Has your SO ever pushed your femininity?

[Jennifer in CO]

OK...now that I have your attention...

Is your Wife, Girl/Boyfriend, SO, etc.. so comfortable with your fem side that they bought you a gift or just something, fully expecting you to wear or use it, but its so feminine theres no way you could ever do it/wear it without it being obvious its feminine?...and...did you do it/wear it anyway?

I made a post under wearing swimsuits about how I usually wear "tank-ini's" that are "boy-cut" and my wife bought me a new one that was anything but boycut and fully expected me to wear it...I did once, but I havent since..and she has been dissapointed that I haven't...

anyone else?

Jenn

[Paula A]

Since I have just recently had the talk with my wife, she isn't ready to buy me things yet, in fact we were out shopping Friday night and I hoped we were going to buy Paula something, but she was un comfortable with it, I could tell, so I paula came home empty handed.

However if she did, no matter what it was, no matter if it was my taste or not, no matter what, I would wear it and it would soon be my favorite becasue it came from her. Jeans, tops, panties whatever it was I would be sure to wear it as often as I could.

Jennifer, you are so lucky to have a wife like yours that will buy you things, Relize she is thinking about you and trying to help you feel comfortable with your femininity.

[Richelle]

Years ago my wife gave me a great birthday gift of us going out shopping and eating as girlfreinds. Since then she deos not want anything to do with it.

I wish I was a lucky as you that she would be willing to buy me women's anything.

Richelle

[Tiffy]

My wife is very ok with my fem side. She loves it as she is bisexual and says this gives her the best of both worlds. My wife buys me something almost every week. Even if it is only a pair of panties. Our styles go hand in hand and even if they didn't I would wear what she bought anyway. I wear it at home and under my clothes. I have drove to pick her up from work at 3am in the clothes she has bought me and nothing else. I would never do that in the day light.

Oh well I am rambling. To answer the question, I would wear it for sure not matter what.

Kisses, April

[Kimberly]

I'm hoping my girlfriend and I can go out shopping together soon - we recently went through the talk too... but she's bi, so it's okay!! :D

In fact, she likes it. Best of both worlds - as you say, April.

[Wenda]

My GF isn't 100% comfortable with wenda, but is open to the idea and has gone shopping with her a few times, gave her a make-up kit for Christmas along with several clip-on earrings, and did a make-over for me on Christmas holidays. Wenda only shows up at her place when she is invited. She is working through some really stressful stuff from a prior life, so wenda has stayed in the background, but as we are getting through it, she shows more energy. Hopefully when she is rested, Jaya, her slightly dominatrix alter ego will invite wenda over often. Can't push it. wenda.

[Inredsatin]

My wife has been very supportive from the very beginning when I told her about my crossdressing when we were dating. She has boughten me several outfits and when we go shopping she will comment " I think that would look good on you". She has helped with make-up and dressing and has given advice on how to act. She has on several occasions even suggested we go out enfemme shopping. I wouldnt trade he for the world. I think she enjoys having a girlfriend and a spouse
Brenda

[Tamara Croft]

Wasn't sure whether I (a GG) should post here, but anyway.... I wouldn't say I had pushed Tammys femininity, but I have encouraged her to look after her nails, look after her skin etc. But I do like making her up and doing her nails and I have sometimes gone round and took her a new nail polish or some makeup. I'm going to dye her eyelashes tomorrow..... they look so much longer when they are done too. If you ask me if I would push her femininity, I would have to say yes..... girlz have way more fun :D

Tamara x

[StephanieCD]

My ex-SO (for a very short while) found my body attractive - in a manly sense. She bought me "wife-beater" tank tops because she knew I liked them on girls but she found them attractive on muscular men. I believe it was a compromise on her part.

Perhaps the gesture is similar?

