feels like a loving, supportive woman that just wants to be with me.


Humans are social creatures. There are a few outliers; people who can
routinely be without social interaction. But, the vast vast majority of us
suffer on one or more levels when not routinely involved in social
interactions, whether it be family, friends, church, work, what have you.

Yes, there can be weird psychological effects from social
deprivation :) No, you don't seem to be the Unabomber type :)
I think you're fine. Just a bit lonely.

[JulieC]

Oh you mean there are other people out there? I thought I was all alone.

You are. We're just figments of your imagination! :lol:

[Satin_Lover_13]

I know a woman if i ever moved to her country she would not mind but I would. She is a soft woman and I would buy her the soft things and i would gladly enjoy them on her. I already got her 50 pieces of lingerie and clothes which was very fun picking out for her. Her is one lacy slip I got her from Fredericks.:D



Slippy - Judging from the posts of the GGs here, you may be able to find a woman who would tolerate/accept/encourage your dressing. My experience has been that telling your partner early on save both time and heartache if the CDing is too hard to deal with/
Tal:happy:on

Ok then back to my lingerie. What reality. :D


You are. We're just figments of your imagination! :lol:

Boss I am sick today. I am having a lingerie day. he he