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sarahpectoris
09-30-2007, 07:22 PM
I am very much in the closet and as a consequence cannot dress much. This can get frustrating as there are times when the need to express my feminine side becomes quite strong. Perhaps surprisingly I have found a very simple outlet in attending a salon to have my hair cut and having occasional massages.

The salon is unisex, so for someone terrified at being "outed" there are no problems (indeed it was my wife who first suggested I have a "proper" haircut from a stylist). However there is no question that the salon has a very feminine ambience and it is very easy to lose yourself in a daydream that you are just one of the girls being pampered! As someone who previously had only gone to traditional men's barbers, I cannot tell you how luxurious it felt having my hair shampooed and scalp massaged by the (female) stylist.

As for the shoulder and back massage, it ticks all the right boxes for me, and I suspect would do so for many CDs. In the warmth of the treatment room you are surrounded by all the smells, lotions and tools of the beauticians. I think that many CDs fantasise about female domination in its various forms. Although the massage itself is completely non-sexual, one can experience a mild sensation of being dominated when lying on the treatment couch with an attractive therapist in charge. The variety of sensations experienced in this situation including a wonderful feeling of warmth & protection (as the therapist wraps the towel around your body), relaxation, the feeling that one is being feminized, and sometimes a brief frisson as the therapist moves the towel and underpants down a little to reach your upper gluteal (buttock) muscles (one of my more sensitive areas).

Sorry, this is not meant to be pornographic. Rather for me, the sensations I can experience in the spa in several ways replicate many of the feelings that I hope to experience when cross-dressed.

trannie T
09-30-2007, 08:50 PM
I've had a couple of haircuts in salons but I've found it a lot more fun to have my makeup done,

sissystephanie
09-30-2007, 09:59 PM
I have been getting my hair cut in a salon for over 20 years, by the same stylist. She doesn't know that I am a CD. I keep telling her I want my hair to look like hers, shoulder length and blonde. But since I am bald on top, and don't have a lot even on the sides I guess it isn't going to happen. She tells me that if I can figure out how to grow it back she will style it like hers!:heehee:

I do love the ambience of the salon, and when I did have more hair used to get perms several times a year. My late wife liked Stephanie/me to have long curly hair.

Sissy/Stephanie

More Girl than man sometimes

Jamie001
09-30-2007, 11:16 PM
It is best to come out of the closet if you can swing it because it will be a very liberating experience for you. I love to get fem styles and colors at the hair salon and pedicures with red polish and the nail salon. I am treated like one of the girls even though I am in drab. It is so wonderful and is completely relaxing. After a day at the hair salon and the nail salon of being pampered and treated like a girl, I am so relaxed that it feels like I have been on the most wonderful and blissful vacation. This the the "Pink Fog" and it is so wonderful. It is also wonderful to display the results of your salon pampering for everyone to see and to be very proud of the results.


I am very much in the closet and as a consequence cannot dress much. This can get frustrating as there are times when the need to express my feminine side becomes quite strong. Perhaps surprisingly I have found a very simple outlet in attending a salon to have my hair cut and having occasional massages.

The salon is unisex, so for someone terrified at being "outed" there are no problems (indeed it was my wife who first suggested I have a "proper" haircut from a stylist). However there is no question that the salon has a very feminine ambience and it is very easy to lose yourself in a daydream that you are just one of the girls being pampered! As someone who previously had only gone to traditional men's barbers, I cannot tell you how luxurious it felt having my hair shampooed and scalp massaged by the (female) stylist.

As for the shoulder and back massage, it ticks all the right boxes for me, and I suspect would do so for many CDs. In the warmth of the treatment room you are surrounded by all the smells, lotions and tools of the beauticians. I think that many CDs fantasise about female domination in its various forms. Although the massage itself is completely non-sexual, one can experience a mild sensation of being dominated when lying on the treatment couch with an attractive therapist in charge. The variety of sensations experienced in this situation including a wonderful feeling of warmth & protection (as the therapist wraps the towel around your body), relaxation, the feeling that one is being feminized, and sometimes a brief frisson as the therapist moves the towel and underpants down a little to reach your upper gluteal (buttock) muscles (one of my more sensitive areas).

Sorry, this is not meant to be pornographic. Rather for me, the sensations I can experience in the spa in several ways replicate many of the feelings that I hope to experience when cross-dressed.

JoAnnDallas
10-01-2007, 08:53 AM
Originally Posted by sarahpectoris
I am very much in the closet and as a consequence cannot dress much. This can get frustrating as there are times when the need to express my feminine side becomes quite strong. Perhaps surprisingly I have found a very simple outlet in attending a salon to have my hair cut and having occasional massages.

I have found my nail salon to be a great place to express my feminine. Not only does my tech treat me like any other girl customer, but the other customers treat me like another girl customer too. I have never had another customer complain. In fact I have had great girl type conversations with other customers.