[~Tammy~]

Yes there are times when Tamara seems to get grumpy if I'm wearing trousers. She often asks me why I'm not dressing up. Why I haven't put my little skirt on to go to bed in as usual.
Even though we've been together 6 years I still have times when I feel a bit silly about the whole thing.
All I can say is. Push away babe. Push away!

[Tristen Cox]

Some of us should be so lucky :(

[Holly]

My wife is supportive and I love her for that... but alas has never purchased anything for me:( . Not only would I wear ANYTHING she brought for me, I'd die of sheer happiness!

[Olivia]

Yes, my wife has bought items for Olivia several times. Most recently, she brought home a "surprise"-a pair of clip-on earrings and a matching bracelet. She has bought clothes for me on a few occasions, including a new bra once. I think it depends on her "attitude of the moment" toward my crossdressing. At times she seems to be annoyed when I suggest shopping together and sometimes she has suggested we do just that. Of course I'd wear anything she brought home; I love her for thinking of me and I always try to show how appreciative I am. Later girls, Olivia

[ChristineRenee]

My wife Sue just recently bought me a second pair of slippers (ballerina style), pink ones to go along with the black ones she purchased earlier. Those are the only items she has ever bought for me though.

[Bernadina]

My wife buys me things all the time and expects me to wear them. Even lipstick of a shade that I can wear even when I'm not dressed. She is very supportive and we often shop together. Sometimes we buy matching outfits.

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[Jadeanne]

I'm one of the lucky ones!

My wife buys me panties and jewelry regularly, makeup a couple of times, and we go shopping regularly - thrift stores are a favorite and she's great with sizing in the thrift stores - only 3 that didn't fit in almost 3 years!

She also is my fashion advisor in catalog and online purchases.

Yes, I do buy things for her, always have but even more after I started dressing femme (in the house only) almost 3 years ago.

Jadeanne

[Sierra]

My wife keeps a look out for me and brings me dresses,pants,tops,bikinis,panties,bras and shoes.But I cant look completely feminine in front of our two young boys as we hope they dont do what dad does,yet they know dad likes girls stuff we limit what they see.And I worry about other kids teasing them about their daddy with tits. :confused:

[sarah]

My wife is also bi. so i guess that makes those of us lucky .She did once nearly get me in trouble when she made me wear a bra to work and later snapped the strap in front of someone i knew who gave me a very strange look .Iwould definately wear anything she bought me .I can allways say she made me ...or i lost a bet with her ....so i had to
I could find a million excuses ....Do it and worry later...

[Sweet Susan]

My wife claims to enjoy Susan, and she has bought me things over the years. I love it when she buys me something, but I often find that she buys me things I wouldn't necessarily buy for myself. Not that her selections are bad, just that they usually aren't what I would pick for myself. She does try, though, and I really appreciate that. It's a process.

[Stormgirl]

No,never had a gf that liked it or pushed me further into it. :(

[letsdance GG]

My wife is very ok with my fem side. She loves it as she is bisexual and says this gives her the best of both worlds. My wife buys me something almost every week. Even if it is only a pair of panties. Our styles go hand in hand and even if they didn't I would wear what she bought anyway. I wear it at home and under my clothes. I have drove to pick her up from work at 3am in the clothes she has bought me and nothing else. I would never do that in the day light.

Oh well I am rambling. To answer the question, I would wear it for sure not matter what.

Kisses, April

Bit off subject here though I would never "make" Rachael wear anything she didn't like. Our tastes are a bit different.

The off topic thing is your quote April. This happens to be my "motto" so to speak and it is attributed to a gentleman by the name of Peter Sage an entreprenuer and motivational speaker I adore. I plan to take that advice everyday :D Life is too short to be serious all the time so I enjoy every moment that I am blessed to have.

Good to see everyone as I have been gone for awhile taking care of my Mom
Gots alot of thread to read!. ;)

[Virginia]

You that have supportive SO's you best consider yourselves some of the luckiest people in the world!!! This "hobby" of ours is a real struggle for most is not all SO's!! I hope you will support them and communicate with them and love them, because they are loving you in a most special way!!!!
Virginia

[Fiona K]

Wasn't sure whether I (a GG) should post here, but anyway.... I wouldn't say I had pushed Tammys femininity, but I have encouraged her to look after her nails, look after her skin etc. But I do like making her up and doing her nails and I have sometimes gone round and took her a new nail polish or some makeup. I'm going to dye her eyelashes tomorrow..... they look so much longer when they are done too. If you ask me if I would push her femininity, I would have to say yes..... girlz have way more fun :D

Tamara x

Lucky Tammy!
Fiona
xx

[Sharon]

My friend has bought me several items over the last month or so, and she tends to buy me skirts and blouses that are much more tailored and form-fitting than I'm used to. She also has this "annoying" tendency of buying items a size smaller than what fits me now, her way of encouraging me to continue with my weight loss, which she knows I've been working on. It is only in the last two weeks that she has actually seen me dressed and has gone through my closets and bureaus, telling me what she likes and dislikes. If it was up to her, I would dispose of about ninety percent of what I own because I like loose tops and comfortable shoes, and she thinks I should emphasize my femininity.

[robyn]

My wife found out some time ago and said if I want to dress then it will OK. It will also be any day I am home. That is a lot as I have home office. She has put down some rules. I must shower put on stockings, heels, bra, panties in the morning. Then she does my makeup. Complete with eyes, blush, lipstick and so on. She is very good at it. I then put my nightgown back on and we go downstairs for coffee. After that she decides what I will wear for the day. Always conservtive. Never flats or slacks. Today it is a very tight girdle, red slip, red skirt with a wide red belt, white blouse. Pearl necklace and bracelet. Long clip on earings. Auburn wig. Stockings are suntan. Red slingbacks. My nails are not long but just enough so they look good when polished. When dressed I must act as a women. Legs together or crossed. Small steps when I walk. She works on directions all the time. All conversations are about women things. Fashion, emotion, creams, shopping, etc.
If one of her friends happens to show up I quickly go to my office upstairs and at that point usally change to male attire. Just in case. We do not go out dressed. She does enjoy that I sleep in a long night gown. As she said if I want to dress then Ok we will do it correctly or not at all.

[DonnaT]

First, welcome to the forum Robyn.

My wife doesn't push my feminity, not that I have any anyway. I'm sure she'd rather push me the other way, but doesn't do that either. Thank's Honey.

She does buy me fem things every once in a while though. The last was a very nice leopard print nighty.

[flicka]

Indeed he has! Bought me clothes, cosmetics and even took lessons in applying make-up (for me - not him!)

I think he goes to the top of the class - or get's a gold star at least!

[RachelDenise]

My SO has done nothing to encourage my femininity and hasn't wanted to discuss the issue in a very long time. If somewhere would freeze over and the unthinkable happened (she bought me something), I would probably wear it everywhere and damn the consequences!

[ToniB]

Same here Rachel. I know what you mean. But she's still the best woman in the world!

ToniB

[Di]

In a past relationship....I did encourage and push a bit and bought lots of things I wanted her to wear ect.....but for now i,m not in a relationship....sigh...

[robyn]

New day. After my normal routine of showering, putting on my stockings, bra, panties, heels and my nightgown. My wife applied all my makeup. Then downstairs for coffee. She added two things today. We do not go out dressed. She still feels women carry a purse. Therefore I should also. She gave me one of hers. With a long shoulder strap. She also filled it with normal items. It does include additional makeup. She wants me to see to it that my makeup looks good at all times. She also told me I am to wear a maxi pad for the balance of this week. Advising it is something women must use. If I am going to be a women then this is now included. She seems to be having to much fun with this.
Today the clothes she picked are a long wine colored skirt with a matching blouse. A black slip. She knows I love pearls so my necklace is a long strand of pearls. The same pearl bracelet as yesterday and pearl clip ons. Four inch black sling backs. She is showing me exactly how she want me to wear the pad and how to carry the purse and I must be careful not to walk away without it.
She did surpise me. She excused herself. Returned later also dressed in a long skirt and heels. With all of her makeup on. She said she just felt like doing that today. She looks great.
My love to you all Robyn

[ToniB]

Leta,
Leave Ohio and come to England to practise on me.....NOW....Please!!
But don't tell my wife!

ToniB

[robyn]

I have only recently found this site. It's terrific. Also at home there have been some surprises. If you have read my prior posts then you know part of it. Today my wife totaly surprised me. She had come down dressed in stockings, heels, long dress, etc. We looked similar today. I was surprised as she had not done that prior. A short time later she called for me to come upstairs. She had removed her skirt, blouse, and panties. She had already redone her makeup with more lipstick then I am used to seeing. She asked me to do the same and also remove my slip. We sat at the edge of the bed. She slipped off her heels and then mine. The rest was extremly nice.
I asked later what brought that on as we had not come near this with me dressed. She said that she felt I had come a long way with how I look, act and respond as a women. She had thought about this and wanted to try it.
Even the extra lipstick was part of the overall feeling. She said she would like to try it again sometime. She said I was very gentle but would I work on being more of a women next time. I am not sure what she means. I have to work on that one. Any one with ideas? I am listening.

Love Robyn

[Kimberly]

Pushing my femininity? No.
Taking advantage of my femininity? Yes. :)

[robyn]

Today started as it has each day recently. We had just finished our coffee.
Went up stairs. I have an extensive amout of female clothes and shoes I have put together over the years. My wife went into them and found an evening gown. I have worn it a couple of times for maybe an hour at a time.
Today this is what she decided I woud wear. Along with black stockings, four inch sandles and some very fancy jewelery (from QVC).
She said women must wear heels and gowns for long durations at weddings, parties, etc. She wanted me to experience that part of fem living. Stappy sandles are part of it. She also asked that I carry one of her clutch bags. It would fit the dress. The gown is very slinky.With wide shoulder straps. Black with white lace across the bust line. There is a side slit to the thigh.
I must say I feel and look like a women. I would not pass if I went out. Even so the change in my overall apperance is to die for. A little realality must set in. I have a business to run. I am in my home office and must get to work. It is still odd to have to remove an earing when on the phone. It is also great to look down and see my leg outside the slit and be able to rub my hand on stockings over smooth legs. I prefer pumps or slingbacks. The sandles are different.
I am very used to four inch heels. I have some work to do with the sandles.
I am up and down the stairs quite a bit during the day. Today will be a interesting. Along with lifting my gown I also must carry my handbag. Again to my surprise my wife has put on a very lovley dress and blouse and she his wearing stockings and heels. her makeup is perfect. She says it's for me.

to all who read this My love Robyn

[robyn]

Another morning. The thrill is still here. Today I have my stockings, four inch black pumps, strapless bra a very tight open bottom girdle. I have been requested to wear a nightgown. This one is light pink with narrow shoulder straps the crisscross in the back. It is ankle length. My makeup was applied very heavy today. Eyeliner extremly dark as is my eyeshadow. False eyelashes and very red lipstick. My lipstick in normally a conservitive color.
For the first time long press on nail were applied. Using the glue that comes in the package. This part is a first for me. Will have to see if they cause problems while I work.
My wife just came down and is dressed very similar. Her makeup is as heavy as mine. She has not said anything about her reason at this point. I am sure she has something in mind. She has said she would like to restyle one of my wigs on Saturday. I will be wearing it while this is done. I am sure I will look delightful in curlers.
to all my Love Robyn

[Holly]

Robyn... interesting thread. Let us know how things are going!

[Teddie]

My wife is very supportive. I always end up with a gift for my feminine side on my birthday, and Christmas. She loves my feminine side. Some times I wonder if she's a latent lesbian :D (Yes, she’ll read this, and I’ll get in trouble.)

[Tonia]

In a past relationship....I did encourage and push a bit and bought lots of things I wanted her to wear ect.....but for now i,m not in a relationship....sigh...
Leta you ....are after my own Heart...:D

[robyn]

After coffee today it was decided I would wear a bright yellow skirt. Comes down to just above the knee. A silk sleevless top with a tunic that matches the skirt. Suntan colored stockings. Four inch slingbacks, black, my favorite.
A gold braclet on each wrist. Two rings on each hand. A gold necklace and very long heavy earings. Having trouble with the earings. Clip on and they keep coming off. The press on nails from yesterday are doing well. The very small and tight girdle does wonders. Plus is feels great.
My wife made good on her promise to do my hair. She resecured my wig. Put my hair up in curlers. All kinds of combing and spraying. I stayed in curlers for a while. It turned out my hair did not come out the way is was intended.
I have changed wigs and she will try again on the one that is off. A new pair of very high sandles just arrived. Another on line purchase. I guess it will be sandles tommorrow.
We both like vintage clothes. Found some nice stuff on line. We decided to go to a large consigment store and then to dinner. It's going to be back to my male attire in a short while.

My love and my best to all Robyn

[Julie York]

We all look forward to seeing the photos Robyn. :rolleyes:

Amazing story. Almost beyond belief.

[Sophie]

my Fiance and i are the same dress size so when we go out shopping we go out for US! I serve as her fashion consultant as i am far better at putting together outfits than she is! Unfortunatly it's usually me that ends up paying and her that gets to wear it everyday! life can be so unfair sometimes!! Only joking, I know i'm one of the lucky ones and i make sure she knows it as often as possible!

Sophie

[robyn]

A short time back my wife agreed to my dressing at home. A while after that I came across this site. I did not contribute my information. Then this thread came up. I decided to post. After that I started a thread asking if you would dress if there were rules included. Got very nice replies on both.
Yesterday I got an email from a very well meaning member. This person said most could see that what I was saying was just fantasy that many of us have gone through. This peson, with the interest of the forum in mind, told me the forum is not for fantasy it is for real issues and I would start to get negative mail. I have reread my posts. I can see how people would think that way. Also remember this forum reaches many many people and to think that different situations do not happen with some of these people is being short sighted. I am new here. I respect the thoughts of the person who wrote the email. It was done in private so it would not insult me in a post. It had the intrest of the forum in mind. It shows this forum has some very good people out there. If I have insulted even one person or abused the meaning the forum it will not happen again. I thank all who read about my wife and myself.
I thank all who replied. The rest will be kept within my home.

Robyn

[stephanie1000]

My wife has of yet to purchase anything specificlly for steph but thats ok she is still trying to get used to the idea and i'm fine with this. She has on the other hand purchased makeup that is more designed for my complection which was very helpful. And she does like it when i do her nail, Just says they look better with the stedier hand. Well thats all love the thread :)

[JocelynG]

If anything I have pushed my wife with my femininity.It would be a dream come true for her to do that but the most she has put up with is helping me with my wig and painting my toenails.

[michelle-jean]

you should be very happy.ijust ask my wife to help me with my makeup and she is glad to help.or i ask her what she thinks about the clothes i am going to ware that day and we go shopping for michelle jean.and have a good time and we shop for her to.it is fun.stay happy.michelle jean

[samanthajay]

my gf buys me things all the time
:D

[sinny8what]

I've only been with my gf for 4 months but its been wonderful she hasent bought me anything but she has dressed me up in what i already have. we have a shoping trip planned as money permits and i hope its soon she has such good taste i cant wait to get her dressing me.

[robin]

not yet but I am working on it I just hope I dont screw things up because she is a great gal and I am trying to take things slow. wish me luck!